My heart went out for Arzoo today

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Really,what can a girl do when the family for whom she have been striving to support backs out when she is in the most vulnerable state. No one tried to pacify her, she has been having continuous heartbreaks and everyone is pressurizing her for their own benefits. Her mother wants her to be her support system, her sisters want her to be their father and Sahir wants his deal, Alvira wants sahir's happiness, Zaki wants his love. Everyone is imposing their thoughts on her. No one even cares to ask her what she want. Really felt very bad for her

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Sadly this does happen in many families😔 ...Its MONEY MONEY MONEY which is valued more than human or blood relation 😒 What can a girl who supports this family single handed DO if she is literally crushed down to this extent PATHETIC situation🤔
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Originally posted by: Bujee09

Sadly this does happen in many families😔 ...Its MONEY MONEY MONEY which is valued more than human or blood relation 😒 What can a girl who supports this family single handed DO if she is literally crushed down to this extent PATHETIC situation🤔


Yeah that is true. This happens in real also, the one who thinks more about the family and relation is one who looses everything and also suffers the most. That too when there is discrimination in the genders in the name of family values and virtues.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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But what I don't understand is why is aarzo so desperate to get married, she could have straight away refused to either Mary zaki and Sahir both. Becoz of so much confusion and the tough times she is in , is nikah necessary?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: naina2010

But what I don't understand is why is aarzo so desperate to get married, she could have straight away refused to either Mary zaki and Sahir both. Becoz of so much confusion and the tough times she is in , is nikah necessary?


She refused to marry Zaki after getting manipulated by Sahir. It is her mother and sister who wants her to get married to Zaki even after her protest and Sahir is pressurizing het to marry him. She clearly told yesterday' that she hates both the brothers.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: countryapple

Really,what can a girl do when the family for whom she have been striving to support backs out when she is in the most vulnerable state. No one tried to pacify her, she has been having continuous heartbreaks and everyone is pressurizing her for their own benefits. Her mother wants her to be her support system, her sisters want her to be their father and Sahir wants his deal, Alvira wants sahir's happiness, Zaki wants his love. Everyone is imposing their thoughts on her. No one even cares to ask her what she want. Really felt very bad for her



Wrote my mind dear...thats what i felt for her too...the very people for whom she is striving to take care with dignity without accepting money from anyone, for whom she accepted this job and trying to bring up her family, those very sisters of hers saying those things was horrible to watch. Esp the youngest sister...the whole family literally wanted Arzoo to get married to Zaki so that they can get to stay there forever and use Arzoo...and Choudhary family?

Infact Nausheen herself should have decided to leave the place with her daughters...all these days she talked about strength, izzat, abroo , now willing to pawn her daughter?

Felt so bad for Arzoo...Sahir played her, Zaki is god knows playing his own game, and zyra , myra and her mother want Arzoo to be the martyr...and support the family...

Sahir is also using this situation for his own benefit ...felt really bad for her.
All the poor girl wants is love and dignity...and that is what is eluding her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: countryapple


Yeah that is true. This happens in real also, the one who thinks more about the family and relation is one who looses everything and also suffers the most. That too when there is discrimination in the genders in the name of family values and virtues.

Discrimination in gender is one thing which doesn't change in our society no matter where you go from upper class , educated families to lower class the common problem . Though things are changing but the mind set of people still remains the same when it comes to their own family girls .
There are lots of such issues which the show is highlighting which is the bitter truth of our society.
Sisters blaming arzoo to marry any one rich choudhrys no matter who they are? Or what they are to support them financially ...isn't it more or less like sell your self for a rich guy in the name of marriage?

I felt really sad for arzoo today.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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What you said is so true, and it's the sad reality of what happens out there. The only way things will change is if the society starts thinking differently. It's true that a woman will always have to make sacrifices at some point in her life
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree with u...poor girl is suffering due to her pathatic family. ..due to her mother.
this time also she can b a support system to her family as her past life(so many years), but her pathatic mother took a big amount of money from sarfaraz n farah that too without her knowledge.
all NH people wants her for their own reasons. ..nobody is thinking about her desires...at least one person of her family or NH shud say her that u need a break m space from all the things, specially these two carzy lovers of her n concentrate on job.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: countryapple


She refused to marry Zaki after getting manipulated by Sahir. It is her mother and sister who wants her to get married to Zaki even after her protest and Sahir is pressurizing het to marry him. She clearly told yesterday' that she hates both the brothers.

But the reason is not correct. Aarzoo was never forced she has grown up being tough and able to handle situation. She lost her mental cool this time because of the heart break which Sahir gave her, I did not see any strong reason other than this. And I also have a feeling that Sahir made step mother to do that drama. He was behind her to force aarzoo to pay money back otherwise who will create such drama at the heat of the situation. Sahir is for sure behind all this, zaki not of course.

She cud still have stand strong and told alvira that she is not interested in marriage and continue to do her job till she gets hold of situation. Showing this cvs showed that a women is just a playing doll with no brains and strength to stand for herself. That's where I didn't like.
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