Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
Akhera slaps his wife and it must be often. She accepts it without a complaint. the son sees all this and gets inspiration to further ill treat his balika vadhu.
Akhera's daughter Kamli? falls for some civilised guy and her father may want to marry her to another MCP.
I felt I am watching Chengis Khan in action.
Why our villages are still so backward? Is it because males are considered superior beings to females? Why our parliament and assemblies have overwhelming males? Even in women ruled states, most of the ministers are males. Allover the world, the most powerful persons are males.
I feel this maybe due to years of male dominance, women being seen as unequal beings in armed forces(with very rare exceptions), women in advertisements showcased as cosmetics and eye candy, women's role confined mainly to run the kitchen and rear the kids.
Akhera slapping his wife explained a lot of things about his wife his son and his ghar ki little beendini as well as his daughter.
That man slapped his wife just because she interrupted him while he was in a meeting
It didn't look like this is the first time he resolved his difference of opinion with his wife this way.
Shutting her up by using force seem to be the way he handles his wife marriage and life as well.
Wife must have been brought up to believe that her life revolves around her husband and salvation to life comes only from making him happy and give him sons.Taking care of their son and making sure that her son got the best of everything they could offer is her main aim in life.
She took the slap without even protesting and was begging him to forgive her🤢
They were I guess forced to marry of this kid while he was a kid because of this blind belief and for some reason they are stuck with this little girl whom thye don't want to be part of their life.
The way she treats Nandini I guess is no different from the way she got treated by her sasuma and her pati.
This Akhera and his patni's lives revolve only around Kundan because he is a boy and so he should have everything that they can offer.
Kundan is obviously brought up just like the way Dsa brought up J except J had his parents who made sure that he turned out to be a decent fellow with all his faults.
So Nandini obviously will see this as a way of life.Copes with it as best as she can.Sometimes by talking back to them sometimes escaping from reality and sometimes playing pranks on them and sometimes crying into the night. Also thinks of coming up with ways to minimse the physical pain inflicted on her.
Mangala Devi - I guess she is elder brother's widow she is respected for that but that doesn'tmean she can have her say in the way things that happen in their family. So Devi ma act is her way of coping with reality
That girl - daughter - I suppose she is not allowed to go out of the house and she is just there to be packed off as a beendini to some place else may be into a family where the alliance would benefit both families.So if she defies her father it is only death,.
I know we see them as backward and at times fake - but what about all kinds of news about honor killings which we read in news papers where a girl's family kills off the girl and boy just because the boy was not their choice and not from their community?