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simran_singh_24

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Mandy, I'm with ChickSoup on this.

I would like to hear from Adhi what was he thinking. I never found him creepy.May be because of the way Ronit has played it, his crush for Sumo was more of a high school boy's infatuation for a young teacher, than a lusty guy.

IMO, Adhi feels he has been fooled by ShraMan, deceived by Sumo. I went and watched the scene again now.He goes off the hinge progressively," tell me 'I love you", give me a kiss ,I'll get it at any cost"what followed was ugly and unacceptable.He didn't want a kiss after all and was just trying to extract some confession from Sumo about her past.

Like Soup said, he hasn't realised what he has done, that's why he could stand straight and attempt an explanation to Mommy dear,before he got silenced. I liked it.

Adhi can't be cheap according to the story.If Adhi is bad, his Dad is bad and if his dad is bad, Ramnath is right and Nirmala is wrong. that' soap logic.

I'll wait for few episodes to hear out Adhi before judging him.ATM, his method was wrong, his intent doesn't seem wrong to me.

P.S- I'm not defending his actions, forumwasis don't bray for my blood.😆

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chicksoup

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan
@ Soup:

Sorry mate but I cant agree that Shravan's words are the only reason for this behavior. They were the "Trigger". But we saw many times him saying things like "If there was some relation in your past...muje Bohot Bura lagtha!"

WHAT was that about? Also, WHY did he continue to taunt Shravan and rub salt in the wound? If he knew the girl Shravan was talking about was Suman, is it not sadistic of him to continue to taunt him and needle him using the fact that HE, Aditya was marrying that same girl?

His behavior in the bridal wear shop. Pointing out that Shravan should not be present when they purchase their "personal things?" Whatever that is? Maybe he meant lingerie and nightwear etc? What was all that about? He has been hinting for days that the past equation of ShraMan is an issue to him. They both refused to discuss their past relationship with him. Then he had a choice. He either accepts their silence, or he backs out if it bothers him that much? But he did not. He just stayed taunting them both! Then finally Shravan told him what he had been gagging to hear. The "juicy gossip and low down" of his relationship with Suman! What he was subjected to, he totally deserved. But Suman did not! Sadly she was made a victim in this too!

Then he thinks that he should confront Suman for "lying" to him, and not telling him about her past. The method he chose was intimidation and trying to force her into some sort of intimate act. Yes he left there when Nirmala told him to. What else was he going to do? Tell everyone, "Shravan told me he and Suman slept together, so I was trying to force Suman into admitting the same!" How would THAT have gone down?

He has shown that his thinking is pretty base and low when it comes to this subject. If he cant accept a woman if she had feelings for another man, loved him, been his GF or whatever before HE met her...that's HIS problem! Go to some remote place in the middle of nowhere where women have no chance of meeting a man, and then maybe, just maybe he will meet a woman who is 25 years old, who has never had any sort of relationship with a man before you! He needs to get real. His actions were pathetic. Cheap! Shravan's image taunted him in the mirror, and then when Shravan saw him he looked at him with sarcasm. In his shoes I would have looked at Aditya the same way! The same way Aditya has been looking at Shravan since he found out about Nirmala, and then Suman!

We will just have to agree to disagree on this one buddy! :)

Shravan's words are not the only reason..but it was the trigger..the climax to a script Kamini had written...We have to see all the players. That is why I said we shouldn't be too quick to judge him..

Also, He was HONEST with Suman..He said I'd feel bad if you had a relationship in the past, because this is the first one for me...so I am glad you confirmed there hasn't been any...However he had asked her quite sincerely and explained what kind of a person he was...That was the first chance he had given Suman to back out...

Subsequently he had noted how Suman was contradicting her words..and his curiosity was aroused..What Shravan did was CONFIRM it..That had a huge part to play in what transpired..In Shravan's defense, he had not known Aditya had already addressed this issue with Suman and he was essentially helping him in building up on the evidence against her...

When Adi taunted Shravan..Part of it was because he had bad moputhed Nirmala..and partly because he couldn't stand it that Kamini had actually been right..

Even after the mehendi, he had told Shravan if there was something he had to share with him..he had wanted a confession then and there..Shravan mistook it as him gloating over the prize he had grabbed from him...he thought he was acting on the mother factor, whereas Adi was acting on the Sumo factor...Shravan missed that..as does most of the forum, I feel.

I'd really like to know what was on Adi' smind when he confronted Suman? Was he planning to extract a confession out of her, spit on her and say he'd marry her only because of his mother?

We will never know! He simply went overboard!

The fact that seeing Shravan there only confirmed everything and he hadn't even felt ashamed points to the fact that the molestation factor had not even entered his head. Nirmala had to tell him that!

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chicksoup

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: simran_singh_24
Mandy, I'm with ChickSoup on this.

I would like to hear from Adhi what was he thinking. I never found him creepy.May be because of the way Ronit has played it, his crush for Sumo was more of a high school boy's infatuation for a young teacher, than a lusty guy.

IMO, Adhi feels he has been fooled by ShraMan, deceived by Sumo. I went and watched the scene again now.He goes off the hinge progressively," tell me 'I love you", give me a kiss ,I'll get it at any cost"what followed was ugly and unacceptable.He didn't want a kiss after all and was just trying to extract some confession from Sumo about her past.

Like Soup said, he hasn't realised what he has done, that's why he could stand straight and attempt an explanation to Mommy dear,before he got silenced. I liked it.

Adhi can't be cheap according to the story.If Adhi is bad, his Dad is bad and if his dad is bad, Ramnath is right and Nirmala is wrong. that' soap logic.

I'll wait for few episodes to hear out Adhi before judging him.ATM, his method was wrong, his intent doesn't seem wrong to me.

P.S- I'm not defending his actions, forumwasis don't bray for my blood.😆

Thanx, Sim...

I feel bad for the writers...when the Adi- Nirmala factor plays out in full, this forum is going to explode, I feel! 😆

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simran_singh_24

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: chicksoup

Thanx, Sim...

I feel bad for the writers...when the Adi- Nirmala factor plays out in full, this forum is going to explode, I feel! 😆

Soup, I hope the writers don't let us down and make Adhi the bad brother a la Faizu😆

Adhi did say time out ShraMan, I guess, he'll try to expose them.

@bold- Yes, this is just the beginning.

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chicksoup

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: simran_singh_24

Soup, I hope the writers don't let us down and make Adhi the bad brother a la Faizu😆

Adhi did say time out ShraMan, I guess, he'll try to expose them.

@bold- Yes, this is just the beginning.

🤢 Faizu!😭

3 more months to go...If they go more than that, we can watch out for Faizu! 🤔

9 months is a good time.😉

Aditya being Nirmala's son shouldn't..But then he disappointed me by not confiding in his mother...Yesterday his actions made Nirmala bend down in front of Ramnath and Shravan...He is not going to forgive himself or Shravan for that.

I hope he apologises to Suman...I hope Nirmala tells him she knows Suman is not a person like that ...

Or they could make him vengeful...But he has zero feelings for bhaabhiji now for sure...😆

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naaznin

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Posted: 9 years ago

#26

wonderful post👏

but i dnt undrstnd dat why no police case is filed...lawyer nanu, friend and uncle sb pagal he kya...aiwii jaane diya...dis d thing i hate in shows...if dey will show to file FIR den at least audience will learn these things dat wat r rights of girls in such situation and nt be shy of society...

im not much into moral science learnings in shows but criminal acts shud be punished and ppl definitely learn from it...its lyk spreading awarenss

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Mandy

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Posted: 9 years ago

#27

@ Soup & Sim:

You guys know I was no Adhi hater. In fact I saw what he was bringing to the table. But this act of his, and not just the act but the things he said to Suman really pissed me off.

Even I dont think "assault" was what he intended to do. He was actually trying to talk to her, then intimidate her and get a rise out of her, by accusing her. He said "You lied to me", "You are acting all shy", "You do everything with someone before marriage, and then say stop to your would-be husband" etc.

Now were these lines said so that Suman picks up his drift, or is this what he actually thinks? Also, IF Suman had known what he was referring to, then she would have got it. But she didn't know what the hell he was talking about. I think the situation simply went out of hand. He was yelling and following Suman around and then finally when they fell on the bed she was screaming in earnest! She was feeling threatened and didn't know what had got into Aditya. She as to be expected wanted to get out of there and she panicked.

I think the whole thing just went out of control. I am sure molestation was not the paramount thought in Aditiya's mind. But now everyone thinks his intent was to assault her, but that is not the case, and I get it too!

Even I hope that we dont get Faiz 2.0 here coz it is really not needed. We need to see Aditya explaining and rationalising what was actually happening there, at least to Nirmala. Then he needs to apologise to Suman and tell her what happened before with Shravan. Then let HER decide how she deals with a man she trusted as much as she trusted Shravan! But the things he was saying to Suman is what really got me, and if he actually MEANT those things, then I stand by my new found loathing for him!

But unfortunately he is not alone in this way of thinking, and it does not necessarily make him a villain. He is just narrow-minded I guess for a guy with all the "trappings" of modernity! He was shown from the start as a "smart ass" type and he over steps the mark as well. He had some good scenes where he showed he was an OK guy. But this attitude of his with the over possessive behavior is off-putting and that is what escalated into his need to "Bust" ShraMan at their denials, and then do the Harkat that he did in the end! But let's hope for a well rounded story and not some cheap villain plotting story! Had enough of those!

Edited by MrDarcyfan - 9 years ago

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simran_singh_24

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Posted: 9 years ago

#28

@Mandy- If only Sumo had known what Adhi was going on about, things would've been different.

In a way, the cancelled wedding was a reality check for the Ahujhas. Their bubble was burst. Adhi-ShraMan triangle is more complicated than most.
Whether Adhi adopted a cheap way or he is cheap will have to be clarified for me.

@Soup- where was the time for him to talk to his Mom?After the body blow he rushed to Sumo's house& turned away and tried calling her( making him suspicious may be?) & crashed.
Nimmi would've brushed it aside in her usual silly way.
there's no love lost here. He has to avenge his Mom's defeat.I think, he was thrown out before she knelt down or was he peeping from somewhere?😆

Agree with you both, No Faizu!

Cvs have added another villain to ShraMan story with lot of potential.Enough stuff for next six months.😆

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Spnfan

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Posted: 9 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: chicksoup

🤢 Faizu!😭

3 more months to go...If they go more than that, we can watch out for Faizu! 🤔

9 months is a good time.😉

Aditya being Nirmala's son shouldn't..But then he disappointed me by not confiding in his mother...Yesterday his actions made Nirmala bend down in front of Ramnath and Shravan...He is not going to forgive himself or Shravan for that.

I hope he apologises to Suman...I hope Nirmala tells him she knows Suman is not a person like that ...

Or they could make him vengeful...But he has zero feelings for bhaabhiji now for sure...😆

How can nirmala be sure that sumo abd shravan were not in a relation?? She wasnt there and even if ib real shraman did had a relation in today's time there are high chances that they will do.it... Shraman are 27-28and 25-26 respectively and doing it will just ve taking their relation to another level and they won't consider it to be some bad thing or sinful thing to do.. Both are childhood friends and sumo is vert much comfortable with shravan... Being intimate will be just part of the relationship...

Also.being intimate in a relation doesnot make sumo ' that kind of person' and aditya has no right to question her regarding that..

Aditya surely needs to apologize to sumo...

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Silverrmoon

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Wonderful post Mandy ...I agree with you, no matter how much ever Aditya may feel instigated, it was him alone who was responsible for his actions. This is not just on the wedding day alone, but he did try to rub salt to suman and shravn's wounds over and over. Be it in the mall or in the party.

If he did feel they are hiding something, he had an option to cancel his wedding, but he didn't chose that nor did he accept that there is a possibility if Shrvn n sumo having a relationship which was in the past. But the kind of mentality Aditya had was sick indeed, thinking that women are some kind of objects whom he can use them according to his wish n pleasure.

No matter what others might say, in the end the option lies with a person himself what actions he would take, that applies to Aditya or anyone in the show. The thoughts decide one's behavior which in turn shall become a habit. The mind itself can make a person go in a constructive or destructive direction, aditya chose the later one.

Edited by pearl100 - 9 years ago

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