Sushpective: Can we stop hurting each other!

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-Sush-

@-Sush-

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Posted: 10 years ago

Hi Guys,

Sorry for the very late post...if you were waiting...

As is...this routine of making post everyday on IF, and that too at a specific time is not sustainable for me... Not sure how I have managed to continue for this long...so my apologies is advance if I am not able to keep up...Things may get busier in AD...and it may be that there is very limited time I can spend on IF...

Regarding today's episode...I feel like I already wrote down yesterday, what followed today...Saahirs mental status, Zakis situation and Arzoo trying to genuinely help a friend ...creating all kinds of misunderstanding...

Today I want to talk about ...what happens when we are feeling so low, so insecure, so uncared for...in other words...the worst...???

Is it so that that mental status see and believe the worst in others? Is it what we believe or is it our hurt talking?

Saahir is trapped in this situation...it is bad...really bad...He is finding no way out...So, when he goes and hears KA...and her Serioulsy flawed interpretation of Arzoo's intention and character...he finds them believable...It adds to his misery...

And misery loves company doesn't it? He want Arzoo to be focused on him...But he doesn't want to call her...He sits in his room feeling more miserable...brooding over Zakis words of how he is in love with Arzoo...So he does what any warm blooded desi soap hero does...goes and makes the object of his misery miserable...by taking it out on her...

She is a dramabaaz

She was in character when she pretended to be a person with self respect...

She is playing a game...

She fooled him...

And then he throws sarcasm at her, even contempt...

See that's the thing why being in love hurts so much at times...There are people whose words or actions you don't care about ...like KA to Aarzoo...KA can stoop down to any level...accuse her of anything...and Arzoo can ignore...but when Saahir says the same about her...it hurts her...really hurts her...

If only people who love each other can stop hurting each other ...this world would be a different place...

Here is the song choice for today...

"Hurting Each Other"

No one in the world

Ever had a love as sweet as my love

For nowhere in the wolrd

Could there be a boy as true as you love

All my love

I give gladly to you

All your love

You give gladly to me

Tell me why then

Oh why should it be that

We go on hurting each other

Making each other cry

Hurting each other

Without ever knowing why

Can't we stop hurting each other

Gotta stop hurting each other

Making each other cry

Breaking each other's heart

Tearing each other apart

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Posted: 10 years ago

And after he has taken it out on her...".leaving her dumbstruck...what just happened...why is he so angry with her...? What has she done wrong?

But that's it...she never knows what he is feeling...what is making him so feel so generous towards her...or what has turned him off...He doesn't open up...he doesn't talk about his feelings...How is she supposed to know? Didn't he say...in plain words...to GET OUT...not interfere in his private matters? Didn't he say...he doesn't care about her right after they shared a close moment...isn't he trying to cut her off? Then why ...why is he so upset? She knows that she loves him...she also knows that he is not ready to accept her love...he is not ready to let her in...and that he has no faith in her...

If only the change in expressions, had held on...if only she could see ...if only she had faith in his love...

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-Sush-

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Posted: 10 years ago

The CVs really want this to be the LAST RESORT...don't they?

Saahir is trying everything possible to get this deal...and by that is mean everything!! Even appealing to Zakis good sense...of course nothing works...Zaki has never been the one to shoulder any responsibility...he will not change in a day...

If only Zaki knew that a girl like Aarzoo could love a guy like him as a friend...but never romantically...He is just not her type...

I think it will be Alvira who will push Saahir to marry Arzoo ...as the final straw!

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Posted: 10 years ago

Finally,

Hats off to you Shweta...for making even KA. scene look so appealing! My favorite part...was when Saahir pulls on his tie knot as if he can't breathe! 😊

I have decided to say no more today about the comedy about the blood test...

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-Shwets-

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Posted: 10 years ago

Hi Sush ,

Thank You for opening a post amidst your busy schedule 🤗

"here she is, all mine, trying her best to give me all she can. How could I ever hurt her? But I didn't understand then. That I could hurt somebody so badly she would never recover. That a person can, just by living, damage another human being beyond repair."
~ Haruki Murakami

"The battle you are going through is not fueled by the words or actions of others; it is fueled by the mind that gives it importance."
~ Shannon L . Alder

"When the person you love can't see your love for them beneath the painful things you say when they reject you, remember this: Love is blind."
~Shannon L . Alder

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dakshaavi

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Posted: 10 years ago

Sush I was waiting for your post.

Sush & swetha you guys make the post so interesting , great job.

Sahir tried to put some sense in zaki's brain by let him know how important it is to have this deal and now their home , business & family is on stake . It's rehman who holds the key for all these things .

What zaki does chooses love over all , for the love which is one sided ...stupid .not knowing what the girl wants.

Sahir in his anger gets carried away by KA words ...how much it influence him . Sahir explodes in front of arzoo blame her to be gold digger . That out burst of sahir was so painful it hurt arzoo but it's hurt sahir more for hurting his love . Those tears he wanted to wipe after hurting her . Its a conflict between mind and heart .H.C did great job with expressions. Sahir loves arzoo now he knows that very well and that anger is bcoz he expects her to be his ...her loyalty should be limited to him .

Arzoo was heart broken by sahir's words , will she be able to trust him again after all this ?

This guy is too emotional and people around him knows well to encash it. Now rehman knows it's arzoo bcoz of whom zaki is not ready to accept Sam . He will get her out of the path now .

Sam is smarter than what she appear to be .

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bhavis

@bhavis

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Posted: 10 years ago

Sush your title made me pen something.

Isn't synonym of love pain and hurt. You can only hurt the person you love the most.

And to couple up with all the khichdi of misunderstanding its going to be worst.

I read a post on birthday celebration. How come they are having this happy time in middle of so many mind boggling life events.

Shweta do u know how to do layers on colages?

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@Grumpydwarf24

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Posted: 10 years ago

Nice post Sush and Great Collages Sush!

Not even sure what to say! This must be the 50^th time Arzoo simply got accused by someone and Saahir trusted it like it was carved in stone. There only so many times you can make the same mistake over again. And Arzoo my dear, you might not owe anyone an explanation but you can at least speak up to let others know they don't have a right to disrespect you whenever they wish. It is at least better than crying. I understand people fall weak in love but it's not healthy to become blind in love. How she comfortably gets romantic with the same person on her birthday is going to be another query? Truly love is blind. I wonder where this track is leading to? If Saaz nigah happens after this than I don't what to say?

Special thanks to Sush and Shweta for managing to come here every day for Sushpectives! We really do appreciate it!

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Ecrivain

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Posted: 10 years ago

Ah Sush n Shweta u Guys make up for a Deadly combo in The good sense...ok to begin With I don't know WTH is wrong with my Lile button it's as PMSed as me 😆?.so I can Lile posts when it's back to work

The scenes tht stood out were The SaAz n the sahir-zaki scenes ...they were well done n HC was as usual BRILLIANT ..The guy without saying anything delivers a stupendous act 👏

His pain n hurt n his schooling his love was palpable...superb is wht I wud say 😆

Wht is wrong With the side kicks in the show ..ALL n not one are cheap n now n the cvs need to buckle up ..this making a mockery out of things tht even the usual people are aware of Like blood tests n stuff won't be good

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-Sush-

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: redviolet

Nice post Sush and Great Collages Sush!

Not even sure what to say! This must be the 50^th time Arzoo simply got accused by someone and Saahir trusted it like it was carved in stone. There only so many times you can make the same mistake over again. And Arzoo my dear, you might not owe anyone an explanation but you can at least speak up to let others know they don't have a right to disrespect you whenever they wish. It is at least better than crying. I understand people fall weak in love but it's not healthy to become blind in love. How she comfortably gets romantic with the same person on her birthday is going to be another query? Truly love is blind. I wonder where this track is leading to? If Saaz nigah happens after this than I don't what to say?

Special thanks to Sush and Shweta for managing to come here every day for Sushpectives! We really do appreciate it!

Red...I think...Arzoo may believe that he is accusing her of seducing him (she did fall in love with him...which could have been misinterpreted)...she is so hurt that she doesn't have the will to argue with him either...or put her point forward...she accepts it as her cross to bear...for falling in love with him...for doing illogical things for him like trying to keep the Samaira affair quiet...

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