Why so much hatred for kunj - my POV on kunj's anger note pg 4 - Page 3

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I'm going to make this as short as possible but here's my two cents:

If Kunj is wrong, I AM going to say it. I'm not going to sugar coat nor make twist events to make it seem like he is in the right. The way he and his family has been treating Twinkle is wrong and it needs to end now.

Realistic reactions from his side? Maybe.

Hypocritical and a hollow person? Definitely.

How many times have we seen him vow to be with Twinkle regardless of the situation? Multiple. How many times has he fulfilled those promises when it came to him choosing between his family and his wife? Not many.

Now, I'm not saying that he should completely neglect his family and become devoted to his wife. No. Rather, he should learn how to balance the two relations so that both are given equal respect and importance.

The fact that they cannot trust each other after everything they have been through is appalling to me. They have risked their lives multiple times and yet they have trouble trusting each other when it comes to sharing vital information? This is complete bullshit.

Yeah, people say and do things when they are angry, but that doesn't mean that whatever is said and done should be ignored. It should be taken into consideration and remembered for everything that happens from there on. After all, anger is an explosion of pent-up emotions and whatever gets projected is harmful in any form.

What is in character for him, is to respect women. Not pick and choose who he wishes to keep in his life. Just because Usha is his mother, it doesn't mean that he can't call out on her shit. Just because Twinkle is his wife, it doesn't mean that he can treat her in whatever way he wants and not expect to see the consequences for it.

This is no courtroom drama going on.. where Kunj is the judge and... he needs to observe all the happenings...all the evidences and proofs...and come to a verdict and make the right decisions... between his mother and his wife...
He is no God...
On one side is his mother who is surely doing over the top drama...over reacting and he knows it surely... he knows she has lost her mind... but if he would say his mother to stop it... and explain her rationality... it would be as if he is and outsider... who is giving his conclusions on right and wrong an outsider who got the news on TV... (like us viewers)... it would prove that he is devoid of any sympathy or empathy...for his mother whom he loves dearly... apart from bebe leela and twinkle... who had been with him from when he was born... he knows she is wrong... but the situation overpowers him...
In the scene we see bebe stopping Usha... Kunj is standing mum... if he really was that hypocritical and hollow as you say... he would have rushed to Usha stopped her from doing the drama.. and.. asked Twinkle to leave in anger...

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Posted: 10 years ago
#22
Shakti will res this for now
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Glad to know u haven't gone full ballistics on ian and me
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Posted: 10 years ago
#23
i agree with you
I get that people have different POV's so i respect that
and i am not gonna ask people to change it because it is how they view a situation
I just dont want people to lose hope in the track like at least watch it
and dont watch the episodes, the actors have done immense work for it
dont lose hope guys
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I could nt agree more wid u.. yes u r rght seeing his anger his frustration i agree he dnt wanna see her face or listen her.. but what i hated d most ws he blaming her for for manohars condition while d actual culprit is uv i hope soon or more he regrets his mistake..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree with you..
i mean everyone has the freedomof speaking but asking a divorce is nit a solution..
i love you yar
Loved this post..
M gonna stay natural
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Posted: 10 years ago
#26
NOTE

hey guys to everyone who didn't get offended/hurt thanks so
much for understanding my POV!
and to ppl who agree with me (even a little) i'm glad i'm not the only one :)

to those who did get offended/hurt again it was not my intention to hurt/offend anyone i just wanted to shed some positive view on Kunj's POV.

This post was not a kunj is right post, it was a trying to understand where kunj is coming from post. i am not saying he is right or twinkle is wrong, in fact i even commented in other ppl's post saying how much i feel for twinkle (i do believe whats happening with her is wrong) i was just trying to explain how i saw Kunj's being angry with her as realistic. i wasn't saying his action against twinkle was right, but his reaction (his anger) was normal according to me. Again this post wasn't about who is right or who is wrong, i wasn't trying to twist the events to make kunj seem like the good guy or make it seem like twinkle is wrong. i'm neutral i'm not on any of their sides (which i've also said before😳), i'm just gonna enjoy what's happening in the show and probably not make any more controversial kunj posts 😆 i honestly was just trying to send out some positivity, so i apologize if that didn't come across in the post and if ppl got upset!

@ragini why would i go ballistic on you or ian 😕😆 i respect everyone's opinion/ viewpoint 😳

i hope everyone stays happy and positive! 😊
Edited by ...Shakti... - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Who ever is right or whoever is wrong, but this is not the way you treat your woman... Being a woman I will say the same again and again...

I understand his situation, I understand his feelings... but come on yaar... she had not done such a big crime to throw her out of your house or to keep her away from you... she hid the matter, yes that was not right, but she didn't shoot him ryt... I mean she is not the sole reason for what happened...!!
And what do guys say about the precap? How can they insult her like that on the middle of the road !! I don't know... I am not blaming anyone, I just blaming the way Twinkle is being insulted every time and all those time she is the one pleading for apology... I just don't want this to happen...


Only thing I need is just a STRONG TWINKLE... dats it...

PS: By the way I am liking this separation Tashan... As a show I can handle this and of course enjoy it... of course its not real, so I am not counting much on it...
But I would definitely raise my voice if they try to degrade the self respect of a woman, especially my Twinkiee.. (and I guess all of the others are doing the same, which you felt was bashing Kunj, I don't know I didn't go thru all of the posts)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: reeeh

Who ever is right or whoever is wrong, but this is not the way you treat your woman... Being a woman I will say the same again and again...


I understand his situation, I understand his feelings... but come on yaar... she had not done such a big crime to throw her out of your house or to keep her away from you... she hid the matter, yes that was not right, but she didn't shoot him ryt... I mean she is not the sole reason for what happened...!!
And what do guys say about the precap? How can they insult her like that on the middle of the road !! I don't know... I am not blaming anyone, I just blaming the way Twinkle is being insulted every time and all those time she is the one pleading for apology... I just don't want this to happen...


Only thing I need is just a STRONG TWINKLE... dats it...

PS: By the way I am liking this separation Tashan... As a show I can handle this and of course enjoy it... of course its not real, so I am not counting much on it...
But I would definitely raise my voice if they try to degrade the self respect of a woman, especially my Twinkiee.. (and I guess all of the others are doing the same, which you felt was bashing Kunj, I don't know I didn't go thru all of the posts)


hon, this post wasn't about twinkle is being treated, we all know that is wrong. i dont think any one person will say otherwise. this post was about kunj and kunj's anger and him having a right to be angry. we're both talking about different things loll my post is on a different tangent and your comment is on a different one 😆😆

i think you're bringing in a different reaction after seeing today's episode. this post was based off of yesterday's epi, and as for today's i cannot comment because i have not seen it!

again this post was not about kunj's actions towards twinkle, it was about his right to have a reaction - to be angry with her --> which maybe didn't come across in the way i wrote it!
again i hope i didn't offend!

just wanna add i agree the way he talked to her (and according to forum posts talks to her today) was rude AF and i'm not justifying that. My post was about him being angry - his emotions not the way he acted (his actions), i think he has a right to be upset - idk if im making sense or not 😆
Edited by ...Shakti... - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#29
Your post was entirely your point of view and your opinion.
Everybody is entitled to their own.

You don't need to justify.

<3 <3 <3
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...Shakti...


hon, this post wasn't about twinkle is being treated, we all know that is wrong. i dont think any one person will say otherwise. this post was about kunj and kunj's anger and him having a right to be angry. we're both talking about different things loll my post is on a different tangent and your comment is on a different one 😆😆

i think you're bringing in a different reaction after seeing today's episode. this post was based off of yesterday's epi, and as for today's i cannot comment because i have not seen it!

again this post was not about kunj's actions towards twinkle, it was about his right to have a reaction - to be angry with her --> which maybe didn't come across in the way i wrote it!
again i hope i didn't offend!

just wanna add i agree the way he talked to her (and according to forum posts talks to her today) was rude AF and i'm not justifying that. My post was about him being angry - his emotions not the way he acted (his actions), i think he has a right to be upset - idk if im making sense or not 😆


OMG.!!.. I am really sorry that I posted here... I didn't know that it was yesterdays...

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