Does every child need both the parents?

I am posting here again after a long time...
Friday episode and all topics here made me question this?
Does a child need both parents for sure??? That might be true in old days when a woman is dependent on her husband for every thing regardig finances. But todays woman are self sufficient in fact there are families where woman earns more.money than husband and i doesn't mean that every financially sufficient woman should divorce their husband but if the husband is not a correct person? If he never fulfilled his duties as a father properly then should she compromise for her kids? Does that kids need that sort of hell which they recognise when they are of high school age that their parents doesn't love one other ibfact they hate one other but are compromjsed... Doesn't that effects the kids in a bad way?
Yeah one might say society expectations... Yes we are living in a society but society will bark like dogs for a feq days later when thwy get a much more biggwr gossip they will move on to it. In such a scenario what is need for the compromise?
I hope CVS dont don't drag it and clear this lot in a few episodes.
I am saying it from my own experiences i am a single child born in a family that is well known in my area but was raised by my single mother. In my child hood i used to think why my mom and dad aren't together later my gran explained it to me and when i am of age abt 11 years i myself understood it. But as far as it went I can clearly say it never affected my education or my future. Yeah i hoped my mom would have married some one else so that i can have a new papa... But thats a different issue... But still i personally think compromising with a bad person for sake of kids is meaning less

I defiantly Agree with what u have written, as a woman as a person who values ones existence I may never sympathize with Shobha if she wishes to compromise & want this so called both parents for the child where one parent has big time broken the trust.. It will be hard to explain to the child yes may be yet a future with him I say a big NO!! Single parent self respect dignity can be attain !! Yes I pick myself up & my family with my kids and walk my path to dignity I will show them my goodness values which completes the mom & dad attributes single handed!!

Shobha has to make her stand clear as an audience & we keep singing woman justice & rights & above all self respect yes even when it bottles down to your own blood show them the right from wrong .. Then again will they understnd shud u compromise ???

Yeah shanti thats what my doubt is too, today samarth may ask her to forgive and she may compromise but will thenguy remain good... To be a good father he has to love those kids which he clearly doesn't then how can he be a good father to them? And if not for that what is use of this compromise . and isn't samarth a convict then how can the children will have a good future when their dad's past will definitely haunt them

I don't know how many of you know this but if a person is arrested and is proved guilty of that crime then the spouse of that person can apply to divorce on basis that he or she is innocent of all those crimes

Here Shobha needs to take her stands very clearly, thats why lets wait & watch samarth's behavior, & Shobha was very strong willed woman all this while how will she continue to be that, emotional manipulation can easily takeover ones side when the other one sees a pinch of weakness & here Samarth is using all possible ways like batka huaa aadmi guum kay phir ampeny ghar lauttha hai apney parivaar kay paas... So these words which are coined are very tricky to emotionally manipulate, Samarth will also try to be that sweet person to win confidence Shobha needs to figure out the right & wrong will she does she realize how it would affect her kids future as her conversation with Vikram stating its for the kids future both parents are needed !!

All the reasoning understanding everything is jn Shobha's hand, does she have the strength authority to decide and take a stand put her foot down and decide for her own will & wish & confidence & trust!!

These are testing times lets put it!!

I completely agree with you.

From my experience I am writing this.

Originally posted by: rangamma

From my experience I am writing this.

When my neibhor's daughter got married to an NRI for 3 years they were separated. Her girl child of 3 yrs always longed to see her father.

Now they are united, but still the scar remains with the child

yes children will long to see their father but when some one explain it to then clearly that their papa is not good... Then will they?
Ok yes for sake of children even if parents reunite after attaining some age the child will defo understand the true nature of their papa then they will have a much more bigger hurt...