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Posted: 10 years ago
#11
The best example is of poonam and lakhan

She loved Priyom ,lakhan married her by threatening her

she did it to protect her family

Today the same women is singing mohe mohe ke dage with him

He would be the last person to fall in love with but becoz of M,she forced ,brainwashed ...herself and whatever she is happy with him...


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: a_uma

Swara won't fall in love with someone just bec she is married to him or HAS to love him.. she is an independent girl and modern... she will make the right choice when the time comes..



she believes in rituals ...even in fake sindur act she was so much thinking about it ...she gives a lot imp to rituals and believes in it.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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She believes in marriage and the importance and sanctity of it
Being married to Sasnakrt means being a good wife and bahu

Being honest to the relationship and not to stray from it

She will be faithful to her husband

All this does not mean being in love with him

Yes time will come and she will fall in love with him

Pati baad mein bana pehle dost tha wo uska

She will not force herself to fall in lvoe with Sanskar

She will gradually fall in love with him

Pyar mein zabardasti nahi hoti na khudpar na doosre par
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Girl just because he is ur husband it doesnt mean a girl has to love him...she can divorce
Probably swara wudnt confess until ragini mess is sorted out...after that CVs migjt show a divorce track where sanskar wants to let go of swara but swara wants to stay
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: CutiePie..

Girl just because he is ur husband it doesnt mean a girl has to love him...she can divorce

Probably swara wudnt confess until ragini mess is sorted out...after that CVs migjt show a divorce track where sanskar wants to let go of swara but swara wants to stay


Agree shadi hui toh divorce can happen too

Ragini thinks ek baar shadi ho gayi toh all will be well for me

Shadi hui toh divorce can happen too

Why isn't she thinking that?


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Posted: 10 years ago
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I get the point you are making. I adore SwaSan but I too dislike forced marriage tracks- such a trite formula seen in a million shows. Unfortunately (apparently) indian tv audiences crave for love within the context of a married relationship to legitimise it and to not kill off the romance the writers then decide that they can show a marriage forced upon the couple but within which their love then grows. Total stupid reasoning.
Here, I am not worried that she will forcefully fall in love- they will show the development of her feelings but as she's the heroine, used to be "in love" with Sanskaar's brother etc it is assumed (by makers, audiences etc) that she can't be seen simply falling in love with him like any girl with a brain cell would but if she's married to him- that would be not only acceptable but amazing! TV serial logic 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Anna--

Sanskaar will never force this relationship on Swara. Period.


If I am to understand, Swara will also not 'forcefully' fall in love with her 'husband'. She will fall in love with the MAN Sanskaar is - if she has not started to slowly. For Swara marriage means a lot - but she will not stay in a loveless marriage just like her mother. She is modern and if she thinks it will harm Sanskaar and her future - she would not be afraid to walk out. More so, Sanskaar himself will give her a way out. I would not be surprised if HE gives her the divorce paper himself.

Btw, Swara needs to fall in love with a man who trusts her and supports her through thick and thin. It will be her choice finally - it wont be because she is forced into it. Oh and she is definitely never going back to Lakshya - even if her marriage with Sanskaar had not happened.


I too think Sanksaar will take the first step in letting her go without even asking her if she wants that. He would find it impossible to believe that she could even love him and think of him as a husband and lover.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: CutiePie..

Girl just because he is ur husband it doesnt mean a girl has to love him...she can divorce

Probably swara wudnt confess until ragini mess is sorted out...after that CVs migjt show a divorce track where sanskar wants to let go of swara but swara wants to stay



ur not getting the point

there is option of divorce but nobody opts it

a women tries to fullfill the vows and try not to break the marriage ,try to make it work,in the process starts loving becoz in her mind she is supose to love him ,its her duty ,then feelings come in...

for ex if a boyfriend cheats ,ul leave him but if hubby cheats ,ul give him chance and try to make it work...M is not a joke ,thats u leave whenever u want.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: tootiefrootie11

I get the point you are making. I adore SwaSan but I too dislike forced marriage tracks- such a trite formula seen in a million shows. Unfortunately (apparently) indian tv audiences crave for love within the context of a married relationship to legitimise it and to not kill off the romance the writers then decide that they can show a marriage forced upon the couple but within which their love then grows. Total stupid reasoning.

Here, I am not worried that she will forcefully fall in love- they will show the development of her feelings but as she's the heroine, used to be "in love" with Sanskaar's brother etc it is assumed (by makers, audiences etc) that she can't be seen simply falling in love with him like any girl with a brain cell would but if she's married to him- that would be not only acceptable but amazing! TV serial logic 😊



thanks for understanding

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