==HAR GHAR KA STAR== ANAS / SURAJ AT plus DT No 22

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HalleNJ

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Posted: 9 years ago

#1071

Maasa is a good idea...

having said that, I dont think bhabo is 100% wrong...knowing her nature, this is expected...remember the 8th vow??...with no explanation given to Sandy's disappearance, seeing her in bengali avatar and dancer avatar, and most importantly suraj suffering and being under drugs & ved being neglected...all this put together, a person has to be a saint to be forgiving...furthermore it was bhabo who looked after suraj during her absence; what is this justice that a mom to look after her sick son when the wife is away, but she has no rights on him when the same wife returns?

root cause of bhabo's anger and lalima's entry in suraj's life is sandy's fake death...and the fake death doesnt make sense now as suraj had to come to rescue and help to complete the mission...

I dont know what is DABH showing and what they are going to show later...POV may differ depending on which perspective you are seeing the situation...

Edited by .NJ. - 9 years ago

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Neela

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Posted: 9 years ago

#1072

Originally posted by: .NJ.
Maasa is a good idea...

having said that, I dont think bhabo is 100% wrong...knowing her nature, this is expected...remember the 8th vow??...with no explanation given to Sandy's disappearance, seeing her in bengali avatar and dancer avatar, and most importantly suraj suffering and being under drugs & ved being neglected...all this put together, a person has to be a saint to be forgiving...furthermore it was bhabo who looked after suraj during her absence; what is this justice that a mom to look after her sick son when the wife is away, but she has no rights on him when the same wife returns?

root cause of bhabo's anger and lalima's entry in suraj's life is sandy's fake death...and the fake death doesnt make sense now as suraj had to come to rescue and help to complete the mission...

I dont know what is DABH showing and what they are going to show later...POV may differ depending on which perspective you are seeing the situation...

Seriously root of all problems with Bhabo and so called third person entry in RP caused due to fake death.

I missed mostly Lalima's part after that stupid engagement, and had no idea why she was so abused verbally from our forum members. I read all the WUs and found that she had no fault at all except loving Suraj. I can't blame her for loving him because he is so cute and lovable 😳.

If CVs can spent 4-5 months on one track, they can spent another week to give it a proper closure.

I'm waiting for the clarification of what happened to that atomic bomb and how Sandhya got a co pilot 🤔

If Sandhya dropped that in the sea then she is polluting the water of many countries which can cause more death. Only option that she unarmed it. I need to know .

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Lifebeautifulso

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Posted: 9 years ago

#1073

@ NJ, Babho is not 100% wrong, but the factis she didn't feel released just a second when she know sandhya is alive from the hospital till now, she even didn't know sandhya faked her death, there is no chance for explaination.

I don't expect Babhoto love or care for sandhya like a daughter (It's impossible) but living together for 10 years also they have a relation and she has already understand how much love sandhy gave in for this family!

I just want her to see sandhy as a family member at least like Chaturi!

What if sandhya is injured and couldn't come home or lost memory?

All ten years of sacrifice she doesn't deserve some concern in 1 minute!

That's why I don't like babho, she could do what she wants. What I wait for in the next track is Lalima.

Many people see what sandhya go through the mission but still don't have feeling with her, so technically I don't expect much understanding from babho as she even doen't see anything!

Also the 8th, from the beginning I don't support Babho for that 8th vow, Sooraj and sandhy were so innocent or they tried to ignore the fact that sandhya can't be a police officer outside and a perfect daughter in law at home.

Don't get me wrong, I don't support sandhya faked her death when I mention this 8th vow.

The fact Police office or some other works even some special positions in every jobs require more effort to fulfill all duty. I know women now can balance home and work but there is always some exception.

That is Babasa did tell to Babho.

That's why police work is dominated by men but never men are questioned their duty to home when they live far from home weeks or months or even years, my mom took care of us amost time when my father was posted in other city, even he just came home a couples of times inmany years. If men have sympathy for their work from family and society, then women could also have the same sympathy!

For me, Babho's objection to sadhya's study is reflected from discrimination between male and femal in our society. Or actually Babho is the incarnation of this idea, she is not a normal mom.

Sooraj was in this condition is because of sandhya but sandhya also is a victim here as Baharat sir didn't keep promise.

Being a mother, Babho wanted to cure her son even she geted sooraj marry, I agree and understand her. That make me truly understand how much she loves sooraj she is not the one exploited sooraj's love anymore.

But something never change in this character, she didn't let sooraj have help from professional therapy just like Babho who usually threw out garbage on street, even more cruelly she cheated Lalima!

She loves sooraj but she never understand him that's why she makes him hurt, she even doubted his love for her, what mother could do that?especially with a son like sooraj? Im not convinced.

I don't think Babho care for Ved a bit, blackmail a child not to mention about his mother, see how much painful this child beared when he has to hide his feeling for mom and see his papa get marry.

As you mention about Ved I want to add, Lalima, Loskeh didn't talk to Ved once if he wants her to marry his papa, at least she could try to get closed to Ved once when she hadn't know sooraj's condition.

I have tried to understand her as much as possible but I can't understand this point.

Edited by Lifebeautifulso - 9 years ago

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Vasanthi

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Posted: 9 years ago

#1074

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HalleNJ

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Posted: 9 years ago

#1075

LBS point taken...

but since everyone is asking why no one (including lokesh, lalima bhabo) cared for ved's feeling...I just have one answer for that...when his own mom (Sandy) left him by faking her death, how could one expect others to check on his feelings...furthermore everyone had the believe that if suraj is cured, ved will get his father's love again...I do agree people are insensitive about ved at times, but none is comparable to sandy's negligence in handling her own child...

Im not a bhabo supporter, but in this case, bhabo has more right on suraj than sandy...even after marriage, bhabo is always a pillar of support for suraj, a caretaker, cooks for him and helps to bring up ved...

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Lifebeautifulso

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Posted: 9 years ago

#1076

NJ, the whole post of me is about babho I just come to this point about Babho, Lalima, Loskeh as you mention Ved being neglected, I don't feel surprise much when Babho blackmailed Ved just a needed point I have to add. when she agreed to give away Vansh because of her ego I don't feel her love for grandchild anymore!

Believe me NJ I have your question in mind when I mention about Lalima- loskeh, because it is what Im expected to see from a stepmother, it could be a great indication for a good stepmother.

For me If Lalima is supposed to be a good wife of sooraj then she still has a long way to go, at this point she lost mark.

Sandhy failed as a wife, a mom at that time so I don't feel the need to compare.

Whatever his real mother does, Ved deserves to be cared.

That's why if sooraj doesn't love sandhya anymore and has to move on his life with a second marriage, the last thing I please him to do for sandhya regarding their love is he let sandya raise Ved.

in this case babho has more rights on sooraj than sandhya- they both have right to take care of sooraj, that time sandhya's not at home so I don't resist babho to get sooraj remarry to cure him although sandhya was dead, but if he was in his sense it's sooraj choice to marry or not. And now if CVs don'tmake sooraj lost memory again then it's his right to forgive sandhya or remarry with other or not.

As a mother babho couldn't forgive for sandhya - OK, but she doesn't have right to kick sandhy out. Sorry, I assume what she could do as an example for my view, I still don't know what she will do.

If Sooraj and sandhy move out then sandhya will have to cook, ...or they will hire a maid, It is normally in real life too, also that's wife sandhya can't balance both home and work more seriously if she is posted far away home.

sorry if Im wrong NJ, I respect your pov just want to share my view and discuss.

sorry Im will come to Anas At thread 23

Edited by Lifebeautifulso - 9 years ago