Why so much hatred for kunj - my POV on kunj's anger note pg 4

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...Shakti...

@...Shakti...

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Posted: 10 years ago

Guys this post was based off of yesterdays epi (i have not seen today)!

Guys the forum today has been filled with ppl hating on kunj, wanting separation and everything but guys why so much anger towards kunj. I wanted to post this again (posted this on someone's post)

I honestly think his reaction is very normal and realistic and if he didn't behave this way his character would come off as fake. CVS always do an amazing job at portraying these characters as realistically as they can (given they need to have some hero and filmy qualities)

What I didn't like was him blaming twinkle for manohars condition - I agree with everyone on that. But that is something twinj have to work on - trusting each other which is why I think this track is so important

But I don't agree with all this we hate kunj hatred going on because quite frankly I think he was the only person who had a realistic reaction to what happened. People say things they don't mean in anger, kunj is a human being he is allowed to get angry and throw things around. That's what guys do when their angry loll they take out their frustration by breaking things, all kunj did was throw her stuff. And saying I don't want to see your face or hear your voice - that is the most filmy thing that can be said in anger. How many of us have said that to ppl we are fighting with - honestly it was a normal reaction

Sorry for the long comment but it's very surprising and shocking to me that so many ppl are hating on kunj when his reactions are normal. This is not out of character for him. When it comes to his family he gets mad and does react like this remember karva chaut he got mad at twinkle for a lie usha said about her.

As for kunj blaming twinkle...this is TV it was bound to happen.once he realizes his mistakes I'm sure he'll come around! And both of them need to learn to trust each other. Their relationship is new they need these problems to teach them how to successfully be in a relationship.

PS hope this didn't offend or upset anyone, just wanted to state my opinion on today's epi :)

And I'm actually really liking this track twinj are gonna come out much stronger from this!

Please stay positive and happy guys, there are def good things planned for twinj coming up :)

PPS: I'm not at all saying my opinion is correct or anything like that all of us have different opinions (which is what makes this forum fun) I just wanted to put some positivity out there :)

Edited:

GUYS!! i just wanna say please don't be offended by the title of my post (please read it through) i wrote this post to show kunj's POV in a more positive light not start fights or upset anyone! We all have different POV's and that's what is great about the forum! I don't want this post to turn into a fight zone, so please be mindful of each other's opinions and just stay happy and positive. This post was really not meant to hurt anyone!

Edited by ...Shakti... - 10 years ago

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Posted: 10 years ago

i love him , let people say whatever,

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teddyyy

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Posted: 10 years ago

I'm sure no one will get offended by this because everyone is entitled to their own opinion and we treat one another with respect, which is what makes this forum such a pleasant place to be a part of! I actually really agree with you Shakti. I don't think the CVs have butchered Kunj's character at all, his reactions today were not absurd and his pained expressions are proof of how much an affect this has had on him. He personally believes that he could have prevented this, for us it may seem illogical because Kunj agreed that if he knew the truth before he may have completely cut off talking to his father. So Manohar in my opinion could've had the heart attack before, but Kunj doesn't see that. He just sees that he could've protected the family, his parents especially better if he knew. He just thought Twinkle would confide in him and so he's angry at the situation. My post in a lot of detail explains my thoughts on Twinkle and what she's going through cause I'm totally with her today, maybe even more than Kunj cause she stole my heart today but yeah I'm basically just trying to stay neutral.

The ONLY part of the episode that actually upset me on Kunj's behalf was when before the suicide drama, Usha was shoving Twinkle out and she looked towards Kunj for help and he didn't say a word. He SHOULD have spoken up then. Not only is that is love, but his wife being kicked out and so he should've stopped his mom. Just my opinion! (:

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joe10

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Posted: 10 years ago

I am totally with you in this...

Thanks for making this post...

I predicted last week when the track was announced that a lot of bashing on Kunj would be done... and thats whats happening... after watching the episode I too felt pissed off at him...and made a post... maybe bcoz I dont want Kunj to commit any mistakes... but as you said that would be against human nature and his character...as for he was in no position to stop Twinkle...

He was torn between his mother who had lost her mind cutting her wrist and his wife..

.and I feel that keeping mum was his way of showing that he respects both the relation equally and is not inclined to one... if he would say anything to stop Twinkle it would hurt his mother and if he would ask Twinkle to leave...it would her...infact he dint speak a word while his mother was busy with the knife...

And I too wont understand why is every1 hating Kunj at the moment... people are talking about seperation leaps... and divorces...

Marriage is no joke and this is not an ekta show to show leaps of even few months...

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ChannaMereya

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Posted: 10 years ago

What people dont understand that characters arent meant to be perfect , moreover looks like fandom watching show is too youg to understand the problems of life (sorry if it offends)

South Asia parents are deffo put on pedestal even after years than how can twinkle become number 1 for Kunj in years and isnt it wrong that a mother whom u thoroughly loved holds no importance to u for ur wife?

He was trying to figure things out take time , every sane person does and when tragedy strike people lose balance even the sanest person on earth , easier for others to say why he didnt do this that but it does happen

Otherwise te best of person wouldnt commit suciide and other acts

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asmaanixx

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Posted: 10 years ago

I'm going to make this as short as possible but here's my two cents:

If Kunj is wrong, I AM going to say it. I'm not going to sugar coat nor make twist events to make it seem like he is in the right. The way he and his family has been treating Twinkle is wrong and it needs to end now.

Realistic reactions from his side? Maybe.

Hypocritical and a hollow person? Definitely.

How many times have we seen him vow to be with Twinkle regardless of the situation? Multiple. How many times has he fulfilled those promises when it came to him choosing between his family and his wife? Not many.

Now, I'm not saying that he should completely neglect his family and become devoted to his wife. No. Rather, he should learn how to balance the two relations so that both are given equal respect and importance.

The fact that they cannot trust each other after everything they have been through is appalling to me. They have risked their lives multiple times and yet they have trouble trusting each other when it comes to sharing vital information? This is complete bullshit.

Yeah, people say and do things when they are angry, but that doesn't mean that whatever is said and done should be ignored. It should be taken into consideration and remembered for everything that happens from there on. After all, anger is an explosion of pent-up emotions and whatever gets projected is harmful in any form.

What is in character for him, is to respect women. Not pick and choose who he wishes to keep in his life. Just because Usha is his mother, it doesn't mean that he can't call out on her shit. Just because Twinkle is his wife, it doesn't mean that he can treat her in whatever way he wants and not expect to see the consequences for it.

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ChannaMereya

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: teddyyy
I'm sure no one will get offended by this because everyone is entitled to their own opinion and we treat one another with respect, which is what makes this forum such a pleasant place to be a part of! I actually really agree with you Shakti. I don't think the CVs have butchered Kunj's character at all, his reactions today were not absurd and his pained expressions are proof of how much an affect this has had on him. He personally believes that he could have prevented this, for us it may seem illogical because Kunj agreed that if he knew the truth before he may have completely cut off talking to his father. So Manohar in my opinion could've had the heart attack before, but Kunj doesn't see that. He just sees that he could've protected the family, his parents especially better if he knew. He just thought Twinkle would confide in him and so he's angry at the situation. My post in a lot of detail explains my thoughts on Twinkle and what she's going through cause I'm totally with her today, maybe even more than Kunj cause she stole my heart today but yeah I'm basically just trying to stay neutral.

The ONLY part of the episode that actually upset me on Kunj's behalf was when before the suicide drama, Usha was shoving Twinkle out and she looked towards Kunj for help and he didn't say a word. He SHOULD have spoken up then. Not only is that is love, but his wife being kicked out and so he should've stopped his mom. Just my opinion! (:

He couldnt have , I am afraid had he did things could take a turn for worse Usha could have lost her balance more and in families mostly people stay quiet when such situation arise not bec thy dont respect others bec things become uglier hence time given to settle

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teddyyy

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: BeingAnonymous

He couldnt have , I am afraid had he did things could take a turn for worse Usha could have lost her balance more and in families mostly people stay quiet when such situation arise not bec thy dont respect others bec things become uglier hence time given to settle

I don't know, I just can't get myself to agree to this. I don't mean to undermine what you said or anything so please forgive me if it comes off as so but I think that after everything they have been through, if I expected this much from Kunj, of course Twinkle did. She looked directly at him, waiting for him to say something. I completely understand why he didn't say a word after Usha threatened to kill herself because you can't lose your mother and the situation was so delicate. But all I'm asking is why he didn't even say "Mom, we'll handle this together, just please let's not kick her out" or something. She is his wife and it's his responsibility to ensure her respect in that house. So just that upset me, but I understand his silence after. But yeah lol he should have said something and I think he could have stayed neutral between his mom and wife by trying to handle the situation and all and now I'm just blabbering lol sorry!

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ChannaMereya

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: teddyyy

I don't know, I just can't get myself to agree to this. I don't mean to undermine what you said or anything so please forgive me if it comes off as so but I think that after everything they have been through, if I expected this much from Kunj, of course Twinkle did. She looked directly at him, waiting for him to say something. I completely understand why he didn't say a word after Usha threatened to kill herself because you can't lose your mother and the situation was so delicate. But all I'm asking is why he didn't even say "Mom, we'll handle this together, just please let's not kick her out" or something. She is his wife and it's his responsibility to ensure her respect in that house. So just that upset me, but I understand his silence after. But yeah lol he should have said something and I think he could have stayed neutral between his mom and wife by trying to handle the situation and all and now I'm just blabbering lol sorry!

Doesnt happen in joint families , a decorum is maintained and u dont interfere till situation go outta hand , i have had same arguements with my mom but that is when she tells me u cant jeopardise situations and hence this reaction , he couldnt have neutral had he spoke and he was so lost to react

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teddyyy

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: BeingAnonymous

Doesnt happen in joint families , a decorum is maintained and u dont interfere till situation go outta hand , i have had same arguements with my mom but that is when she tells me u cant jeopardise situations and hence this reaction , he couldnt have neutral had he spoke and he was so lost to react

I have first-hand experience with joint family systems because that's how it is on my father's side in Pakistan and we often visit. Here in NY as well my mom's parents live with us and her siblings visit weekly, it's not exactly a joint family system here with that but I'm often involved in family dramas haha considering my siblings and I are the oldest of the family. My point is I understand what you mean but isn't that so absolutely wrong? Why wait for things to go out of hand till we react and respond? That's what makes everything 100x worse and I'm glad my family has started trying to eliminate the problem at its root. The situation is going to be risky nonetheless, so why let your wife walk out and be disrespected for something YOU KNOW she didn't do? That's just regressive and not justifiable then in my opinion. So that's why I stand by my opinion that he should've spoke up, he shouldn't have let her be pushed out because as much of a duty he has towards his mother, he has one to his wife.

Sorry if I sound offensive, talking serious is weird cause I usually write LOL after every sentence 😆