Briju don't preach.. I'm keeping my baby

hello my sweeties....

me back again with a topic....

MADONNA: papa don't preach ..... I 'm keeping my baby......

as we know this hole track is coming up.....

but I would like to know ....

how can we ( woman) keep a child knowing the it is the nishani off our berbadi....how are we supposed to love that kid.... why should we care for it.... the child isn't conceived out off love....

so in sort abortion or not......

( keep in mind ...that I am not talking about .... the fly honer or born out off wedlock..... for me that isn't a Q.....it's about a woman's right and feelings.....)

i agree with you but i think for the sake of that life within her(pia)or any woman for that matter should keep the child.afterall it's still her child.the child is not at fault here.don't you think the child should be given a chance.on the contrary it would take a lot of strength coz everytime she looks at the child's face it would remind her!! women are full of strength.women have can overcome any obstacles put in their way and in this case i'm sure pia will make the right decision

Originally posted by: kavster

i agree with you but i think for the sake of that life within her(pia)or any woman for that matter should keep the child.afterall it's still her child.the child is not at fault here.don't you think the child should be given a chance.on the contrary it would take a lot of strength coz everytime she looks at the child's face it would remind her!! women are full of strength.women have can overcome any obstacles put in their way and in this case i'm sure pia will make the right decision

kav...

Quote: for the sake off the life within here......this life is forced in her.... the woman was rape....so this kid is forced on her.....

yes agree it will take a lot off courage to keep this kid./.... but I dont't think in these day's we shouldn't be forced to keep the baby...

Originally posted by: kavster

i agree with you but i think for the sake of that life within her(pia)or any woman for that matter should keep the child.afterall it's still her child.the child is not at fault here.don't you think the child should be given a chance.on the contrary it would take a lot of strength coz everytime she looks at the child's face it would remind her!! women are full of strength.women have can overcome any obstacles put in their way and in this case i'm sure pia will make the right decision

im sorry but i kinda dont agree with you here.....i agree its not the baby's fault but here it is also the question of the mother's life......Every single day she will look at that baby and re-live the trauma every day of her life. She will never be able to move on. If the woman had consented to sex but after conception she does not want the baby, then she has no right to abort it because she could have prevented it from happening....but when a woman is raped, she had not consented to it.....therefore she should have a choice. Its again, the age old debate of principles versus practicality !! In this world you cant always live by principles....sometimes you have to be practical in order to survive.

Originally posted by: dshetty

im sorry but i kinda dont agree with you here.....i agree its not the baby's fault but here it is also the question of the mother's life......Every single day she will look at that baby and re-live the trauma every day of her life. She will never be able to move on. If the woman had consented to sex but after conception she does not want the baby, then she has no right to abort it because she could have prevented it from happening....but when a woman is raped, she had not consented to it.....therefore she should have a choice. Its again, the age old debate of principles versus practicality !! In this world you cant always live by principles....sometimes you have to be practical in order to survive.

yeh actually if we were in that position.maybe we wld have aborted.i guess it's only a serial so it's easy to say.but untill we are in that position.so principles aside it would be right to abort so that it would be easier to move on.

Originally posted by: dshetty

im sorry but i kinda dont agree with you here.....i agree its not the baby's fault but here it is also the question of the mother's life......Every single day she will look at that baby and re-live the trauma every day of her life. She will never be able to move on. If the woman had consented to sex but after conception she does not want the baby, then she has no right to abort it because she could have prevented it from happening....but when a woman is raped, she had not consented to it.....therefore she should have a choice. Its again, the age old debate of principles versus practicality !! In this world you cant always live by principles....sometimes you have to be practical in order to survive.

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going off topic....but want to know...

so in your eyes a woman raped has the choice but a woman who consents is not allowed to have a abortion.....

so she has to get punished for her fault.... but it could be that the AC isn't working how it supposed to.... what then ....

My opinion, in every case women should have a choice. It is the women who bear the child for 9 months. Has nothing to do whether it is the child fault or not.
I agree why relive the moment every day of your life if you can not stand it for a moment - the episode not the baby..
Infact it is bad for the child..for the child-sake and for the lady too it is better to have that choice in every situation. If you think you can not give a good healthy life to a child than you have no right to bring it to this world. Infact the women should have right to make this choice...as mother always knows the best for their child...

If even after taking all the protection in the world, if she still falls preggers then what can one say. Depends on her financial, emotional, physical or mental state at that time. Differs from person to person. But in the end, its her choice and nobody can be judgemental about it, because its her life and she knows the best way to live it !!

Originally posted by: sassy1

My opinion, in every case women should have a choice. It is the women who bear the child for 9 months. Has nothing to do whether it is the child fault or not.
I agree why relive the moment every day of your life if you can not stand it for a moment - the episode not the baby..
Infact it is bad for the child..for the child-sake and for the lady too it is better to have that choice in every situation. If you think you can not give a good healthy life to a child than you have no right to bring it to this world. Infact the women should have right to make this choice...as mother always knows the best for their child...

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very good answer.....

why relive every day......

the baby would do blamed all his/ her life.... so that isn't fair for the child....

Pia does not even know who the Father of the baby is. She has a failed marriage, a rape & child is the last thing she needs.

I mean one shld not get emotional, rape is very Harsh. I feel she shld do abortion & try to leave with loved ones. She needs to get her strength & health back & when she is ready she can fall in love & have a Family 😊