Sushpective: Can we stop hurting each other! - Page 3

Originally posted by: Suvika.

Hi Sush... Good morning. And thank you for posting. Thank you Shweta for the fabulous collage.

But that's it...she never knows what he is feeling...what is making him so feel so generous towards her...or what has turned him off...He doesn't open up...he doesn't talk about his feelings...How is she supposed to know? Didn't he say...in plain words...to GET OUT...not interfere in his private matters? Didn't he say...he doesn't care about her right after they shared a close moment...isn't he trying to cut her off? Then why ...why is he so upset? She knows that she loves him...she also knows that he is not ready to accept her love...he is not ready to let her in...and that he has no faith in her..

Arzoo never knows what Sahir is feeling. You are right about that. She is just going by his words. "Go away" "Stay away" "Get out" and above all "Mujhe koi fark NAHI padta" That I think has slashed her into pieces on the inside. Sahir is the second man in her life to say that. Her father had been that way too, didn't he? He left because he didn't care. Now she came here and fell in love with this man who is again effectively saying the same thing. She is not able to see the pain in his eyes because she herself is drowning in her own hurt.

I hope when all this is over and she comes to know of the bet / challenge between the brothers, she would tear both brothers to pieces and reveal her reason in the process. She is not able to say anything right now. Her problem is if she reveals her reason, it would be like confessing she has feelings for him. That would make her vulnerable in front of the man who according her thoughts is going to reject her. In last night's episode when he had been saying all those things to her, she was left wondering how to even begin explaining. And then Zaki called, cutting the interlude.

You are right. Alvira is the only one who can put a full stop to this. Samaira is not going to leave Zaki anytime soon. Rahman, KU and Anam want Sam-Zaki pairing and to keep Arzoo completely out of the equation. Every meeting between Arzoo and Sahir has been a confrontation so far. So maybe when the truth is revealed Alvira would use it as her weapon and say Sahir played with Arzoo's izzat or jazbaat so he has to marry her.

Posted this in my thread but doing it here too. Hope you don't mind. 😳

Originally posted by: -vandy-

hello sush...lovely post as usual...😊

u know...what i feel is that the perspective of love...or shall i say understanding of love is different for both sahir and aarzoo

i'll start with aarzoo first...

this is her first taste of love...she's young...naive...and for the first time in her life she gets to know a man who protects her...who trusts her...who supports her...unknowingly she starts falling for him...desiring him...and before she can know...she has fallen in love with him... she wants and expects things from him...things like unconditional understanding...things like knowing her in and out...looking in each others eyes...weaving dreams of a future together...nothing extraordinary for a girl who has fallen in love for the first time...a girl who has not seen much in life life...difficulties yes...but worldly ways...no...

coming to sahir...

he has seen a lot in life...loved someone dearly...and been cheated by that same person... for him..love no longer means looking in each others eyes...and weaving dreams of future...for him...love means seeing in the same direction...dreaming of meeting the same horizon...for him...love has a deeper meaning...it means faith...loyalty...and trust...and he ensures all this in aarzoo...he has faith in her...trusts her completely...and has no qualms abt her loyalty being towards him... he's a man who has been cheated in life...so this time wen he realises his growing feelings towards a girl...he makes sure to guard himself from another heartbreak...

things start getting out of hands wen they expectations clash against each other...she wants him to read her eyes and trust her completely...he wants her to strengthen his trust in her by telling him the truth...by making him her only confidant...

but he sees her making his younger brother her confidant...she sees him not understanding what her eyes r saying...both have the same intention...the well being of the other...but...

both r failing each other...in their expectations of each other...but ultimately there'll be a point in their relationship wen they'll understand each other's expectations...

i'll wait for that time...

coming to yesterday's epi...

it belonged to harshad hands down!

that scene where kurti spits venom against aarzoo...and sahir's mind just starts calculating things...it was done brilliantly by harshad... kurti had the dialogues...hc had the expressiions...

and that scene where the whole accusation drama unfolds...brilliance would be an understatement!

the voice and expression modulation used was like watch a pro enact magic on screen...coupled with that hollow laugh...and that hand gesture...he left me awed...

and what added that extra touch was shivya...that whole hand gesture...shivya's tears...no words spoken...but their silence held the scene...brilliant...

Originally posted by: jay_bpm

Well well, there's seem self-destructive love !!

No matter if they do good or bad to each other, eventually both are hurting their-selves 😆

I do not know if it is that much poetic yet but me have habit of writing few lines so for the scene when Sahir with sarcastic smile asks Aarzoo to leave, I wrote following in other post:

Unko laga ke badi aasani se maine kaha

mujse durr tum chale jao,

Woh suntte gaye mere labzo ko,

Aur dekhte rahe iss nafrat ko,

par labzo me chupe dard ke ehsaas ko kyu mehsoos na kiya,

nafrat ke dikhave ki bebasi ko kyun na dekha gaya,

Kaise kahu unke liye kis kadar ro raha hu me,

Saare aansoo sukh gaye mere par dil jalta reh gaya,

Khulle aam is kadar katal kiya maine apna,

kafan mille na mile mujhe, apne hi katal ki saza

ke intezar me khada reh gaya...

Originally posted by: -vandy-

and sweta

simply loved the collages...esp that hand gesture one

Originally posted by: ultimaterudra

GM Sush ,

Was talking to Mom about Humsafars this is what she had to say ...I am loving all this drama which is created , and so are my friends . ...Gul knows what she is doing ...After the success of QH she has the mastered the formula ...we may not like it but the masses back home are ...the TRP aunties who make or break a show .

Have a good day ...will catch up later in the evening 😃