Hello everyone, all you lovely people 😃
Okay so i wanted to write something and you can read it below, it's silly but i thought i would post it any ways, hope you guys dont hate it.
When you get a second chance
When I was a little I was told to be good to people, be nice, caring, understanding, listen to elders and respect people. If you respect people they will respect you. Respect anyone older, younger or same age, respecting is an essential part of love. Hence I respected the decision my family made for me to get married to a person who is the same as my family. They liked his family their values and traditions. Little did my family know that the decision and person will be the storm in my life who will destroy me from within, I would turn into someone who I would not recognise after a year.
Obsession it is bad very bad never ever get obsessed with anyone or anything in life, it ruins everything and everyone around you. You don't even know when you start to get obsessed about the person or things in life, it creeps up and you don't realise till it's too late.
Love is a universal world and we all love different things, different people, there are different form of love. We love our family, we love friends, we love our neighbours, love your colleagues, love your partner they are all different and have their own place. We love clothes, make-up, shoes, bags, different materialistic things. But my advice do not love anyone or anything more then they deserves, loving a bag or a dress is good when you wear the dress makes you powerful and nice. Wearing favourite pair of heels makes you confident and boosts your energy level.
Now loving your family is natural, loving friends is nice. But loving your partner/Husband it's completely different. When the person you will marry spend the rest for your life comes into your life you want to love them so much that they never leave you and love you the same. When my family chose the person for me I fell in love with him at first glance, actually I fell in love with him before I met him, I knew I would marry him there was no question about it. I always listened to my family because they are always correct and make the right decisions and they would this time as well, this is about my life so they would have thought about it right?
I saw him and fell in love he seemed nice, sweet and was getting engaged to me without meeting me just because his parents asked him so he is nice right? He is like me listens to him parents and grants their wishes.
Little did I know he would not love me, but my sister, he didn't like me because I wasn't modern enough for him. He didn't like me because I was shy and respectful. He didn't like me because he didn't think I would fit in with his life style. He didn't like me because he thought I wouldn't be able to match his stand.
I decided to get married to him no matter what hurt the people who love me, care for me and supported me. I never knew that love that one person who hated me would turn me into a monster that I can't even forgive myself for what I did. I loved him so much that I forgot who I was what my identity was, that I had a life. My advice never love anyone so much you forget who you are and what you were. Loving someone is great but not to an extend where you are no longer the person you use to be. You do not want to me when you look at the mirror all you see a broken person with a broken soul.
He cheated me he said he loved me and used me, he got married to someone else, I didn't even know what he was up to. I was so stupid nave, blind in love didn't figure out what he was doing right under my nose. If you fall in love trusting the person is important I trusted him so much he misused my trust to win his game and through me out of his life.
I should thank him really he opened my eyes and the blindfold came off now finally I can see I life where I can live a life without being overshowed by him, my family or anyone around me. I decided to live life according to mu choice not what everyone else thinks I should do. I am living my life which I didn't before, getting married betrayed and played with has made me look at life differently. I tried to kill myself but I was saved and given another chance a life.
Now I see this as a second chance and I do not want to waste it, I want to live every moment like the last moment of my life. If we get a chance we should not dwell on the past, cry about or weep about just move on and start fresh. Whatever happens in life there is a lesson to learn from it and think the past should be where it is the past and move on in the future. Make new friends and live life to the fullest.
So everyone who is reading this fall in love but be careful if it doesn't work out it hurts like hell but when you pick yourself up and move on its good. Do not let the wrongs in your life define you, learn from it and do not make the same mistakes again. We all need to forget and forgive, always love your family and friends, they are always there for you no matter what. Never hurt family or friends because when you realise it makes you small in your own eyes which is not good.
Loving your husband/partner is great but if he is the right one, if he I the wrong one it will hurt but you will learn from it, never force anyone to love you because that is not what love is. Love is when you both want to me in the relationship, when you both want the same ting, when you both fight but forgive each other and laugh about it late. Loving means doing what makes the other person happy, loving means taking care or the person who is important to you and trusting them.
So friends keep loving and living life like there is no tomorrow.
Cricket
Chakravarti Samrat Prithviraj Chauhan
Mangal Lakshmi
