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gaushiv13

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Posted: 9 years ago

Why Indian soap always show doormat pativrata mahan laddy

Major population woman watch these show how they like to watch show in which woman lack self respect

Our TEI is nothing in front of dumb ishani of MATHS I not watch it but sometime go through forum only JR is a show in which everyone is in normal relationship sometime it get destroyed but not badly

The TRP give the answer of India why wome n r given preference over men why less girls r educated and the major girls their family think shadi karke sasural Hi Jana hai and when she is not given no love or respect they have no other choice other than becoming doormat but in this show they r well educated classy FAMILY but what nothing to say we r watching it

I am not from high class family but my parent doesn't discriminate in me and my brother and we r independent as I and my brother both r studying in high institute in different state but in my family village or community I have seen these things and I hate this to the extent that I don't talk to such parent and moreover I hate those girl who take those crap for their parebpn brother and lack self respect and let themselves treated like trash

That is the reason twink being doormat or lack self respect and I am not able to watch but I love twinj chemistry alot that I hope against hope everyday

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ChannaMereya

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Posted: 9 years ago

Twinkle neither in this situation till day has shown to lack self respect or kunj being dominant

Yes he did slap her may be heat of moment bec he genuiely loves his family sign o short term person , i can relate i am short tempered and love my mom and if she is harmed i can lose my cool soon

And do regret my action what twink did is more to support person u need to support him after mess if she still behaves mahaan i will be pissed but till then let her save person who she knows is innocent

Some times it is just situation

And other shows less said better what heck was shown in KKB?

Or other show there girl indeed lack repsect

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Vimal M

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Posted: 9 years ago

Be it real n reel.This thinking should change i.e discriminating men n women.Men have diff set of rules n women have diff set of rules.In social networking sites also I have seen the discrimination of male n female celeb.If male celeb post shirtless pic.Then all like it.If a female celeb post a pic in Bikini or in a hot dress.Then these female celeb's r bashed as attention seeking.If male celeb post shirtless pic that's not wrong n if a women pose top-less.Then some term it as semi-nude pic.These kind of thinking should chanege.Also in some parts women re-marrying is seen as some crime.When men can marry after divorce or if his wife dies.Society don't have any issue.If women do the same .Society will taunt them.This will change only when many parents treat their girl n male child equally.Don't differentiate between them.Also parents should teach male child to respect women.Also make girl child to be independent n give them the confidence.That if anything goes wrong in her marriage.They will support them.I have seen in real.Many moms saying their girls to adjust according to their husband.Many women don't file domestic violence case.Because their family r not ready to support them.Girls should not take any shit from any man.Society thinking should change.It will happen gradually.Also Hindi soaps should stop showing regressive stuffs.

My parents also treated me n my sis equally.Now my sis doing well then me.Which makes me so proud.

Coming to the show.We have to wait n see will CV's make Twinkle react to the slap.If not.Then Twinkle is also a doormat.Then it will be hard to connect with Twinj n also Kunj.

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ChannaMereya

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: VIMAL.M
Be it real n reel.This thinking should change i.e discriminating men n women.Men have diff set of rules n women have diff set of rules.In social networking sites also I have seen the discrimination of male n female celeb.If male celeb post shirtless pic.Then all like it.If a female celeb post a pic in Bikini or in a hot dress.Then these female celeb's r bashed as attention seeking.If male celeb post shirtless pic that's not wrong n if a women pose top-less.Then some term it as semi-nude pic.These kind of thinking should chanege.Also in some parts women re-marrying is seen as some crime.When men can marry after divorce or if his wife dies.Society don't have any issue.If women do the same .Society will taunt them.This will change only when many parents treat their girl n male child equally.Don't differentiate between them.Also parents should teach male child to respect women.Also make girl child to be independent n give them the confidence.That if anything goes wrong in her marriage.They will support them.I have seen in real.Many moms saying their girls to adjust according to their husband.Many women don't file domestic violence case.Because their family r not ready to support them.Girls should not take any shit from any man.Society thinking should change.It will happen gradually.Also Hindi soaps should stop showing regressive stuffs.

My parents also treated me n my sis equally.Now my sis doing well then me.Which makes me so proud.

Coming to the show.We have to wait n see will CV's make Twinkle react to the slap.If not.Then Twinkle is also a doormat.Then it will be hard to connect with Twinj n also Kunj.

Atleast i have been taught that both have to adjust not only girl , my mom always has said marriage is actually most difficult and some times both have to swallow pride and u just cant break that at drop of hat many time adjustments from both side and mistakes have to be ignored

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Vimal M

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Posted: 9 years ago

KC scene ,then the threatening to break marriage.Kunj has not yet regretted for this.Kunj genuinely loves only his family not Twinkle.So it's better Kunj ditch him after saving him.Better she go to some city.

Many crimes happen due to the heat of moment.We cannot defend that crimes.Same way Kunj raising hand on his wife is domestic violence and it cannot be defended as heat of moment.Then we can defend every crime of Yuvi as heat of moment.

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ChannaMereya

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: VIMAL.M
KC scene ,then the threatening to break marriage.Kunj has not yet regretted for this.Kunj genuinely loves only his family not Twinkle.So it's better Kunj ditch him after saving him.Better she go to some city.
Many crimes happen due to the heat of moment.We cannot defend that crimes.Same way Kunj raising hand on his wife is domestic violence and it cannot be defended as heat of moment.Then we can defend every crime of Yuvi as heat of moment.

If kunj doesnt regret than yes , UV is not heat he still think twinkle is property who needs to be acquired 😕

And KC he was partially wrong not completely he believes his mom whom he doesnt think can do such things and so annoyed with twinkle should have heard her but alasl relationship trust builds slowly so yes he can be hold wrong their

here bebe scene it was genuine heat of moment which he needs to regret if he doesnt than it is wrong but if he does even then twinkle should give him hard time but breaking relationship is going too far

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Vimal M

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: BeingAnonymous
Atleast i have been taught that both have to adjust not only girl , my mom always has said marriage is actually most difficult and some times both have to swallow pride and u just cant break that at drop of hat many time adjustments from both side and mistakes have to be ignored

Small mistakes n adjustments can be done.Big mistakes should not be taken easily.We can swallow pride.But should not swallow self respect.For the heck of making a marriage work.

In hardcore reality.I have seen women adjusting with the husband who have illegal affair with another women.Yet family members saying you r girl.You should be there with your husband.

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ChannaMereya

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: VIMAL.M

Small mistakes n adjustments can be done.Big mistakes should not be taken easily.We can swallow pride.But should not swallow self respect.For the heck of making a marriage work.

In hardcore reality.I have seen women adjusting with the husband who have illegal affair with another women.Yet family members saying you r girl.You should be there with your husband.

Extra martial is a nono , physical violence repeatedly a no but once heat of moment and taking situation in hand can be excused only once mind u not always , if post all this in same scenario ,if my hubby hadnt trusted after clearing all mess second time i would walk out first time i will deffo try to mend relations ,same for guys

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Vimal M

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: BeingAnonymous
If kunj doesnt regret than yes , UV is not heat he still think twinkle is property who needs to be acquired 😕
And KC he was partially wrong not completely he believes his mom whom he doesnt think can do such things and so annoyed with twinkle should have heard her but alasl relationship trust builds slowly so yes he can be hold wrong their
here bebe scene it was genuine heat of moment which he needs to regret if he doesnt than it is wrong but if he does even then twinkle should give him hard time but breaking relationship is going too far

Then we can say the same thing to Yuvi also.Anita exploited him from childhood n made him the person he is.If Yuvi got a mom like Leela .He would have been good guy.Yuvi lacked correct guidance.If he gotten correct guidance .He would not become bad person he is now.

Without hearing Twinkle side of story he blasted at her.Even in the party he did the same n throwed the phone away.What a perfect gift Kunj gave to Twinkle on her birthday.

Twinkle should give him hard time.If Kunj regret or did not regret also .She should go to some other place.

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Vimal M

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: BeingAnonymous
Extra martial is a nono , physical violence repeatedly a no but once heat of moment and taking situation in hand can be excused only once mind u not always , if post all this in same scenario ,if my hubby hadnt trusted after clearing all mess second time i would walk out first time i will deffo try to mend relations ,same for guys

I agree once it can be excused n once try to save marriage.If it did not work.Then it's better to break the marriage.

So if Kunj again repeats the mistake.At that time Twinkle should break her marriage.