Originally posted by: .Sarcasmazing.
Wonderfully put Medha! 👏
I SO agree with everything & especially with the "mother" point. She did not have a mother who could talk to her about this stuff. You obviously cannot be THAT free with your grandmom, especially one who has been so restrictive towards you befriending even girls belonging to other castes, forget about boys! Also Parvati was blessed with a boy so even she never had the experience of raising a girl till Rags came along. Even her entertainment sessions were probably restricted to daily soaps & Aastha channel with no free will to watch immoral stuff. Ragini is a good case study, I wish we could see these points in the show, kuch toh sympathy hoti usse 😆
Yes, her fantasies are a monster, a hungry monster, waiting to be unleashed when Lakshya finally gives her a chance to 😆
Edit: About the fairytale bit, absolutely. She probably thinks of herself as Prince Charming, Lakshya as Sleeping Beauty & Swara as the Witch so she'd go to lenghts to "protect" her love & get her happy ending. Aiyyyooo
yes well, speaking as a girl who studied in a missionary school myself, an only child...and parents expecting me to fetch high marks and dance as an extracurricular activity and treated like a daddy's little girl...it would have shocked them no end that their princess was thinking about all this. 😆uptil about class eight i slept with my mom...and never had a lot of friends either. those which i had...were in the same boat as me. i think i remember reading in an adult magazine of my mom...about couple sex and stuff when i was about fourteen...and thought of sex as something about couples lying there clicked like jigsaw pieces until they fell asleep😆 class 10 biology was rather shocking.
and then for my plus two i went to a co-ed...and i just saw that well boys are boys...and they don't do stuff like girls do. if they jeer..they shout about it. if they laugh, they wont titter. i swear its uncomfortable to suddenly be plonked in there and have no idea what to make of it all. they were like aliens from a different planet. but gradually of course..u get used to them.😊
but then i did see stuff about all this in movies and all and of course romantic novels...after i got a separate room when we moved.😳 that balances you out...because you need to know about all this. its not a crime to know about the most natural thing ever.
so yeah..i guess i get where she comes from. she thinks he is destined for her and no one else. and when she dreamt about him...probably her body sent her signals which she never really fathomed. 😲
Edited by medhasarkar - 10 years ago