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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya


First of all, mangala would have never lost her baby... however, had someone kidnapped her child somehow, she would not have sat down for 11 yrs doing other useless stuff and waiting for others to bring her daughter to her.

Secondly, when anandi never bothered to find her own daughter, to expect that she will find someone else' mother is a joke.


I just wrote a similar post. Hadn't read yours till then
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya


First of all, mangala would have never lost her baby... however, had someone kidnapped her child somehow, she would not have sat down for 11 yrs doing other useless stuff and waiting for others to bring her daughter to her.

Secondly, when anandi never bothered to find her own daughter, to expect that she will find someone else' mother is a joke.



Well clearly the cvs didn't want the child to be found. Because how else will Akhiraj and family come into the story. And Anandi never wished her child to be kidnapped. If it was Mangala also still Akhiraj would've kidnapped.

Clearly saving people's life and teaching women new skills to survive doesn't look like doing useless stuff. It's all individual perception.

It was shown in many ways Anandi searching for her daughter. Even jagya with his influence was trying. Still they couldn't find. Is it meaning that jagya didn't search enough or Anandi didn't care much?

Anandi has done a lot for people. She would've taken interest to search even if it wasn't her own child. So it's a big joke when you say she never bothered to search for her child.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Missesha

I don't get this. Why is Mangala expected to handover Anandi's daughter to her? What is Anandi's job then? Just to shed tears and wallow in self-pity?

No one questions Anandi when she puts her daughter at risk. First in childhood and now recently while rescuing Ganga. Plus all other times when Nimboli jumped to save chakor or was drowning in well. In all these times, Anandi is simply excused citing situation / need of the hour.

But Mangala is not only expected to save, raise and protect the child but also to bridge the gap. Why on earth would anyone do all that a mother does for a child and still be tagged as 'selfish' while someone who is actually supposed to do her motherly duties, fails to do so but is rather perceived as Selfless, helpless and sacrificing?

It would be better if someone like Mangala was in Anandi's place. She wouldn't have been careless enough to lose her daughter. And had she lost her, she wouldn't have sat for 11 years waiting for someone to bring her daughter on a platter or fail to make her daughter her own.

Mangala's methods may be wrong but she is far more protective as a mother. Anandi just behaves like a wealthy aunt with both her kids i.e. spoil them with luxuries but never try to understand them.


Mangala isn't expected to hand over the child to mother but stop poisoning the child against the mother. Introducing her to a fake mother is very excellent thought indeed.

Mangala wasn't expected to save raise and protect the child. She did whatever was convenient for her and left out the inconvenient bit leaving it to illiteracy.

Anandi is anything but materialistic and luxury seeking neither does she spoil her kids with comforts. If Shivam was seen to be misbehaving it is only because he doesn't know Nimboli is his twin. That's Anandi's mistake. If Shivam has misbehaved then so has abhi and so has Mannu. So does it mean Jagya Ganga are terrible parents too? All Anandi's kids have is her after Shiv passed away. Whereas abhi and Mannu have the whole family. It's only now that Anandi has come to BH do Shivam gets love of rest of family as well.

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