Originally posted by: chicksoup
Mandy,
It certainly went out of control./..
And here I am seeing a parallel between Aditya and Shravan... Pray the forum forgives me..But..I have to point this out...
For Shravan what he said about his intimacy with her did not strike as lie fabricated to defame her...That was not his intention at all..
Same way, for Adi...It had to be pointed out that his outburst was tantamount to sexual abuse...He really hadn't intended it that way...I don't feel sorry for the guy at all...Just that if he doesn't turn a Faizu, he will be Shravan's dear brother by the end of the show..It is best we learn not to despise him...😆
Regarding his expectations from a wife...at least it was better than a wife should warm her husband's bed by Shravan...😆...So if Shravan said that in a moment of angry outburst and we can forgive him, Adi should be allowed the same luxury.😉At least this guy had been genuine about helping her with PCT and had stepped around with caution..It is only when his sorted out mom gave the green signal that he went totally berserk!😆
Chick I am sorry to particularly quote you here but I would just wanna say that somehow Shravan's "women should only warm a man's bed" and Aditya's molestation on Sumo CAN NEVER BE compared. NEVER! Because well that's the difference between what you say and what you do...the difference between a moment of rage and a thought literally put to action. A person X might say he will "kill" a certain Y but just saying that by X doesnt make him stand at the same ground to a person Z who literally tried to murder Y. I hope that makes some sense. What Shravan said he did not himself do it on Sumo or any other girl. Had that "woman should only warm a mans bed" really been his thought process he would surely have done something with that saree chic who was ready to warm his bed that too without asking for any gifts in return. So there is a difference in saying and actually acting true to your words.
Similarly Had Aditya only tried to persuade Sumo to confess love to him or only 'verbally' demanded a kiss without forcing or pushing her it wouln't be anything wrong for that could be categorized as his 'sexual expectation from his wife' But when his expectation transformed from verbal demand to physical force without her consent, he became a criminal which Shravan can never be just because he "spoke" something scandalous.
And I'd say tongue is probably the most notorious of the senses nature has given us...for a third person It can reflect so much about someone's nature, thoughts, character and what not when actually the truth might be a person only used it as a channel to get rid of his bottled hurt and anger. 😛
Sim,
If Suman had answered that call she could have saved this embarrassment on her nanu and herself...Thank god no one is putting the blame on her!😆