should dhaani come back in viplav's life?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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yep...this is show with the so-called impossible love of viplav so she should come back... and viplav being a MAN he should be forgiven , a MAN can show his MANLINESS by kicking out his wife who could be suffering from depression if she misbehaves with his respected family members though those family members are all privileged to abuse her day in n day out...ofcourse a WIFE should not consider herself as part of his family she should always keep in mind she is living there at the mercy of her HUSBAND ,afterall WOMEN are borne to take abuse so they should keep finding excuses for their husband's ill behaviour ... *rant over:P*

viplav baba has broken the marriage after having enough of her (afterall a mother can never be wrong about her child ,Kt did warn dhaani many times why vip is behind her and how she is a mismatch to her son) ..imagine what if dhaani was really suffering from depression n doing the weird things as kam said to vip ,now with vip breaking the marriage and on top of that the burden of pregnancy she would have gone mad totally and with pandits like pc around she won't be allowed to stay in vidhwa ashram as well since dhaani is not a vidhwa...how much more dl who herself is very poor would have supported dhaani,it would have almost ended up with mentally ill dhaani begging on streets with vip's child and the reason is none but our hero viplav baba...he has literally made his wife a prey to the lusty eyes of those who were already maligning her of how vipav has just used her n threw her out so they can have their turn now...

with their widow remarriage concept becoming a total failure with the failed marriages of both suv and dhaani the show still has given a message how in today's world women empowerment is more important than a woman finding a new life in a man through remarriage as if women living independently is not an option...and how poor widows like suv and dhaani should not be carried away with the words from men like vip and tp where one has openly showed his intentions, the other who was hailed as a hero also succumbed to the pressure eventually realizing she is not his perfect match thereby ditching her like a piece of dirt,,viplav was never a god but he proved he is worse than a average man ...
once bitten twice shy, with the usp of the character viplav failing they can even end up dhaani as an inspirational character who refuses to go back to viplav and continues to work for the upliftment of widows as a single mom thereby doing full justice to the theme of women empowerment ...(yep...but this is ikrs so vidha should reunite)

as for a show it is understood once the leads are happily married there has to be separation (one more colors show is also on the same phase) but there are many ways for bringing it ... as a fan hugely disappointed with the turn ikrs has taken, at the same time i don't consider it as a trp pulling trick as well...there are shows like yhm,sns etc where hero kicks out his wife but ikrs was neither a saas bahu show nor a show based on forced/circumstantial marriage ,here viplav n his love/support/trust were the souls of show with which the cvs have compromised with *thumbs down*...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Jaz, Whatever u said is absolutely right.

They spoiled the concept of widow remarriage and giving ideas to ppl how to torture widows and play with them

Don't have any big hopes on CVs and PH.

Only watching the show for Mishal
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hey jaz...
Very well put. I had the same thot about tht show
But everytime i got dejected with thw story line... a surprise was swung up... latest how viplav finds out about dhaaniz night class.
Sometimes in life one needs a jolt to wake up and look around. Viplav world is crashing... everything that was once happy and lovely is crashing. What can u expect oit of him.
He has always been that quintessential indian husband to me... always standing by his wife and supporting her.

Remwmber the way they got married... that was one more reason i feel viplav will not let go of dhaani
Till now the soap has done justice to its concept. Viplavz love for dhaani has been impossible. Why doubt now...lets wait and watch. Lets not jump the gun. If the story indeed makes vipu the normal soap opera ok mummy kinda hero... thwn i am sure before all of us quit the show.. mishal will quit..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Wonderfully written, Jaz! Very tricky to answer. As much as I'd like Dhani to give Viplav attitude with a capital A, I need to be a bit more objective in answering your question. I agree with all of the points you made in your post. Viplav turning his back on Dhani was the ultimate fail. Seeing him have his fill of her is leaving a bitter taste in my mouth. I don't know how this will equate to TRPs when we're all so outragedt. I am, however, interested in watching Dhani's character and her story. A little too miffed with Viplav to care for him right now. As far as getting back together, Dhani and VIplav will have to reunite for the show. If they were in the real world, then I wouldn't be too sure about them getting back together. Ditching your wife for your family and that too when she's pregnant is basically killing all feelings for one another. I don't see how a couple could move on from that scenario. However, there is a child in the picture. Often women tend put their egos aside for their children and their betterment. Which mother would want her child to grow up without his/her father? So the question here is would Dhani compromise her ego and self-respect for her child? I think she would so that she'd be able to give her child a complete family.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Very well written jaz.
I still miss d old ishq.d old concept...it was d concept that made me watch it, wanted to see how dhani becomes an inspiration for other women.anyway now watch it for d lead actors cz they r brilliant.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Dazzling.. this ia 21st century... why should dhaani compromise and live a with a family to give a complete family to her child. Will the child be spared???.. he/she will be abused and humiliated every moment. Thats not gonna be gud.
Dhaani has shown that respect for everyone is the most important thing a human being shud have. She had the ghts to take on an all powerful mahant... she cud very raise a child without a father... if the father doesnt get to thw light of eventz..

I am not being wrong to viplav... or am i angry.. i still have hopes witb the story.. and so believe that he will spring a surprise.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ~DaZZ|ing~

Wonderfully written, Jaz! Very tricky to answer. As much as I'd like Dhani to give Viplav attitude with a capital A, I need to be a bit more objective in answering your question. I agree with all of the points you made in your post. Viplav turning his back on Dhani was the ultimate fail. Seeing him have his fill of her is leaving a bitter taste in my mouth. I don't know how this will equate to TRPs when we're all so outragedt. I am, however, interested in watching Dhani's character and her story. A little too miffed with Viplav to care for him right now. As far as getting back together, Dhani and VIplav will have to reunite for the show. If they were in the real world, then I wouldn't be too sure about them getting back together. Ditching your wife for your family and that too when she's pregnant is basically killing all feelings for one another. I don't see how a couple could move on from that scenario. However, there is a child in the picture. Often women tend put their egos aside for their children and their betterment. Which mother would want her child to grow up without his/her father? So the question here is would Dhani compromise her ego and self-respect for her child? I think she would so that she'd be able to give her child a complete family.


Well said Dazz
But is it only Mother responsibility to bring up a child??? is father equally not responsible???
And if Dhaani go back thinking abt the child then it is emotionally killing a woman self respect and dignity
If that is case and Vipu don't realize his mistakes then I would say Dhaani better stay away from Vipu and you growup ur child within the limits you have.
This is like degrading a woman
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Posted: 9 years ago
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No I dnt want her to come back.so soon, so easily n so fast...COS the pain n humiliation she has gone thru is much more harsh n right now from hereonwards its severe...
But I cnt deny the fact that both r incomplete without each other...I will give reserve my judgement on Vipu till I get to see his tale,plight today n from hereonwards...I trust the only tv character tat I loved n adored n which is by far the best pratagonist on tv right now...

I can jus say their routes r different but their direction is towards each other...


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nice Post Jaz.. did not think we will get to see such turn of events in IKRS. Dhaani has now stood up against DT. but Vipu doesn't know the truth about his grandfather. with a kid coming into picture she will want to go back to Vip.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Jazz I am in the same angry state as you . and as i love the character of viplav am angry with him too, but there are certain points that i will still take into consideration. The circumstances around him !!!!
He is a very pampered and loved child so his bonding with family will be strong till the day he realizes what they actually are .

But imagine if dhani wld be doing all this with daadi how would we react ?? we wld blame dhani . because we know daadi is not at fault . the situation is same with viplav . he strongly feels dt is not at fault he is a noble man . so dhani's action will shock him .

we the audience know what dt really is and so we r on dhani's side !!!

His entire family has cornered him and dhani's naivity is not helping at all in fact its pushing him more!!

Not justifying viplav's actions at all. a slap is unpardnable but just giving a point of view.

And yes meher viplav is my most favorite character on tv ever too. so i will wait too. !!!

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