Originally posted by: _Meena_
i agree with rhea said...the fight was between ur friends ...let 'em resolve their problems on their own...life is challenging but in a good sense
Aru !!! 😲 😲..
I had no idea that the fight between me & Anjali affected you this much..
Aru, its true that u r a positive person but i have to agree with ur friends here , WHY ON EARTH WOULD YOU BLAME YOURSELF & put yourself through all of this for what happened on HP forum...
Aru, this is disheartening utterly disheartening for me to know that i was the reason for such an emotional breakdown for you..
I need you to read the following lines carefully :
1. IF is an online world & it is NOT healthy to let it affect you to this extent.
2. Its ok , in fact quite healthy to do a LITTLE bit of time pass here , make friends & have good time.
3. You must NOT let yourself be isolated from the REAL world & seek comfort in the virtual world, it is bad for you on so many levels.
4. Do not invest ur energy , effort & emotions in the virtual world to this extent , "It does not do well to dwell in dreams " , Dumbledore's words for Harry when he got tricked by the Mirror of Erised ( IF in the present context is the Mirror of Erised )..
Aru, I am really really concerned about you now.. please do not let such silly issues affect u this much.. but on the brighter side , it looks like you have taken some healthy decisions by cutting down ur time on IF.. now add , socializing & mixing up with people in the real world to that & you are good to go !!.. ⭐️ 👍🏼... i dont mean to say that you must immediately gather a group of friends in real life , no not like that..take baby steps .. like ur friends here suggested , join a club , go gymming , dancing , singing or any other activity u like (which involves group activity & group bonding ) & then for some alone time , u can retreat to ur first love "writing "..😃 ..
Aru, our life is in our hands & your whole life is still in front of you , you can mould it whichever way you want to.. be whatever you want to be..and do what you love doing the most.. that will make you happy & in order to make others happy , it is very important that you make yourself happy first.. you owe it to yourself.. 😊
P.S.. To other members of the forum & especially the members of this AT , sorry to intrude like this ..but this will be my first and only post here.. hope you'all dont mind..😊
Edited by Quixotic5 - 10 years ago