No Butchering of Swara by CVs! Justifications! - Page 4

I think Sakshi what the majority of people are failing to understand is even if Swara is back to the Swara Bose days doesn't mean she will act the same way! There is one truth associated to it. The girl is in SHOCK. And when someone is in SHOCK, they cannot behave the way they use to. I am not a doctor here but this is human psychology we are talking about. When someone is suffering from a mental trauma and is in SHOCK, they wouldnt trust everyone (and yes, that I can also include the family). The patients would only trust people they are comfortable with and who they THINK they can trust. And right now, Sahil is that person for Swara. He is her savior. We as audience know that he is bad. Swara doesn't. She is not some antaryaami that she can predict that this guy is gonna be obsessive over me so let me just say bye-bye to him. In fact that would have been so unusual. Swara is being Swara when she is trusting Sahil because for god sake she owes her life to him. And when it comes to manhandling, Swara doesn't yet see it. WHY? Because again, she doesn't know that Sahil is bad or is obsessive over her. She thinks of him as a friend and thats about it. And yes, this pulling thing amongst friends is common. Swara is surprised no doubt. But her doubt about Sahil has not REACHED that level yet that she will question him on anything he does. Similarly, even if her family is telling her that Sanskaar is very nice and she was very happy with him, she hasnt REACHED that level yet where her heart can win over her brain. We can clearly see that she is having conflicting feelings about Sanskaar but she is confused. Else she wouldnt have been feeling bad for him leaving the house or her being confused on why she is not happy that she wont have to face him in MM. Her brain or her trauma that she is in right now is not letting her heart win over her brain. She hasnt seen enough of Sanskaar for even jump to the conclusion that he is nice. She needs to observe him closely and that has hardy happened. One night is not enough. Its not that she doesn't want to believe those pictures that she saw or she doesn't want to believe her mom, its more of her mental condition right now is not letting her do so. She needs time to understand and observe Sanskaar before her heart can finally win over her brain. Yes, Swara is someone who believes in what she sees. People can say when her family is constantly telling her that he is good and the pictures are there as EVIDENCE, why can't she still believe them? Simple answer. She is not THERE yet. She needs to see Sanskaar that way to even for a change let her heart win over her brain. Her memory is stuck to that one day.

Originally posted by: .IamShonali.

I think Sakshi what the majority of people are failing to understand is even if Swara is back to the Swara Bose days doesn't mean she will act the same way! There is one truth associated to it. The girl is in SHOCK. And when someone is in SHOCK, they cannot behave the way they use to. I am not a doctor here but this is human psychology we are talking about. When someone is suffering from a mental trauma and is in SHOCK, they wouldnt trust everyone (and yes, that I can also include the family). The patients would only trust people they are comfortable with and who they THINK they can trust. And right now, Sahil is that person for Swara. He is her savior. We as audience know that he is bad. Swara doesn't. She is not some antaryaami that she can predict that this guy is gonna be obsessive over me so let me just say bye-bye to him. In fact that would have been so unusual. Swara is being Swara when she is trusting Sahil because for god sake she owes her life to him. And when it comes to manhandling, Swara doesn't yet see it. WHY? Because again, she doesn't know that Sahil is bad or is obsessive over her. She thinks of him as a friend and thats about it. And yes, this pulling thing amongst friends is common. Swara is surprised no doubt. But her doubt about Sahil has not REACHED that level yet that she will question him on anything he does. Similarly, even if her family is telling her that Sanskaar is very nice and she was very happy with him, she hasnt REACHED that level yet where her heart can win over her brain. We can clearly see that she is having conflicting feelings about Sanskaar but she is confused. Else she wouldnt have been feeling bad for him leaving the house or her being confused on why she is not happy that she wont have to face him in MM. Her brain or her trauma that she is in right now is not letting her heart win over her brain. She hasnt seen enough of Sanskaar for even jump to the conclusion that he is nice. She needs to observe him closely and that has hardy happened. One night is not enough. Its not that she doesn't want to believe those pictures that she saw or she doesn't want to believe her mom, its more of her mental condition right now is not letting her do so. She needs time to understand and observe Sanskaar before her heart can finally win over her brain. Yes, Swara is someone who believes in what she sees. People can say when her family is constantly telling her that he is good and the pictures are there as EVIDENCE, why can't she still believe them? Simple answer. She is not THERE yet. She needs to see Sanskaar that way to even for a change let her heart win over her brain. Her memory is stuck to that one day.

Swara not being able to trust Shomi is completely justifiable. No matter how better interest Shomi had in hiding this piece of information from Swara, it was still the BIGGEST truth of her life. And its not that the moment she found out she was married to him, she went to SHomi and started yelling and saying "I cannot trust you". She mustered up the courage to talk to Sanskaar (who supposedly according to her happens to be someone who tried killing her) and saw the goons and bam, her fear about him increased 10 folds. She is angry, disgusted. She feels betrayed that her family never told her about her wedding with the same person. And Swara is not someone who believes in what someone else says. She believes in what SHE sees. She saw him with the goons and her doubts for him were confirmed. If that wasnt the case, Swara would have believed Sanskaar easily when he has said that Kavita was trying to create rift between them. She thought he was wrong and was just being 'obsessed' over her only because she ONLY SAW masi hating on her and her mom. And all her doubts about MASI were getting confirmed. And yes, as Sakshi pointed out, that their was no heart to heart conversation with the mum and daughter. And even the mention of Sanskaar right now is freaking her out or making her angry to the level that she ends up feeling dizzy. Thats why people are not trying to approach her with full information yet. Not even Sanskaar.

Swara is struggling to listen to her heart right now. And thats why we have Kishan, who being a friend, is gonna be a driving force for her to finally start listening to her heart (which only beats for Sanskaar).

Forgot to add: Nice post Sakshi!!

shonali luv u dear🤗perfectly put.i m feeling same but cudn't put in words properly.ur post did taht.⭐️

thanks for this post sakshi just read now.i don't like swara bashing when cvs mess smthng smhow...honestly I too want sm small things but I take it as pinch of salt tht cvs do mistakes even in awesome tracks..i just hope her n sanskar union will be perfect n we all get those things in small small package slowly thts y want this kissan track to run for more weeks as iam loving it..he has been a reason of my happiness too with swara

Originally posted by: tiny15

shonali luv u dear🤗perfectly put.i m feeling same but cudn't put in words properly.ur post did taht.⭐️

we all r 4getting shes still in trauma.

ppl saying that if its just a week or few days then how cum she s roaming wid he r new found frnd.this logic is similar 2 ragz saying 2 laksh that if sum1 is in pain then how can they laugh or b happy?(rembr ragz showing laksh swasan outside tent washing utensils 2gether)

but lets leave it.u wrote it all wat i wanted 2 & in much better way.

Shonaaa!!!*hugs*
When I am not able to put it well to convince all, you just put it all perfect. Exactly!! She is in a shock. And I am a psychology student, hence saying...people in traumatic situations tend to forget or not even think about the reason of the shock. This is what she is doing.
In such a condition, she needs a support and when she found all supporting Sanskaar and hiding such a BIG truth from her, she retaliated. Perfectly normal!!
Right now on phone.
Will reply soon guys!!

Originally posted by: LoveSonu2408

Nice post sakshi.
Ok,let me tell u m nt good in words,so simply i say i ll go with lanny's pov xcept swara's scolding part.i cn undrstnd swara's reactn hw & why swara scold kissan in badi & MM.xcept ths i agree with lanny...

Well all will have different POV right?? As you think!!
And I don't completely disagree with Lanny. Her post is equally reasonable, but my approach is a bit different.

Originally posted by: Red.orchid

Am totally agree with u TM👍🏼

Thank you!!

Hi Sakhshi! A very sensible post! I agree with most of it. Read some comments of this thread and though I don't agree with all of those posts but really enjoyed reading different povs. Just one thing I would like to add about the part where Swara scolded Kisan for playing with his harmonium. For any musician harmonium or any other musical instruments are not just instrument, they actually worship those instruments. In fact in Bengali culture we worship musical instruments during Saraswati puja. So when Swara scolded Kisan when he was dancing with harmonium, it actually made sense to me. He showed disrespect according to me and her anger was not illogical. All the teachers are not soft spoken. I am in teaching profession and many of my senior colleagues are pretty strict. In MM he clearly tried to cheat and come on Sanskaar knows very well what music means to Swara. He took a huge risk. Swara agreed to be Kisan's partner in spite of knowing the guy is not that good and she wanted him to learn music. I think she felt hurt because she actually thought he is an innocent and honest person. And what he did during the puja was a shock for her. I guess more than anger she felt hurt.
But it's high time Cvs should concentrate on Swara's pov. She should get some FBs or clues about her past. Talent hunt competition is okay but along with it they should show some progress in SwaSan relationship.