Shastriji's decision...biased/unfair?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hey everyone!
A lot has been said about shastri's decision of separating anuraj, some see it right while some see it unfair. as a father I can see his concern, the last thing he'd want is anu to be married into a family where the mother in law is not happy with the marriage, as he rightly pointed 2 anu at the hospital, marriage is not just between two people but also between 2 families, hence, family members happiness matters too. However, my question or rather confusion is where did all this go when Alka was getting married... it was very clear from day one that Rohan's dad was not happy with the alliance and like Minty left no occasion to insult the family, in fact it was clear that even Aastha didn't like Alka either, so why didn't Shastri call off that marriage?
I understand comparing the two situations isn't right as there was no intense hatred with Alka's case as it is with Anu and Minty, however, Alka's case did get severe to the extent that she was going to get divorced all because of the two people, Shastri knew did not like her, so if he could give Alka and Rohan's marriage a chance, why not AnuRaj - I mean unlike Alka-Rohan, AnuRaj actually love one another so deeply. 😕

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Ashakalyani thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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exactly...thats why i think shastriji's decision is biased towards anuraj..he knows very well how much both anu and rajat love each other...even then he is emotionally blackmailing anu...here anu is not adamant like rajat bcoz she is scared of loosing her father since he is not well...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't think that his decision is biased or unfair.every father wants better life for his daughter.
Here shastriji already know that his daughter not gonna be happy.so he took this decision
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BT I also think that on lohri day sareen said let them together first then we can send them far from there.

This will be OK decision for both side BT this is daily soap so there have to be rocky path for lovers
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Shastriji's decision is completely biased ...he is blinded by ego .can't see her daughter is broken ..what does he think if he separate anu from rajat and marry her to other guy then anu will be happy??? How can any parent do this with his own daughter??
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Shastri is being unfair and biased towards Anuraj...He should give Rajat a chance just like he did with Rohan...Alka also is facing the same problem like Anu is having with Minty...In Anu sasural, there is only one person who is not accepting her...but, in Alka sasural there are two persons who don't like her, and everyday her SIL is making evil plans to kick her out and his FIL will be the happiest when that day will come, we must not forget Alka's FIL also insulted Shastri...Where were his big big talks at that time...when a girl get married, she doen't only get married to the boy,,,but, to the whole family also...what a joke..! As for Alhan, I don't have anything to say about them,,,they are so disgusting...!😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I feel thAt shastri ji 's decision is not biased. Alka had been heart broken after rajeev's rejection so he was in a hurry to get her married at that time he knew that Rohan is a very good guy and his family wouldn't harm his daughter to such an extent as minty. Secondly as for anuraj minty has always been protective abt her son in the case of shastri sisters. And shastri ji knew that minty tried to break Anu Rishta during the engagement fiasco and later accepted Kari also at every step minty has shown her hatred openly but it's not the same in Alkas case. Aastha and Hari showed their true colours oli after she got married in that house!! This my PoVPoV😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Valid point!!
Maybe it's the fact that Anu is his
Favourite daughter... The one he loves the most... Hence even more protective..
Like he said everyone loves Anu but somehow Minty hates everything about her..

Tbh I wish there was some sort of secret room that connects between shastri and sareen's house where Anuraj meet daily lol
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: .x-bumblebee-x.

Valid point!!
Maybe it's the fact that Anu is his
Favourite daughter... The one he loves the most... Hence even more protective..
Like he said everyone loves Anu but somehow Minty hates everything about her..

Tbh I wish there was some sort of secret room that connects between shastri and sareen's house where Anuraj meet daily lol

As per spoiler, Anuraj will be working together...naa..! Rajat who is expert in making plans, will surely think of something and get naughty..naughty..and touchy...touchy
with her...Signing the annulment papers will not change their relationship, they will still consider themselves as being husband/wife...Rajat will act as kabbab mein haddi when new guy will make his entry...😉



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Waida1234

As per spoiler, Anuraj will be working together...naa..! Rajat who is expert in making plans, will surely think of something and get naughty..naughty..and touchy...touchy

with her...Signing the annulment papers will not change their relationship, they will still consider themselves as being husband/wife...Rajat will act as kabbab mein haddi when new guy will make his entry...😉





Yaaay! You have the same thought as me...
I wrote that something intense/passionate scenes
Will occur as they will be near each other...

Out of all the work places.. She works in a place where Rajat works ...
Like seriously.. That's not going to help him move on
Now .. Is it? 😆

I can see jealous occur too! I hope it goes
Something like this... But of course keeping expectations low :p
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Waida1234

Shastri is being unfair and biased towards Anuraj...He should give Rajat a chance just like he did with Rohan...Alka also is facing the same problem like Anu is having with Minty...In Anu sasural, there is only one person who is not accepting her...but, in Alka sasural there are two persons who don't like her, and everyday her SIL is making evil plans to kick her out and his FIL will be the happiest when that day will come, we must not forget Alka's FIL also insulted Shastri...Where were his big big talks at that time...when a girl get married, she doen't only get married to the boy,,,but, to the whole family also...what a joke..! As for Alhan, I don't have anything to say about them,,,they are so disgusting...!😡

I am not sure why you find them disgusting but I think AlHan are quite good 2geva... the thing I like abt Rohan is he is very understanding and really supports Alka, the only time he got upset with her was the whole Rajeev episode, but even then he did care for her etc and tried supporting her when he could...
shastri knew minty disliked anu just like he knew tht rohan's dad and bhabhi dnt like alka but i think he was still happy 2 accept AnuRaj's relationship but what all happened on Lohri was like the final nail in the coffin, he had enough... i don't blame him for his decision i can see his concern and i don't think he is wrong... i jus feel he should give Rajat a chance...like he gave Rohan a chance...its not like anu will stay with Minty, knowing Rajat's job...he gets transfers quite often so naturally anu would accompany him.

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