Competition between Mangla and Anandi

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bvfs

@bvfs

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Posted: 10 years ago

Looks like there is a competition going on between Mangala and Anandi on who can hurt children more. Some times it seems that even both of them are enjoying their suffering. Serial writers have no idea about Natural instinct of a mother. My advice to them- please go and watch some American tv shows and see how creative, matured,dedicated they are and how proud ( well deserved) they are for their hard work. I wonder why channel can't get some intelligent, thoughtful writers and dump the garbage. It's not that India is short of talents.

I agree with some viewers that Nimboli is behaving like a selfish brat. She is all goody goody well behaved happy child when it suits her but as soon as some thing goes against her wish she becomes furious and shouts on elders without hesitation. Why didn't she have guts to show this anger in Jhalra or does she know where she can get away with every thing? A very cunning child indeed. And Mangla... every day she is giving hints to BH people to catch her red handed in wrong doing but they choose to over look. And mind you among them they have MP, Doctor, social worker and an overly smart highly intelligent, self made woman-Dadisa👏 well done writers only you can write this type of rubbish. Well I could be asked why am I watching such a stupidly? My answer is- We as a consumer have right to raise our voice against this kind of shows so thy could be thrown out to give way to some sensible writers.

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Missesha

@Missesha

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Posted: 10 years ago

Cheers for writing it all... 👏

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Aashima Ahuja

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Posted: 10 years ago

I fully agree with this.

Something is wrong with Nimboli's characterization. In jhalra too, her actions were self-destructive that too when she knew those people for all her life along with the consequences of going against them if caught. Yet there is a whole long list of her adverse acts which led or could have been led to severe punishments...be it as big as helping in Kamli's elopement or the kachori bet with Urmi with a lifetime service of urmi if lost the bet ...or things as simple as breaking a fast or eating a full plate of jalebi not meant for her.

Yet most of the time she doesnt claimed, craved or demanded for anything there whilst fully assured in her mind that that's her house too as a DIL. Throwing a fit is a too far off thing for her there.

& here in BH...she knows she is a guest.

Yet she do everything & get away with it.

Why? Bcoz Anandi or the BH elders don't want to upset her by any means . Anandi's reasons could be many but top most of it is she dont want to be separated by the girl once again , thus wants to keep her around anyhow even if that means giving in to her every word. The only time i felt for her was when she volunteered to help during Ganga's kidnap thinking she is the reason of the fiasco.

For Mangla...she is a super super intelligent woman. Its just that she doesn't admit it. Otherwise it would've been too difficult for anyone else to survive in that hell with continuously living & saving herself from a lusty relative who you know is also your husband's murderer & the reason for all your miseries , due to whom you have to fake a devi act to fulfill your smallest desires since he is the one who turned you into a widow.

& the strange thing is even after leading a miserable life herself, she has guts & heart to instigate a boy towards a girl whom she knows is his own lost sister . Thus inturn also hurting the girl ,whom she claims to be her daughter, through that boy, through a fake mother, through brainwashing, by asking her to reject things that she doesn't suit her jhalra standards & by trying

Her best to keep the girl separated from her family & life which she is entitled to & which she can never be able to give it to her.

Anandi is acting plain stupid in all this course. Over-trusting everyone else , taking the situations on face value & thinking too much of the worst possible reactions if she reveals the truth to the girl. & Most importantly Not telling the truth to her Son.

Result will be... she will lose both her kids in the attempt to get accepted by one.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 10 years ago

This competition is between Anandi's stupidity and her tardiness and Mangala's manipulative tactics.

In between Anandi's hesitation to tell the truth and Mangala's ability to manipulate people by using their fears and insecurities.

Both are doing great deal of damage to the kids.

Anandi not revelaing her identity to Nandini and her fear of losing her child is understandable.Why would she want to lose her child again by revealing the truth when the child is not ready to listen?She would rather have her with her and give everything that she can give to her child than losing her again.

Her not telling Shivam and her wanting to tell the truth to both her kids at the same time is the most impractical idea.It would have been very nice to see both the kids being introduced to each other as twins by their mother but when things are getting out of control like this there is no point hanging on to this.

As for Nimboli throwing a fit I think most of the times it was because of Mangala. She stood up for Mangala when ever she thought BH wasis are being rude/disrespectful towards Mangala.

When Shivam was nasty or rude to her she never retaliated she just went back crying.Even this birthday party also it looks like she was hurt by what Shivam said.

Mangala is so aggressive and assertive when it comes to claiming rights over the child in front of Anandi and BH people why did she not show the same aggression towards Harki and Akheraj?

Had she been this way with Harki and Akheraj at least then her claims about looking after that child would have been understandable.

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libsrocks

@libsrocks

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Posted: 10 years ago

I don't know who should be blamed for all this confusion!

Mangala: uneducated selfish and cunning woman! She is uneducated and spend large part of life within walls of Akheraj's house! Clearly that family and walls taught her well! Despite her ruthlessness, i see a survivor in her! She fights hard for things she truely wants!

Anandi: educated, experienced but damm stupid woman! Clearly life has taught her nothing! Villains might have learnt a lot from her but what did she learn from them? Anandi needs to know that one must learn to forget the past but not the lessons learnt from them! If learnt any!

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fast trak

@fast trak

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: libsrocks
I don't know who should be blamed for all this confusion!
Mangala: uneducated selfish and cunning woman! She is uneducated and spend large part of life within walls of Akheraj's house! Clearly that family and walls taught her well! Despite her ruthlessness, i see a survivor in her! She fights hard for things she truely wants!
Anandi: educated, experienced but damm stupid woman! Clearly life has taught her nothing! Villains might have learnt a lot from her but what did she learn from them? Anandi needs to know that one must learn to forget the past but not the lessons learnt from them! If learnt any!

A nice post.

Mangala clearly can fight for what she wants truly. It's just that the methods are wrong. She has learnt a lot being in Akhiraj family. She learnt to survive the hard way.

Anandi is strong when it comes to her work and everyone else but when it comes to her own family she is the weakest and most sensitive. She needs to step up because now even Shiv isn't there so she has to be mother and the father to her children. Thankfully dadisa is with her otherwise the world is a difficult place. Bringing up two young children alone isn't an easy task.

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fast trak

@fast trak

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Posted: 10 years ago

Let's say for fun if Anandi was in Mangala's place and Mangala in Anandi's.

Anandi would've day one itself handed over Nimboli to Mangala. Maybe she would've taken efforts years ago to even find the real mother😆

Mangala would've never allowed anyone else near her child after getting her back even though the child would've been well taken care of. She would've said thanks a lot for taking care but you can't love her as much as me. Now get lost 😆

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 10 years ago

Mangala was not aggressive with akhiraj and harki??

how can people say this when it was shown again and again how she always intervened and saved the girl whenever they tried to punish her infront of her?

In their house, Nimboli was a family member of akhiraj and harki. She was their daughter in law while Mangala was an extended family.

it was only after kundan's second marriage, that mangala called nimboli her daughter.

But what is anandi to nimboli in BH? She is nothing as long as the truth is hidden.

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: fast trak
Let's say for fun if Anandi was in Mangala's place and Mangala in Anandi's.
Anandi would've day one itself handed over Nimboli to Mangala. Maybe she would've taken efforts years ago to even find the real mother😆

Mangala would've never allowed anyone else near her child after getting her back even though the child would've been well taken care of. She would've said thanks a lot for taking care but you can't love her as much as me. Now get lost 😆

First of all, mangala would have never lost her baby... however, had someone kidnapped her child somehow, she would not have sat down for 11 yrs doing other useless stuff and waiting for others to bring her daughter to her.

Secondly, when anandi never bothered to find her own daughter, to expect that she will find someone else' mother is a joke.

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Missesha

@Missesha

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Posted: 10 years ago

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I don't get this. Why is Mangala expected to handover Anandi's daughter to her? What is Anandi's job then? Just to shed tears and wallow in self-pity?

No one questions Anandi when she puts her daughter at risk. First in childhood and now recently while rescuing Ganga. Plus all other times when Nimboli jumped to save chakor or was drowning in well. In all these times, Anandi is simply excused citing situation / need of the hour.

But Mangala is not only expected to save, raise and protect the child but also to bridge the gap. Why on earth would anyone do all that a mother does for a child and still be tagged as 'selfish' while someone who is actually supposed to do her motherly duties, fails to do so but is rather perceived as Selfless, helpless and sacrificing?

It would be better if someone like Mangala was in Anandi's place. She wouldn't have been careless enough to lose her daughter. And had she lost her, she wouldn't have sat for 11 years waiting for someone to bring her daughter on a platter or fail to make her daughter her own.

Mangala's methods may be wrong but she is far more protective as a mother. Anandi just behaves like a wealthy aunt with both her kids i.e. spoil them with luxuries but never try to understand them.

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