THE ART OF LETTING GO - Page 5

Originally posted by: mysha

I sent you a PM 😊

Bhanu thnx and this is so brave of you to share this with us ..come here girl 🤗

Originally posted by: btalwar

Mysha ... Thanks for sharing a bit of you ... it does make a difference ... well my story is kind of similar to yours ... my mum was in coma for 9 months before she took her last breath .. we were watching Movers and Shakers and she went to the bathroom and collapsed ... she never came back to senses ... it was worse by each passing month ... in the end she was nothing but a ghost of herself ...

I belonged to a small town so she was shifted to Delhi as my maternal family is of doctors ... they have a hospital ... she was kept there and we used to visit in between school ... I always knew her end was the eventual truth but a ray of hope was always there that may be by some miracle she may get ok ...

I saw my dad going thru a worse phase .. he lost weight .. he was always sad ... so there were days I prayed for my mum's death because I felt I may end up loosing my dad too ... and of course it was beyond painful to see my mum in this condition ...

It was mid term for me and my sis and therefore we delayed our visit by just one week ... and she took her last breath during that week ... somewhere it killed my whole family that may be ... just may be even when she was in coma and in no senses ... our presence every week made sense to her ... and may she was waiting ...

this is what made me feel worse for months ... but then three months after my mum's death it was my sisters birthday ... she hugged me and cried and said i never realized till date that mummy is not coming back .. I simply thought she is in naanu's hospital and we will meet her as soon as my exams are over ...

that moment is my life's most difficult moment ... I grew up in an instant .. I decided i had to let go just and move on for the sake of my sister ... she is my first kid and will always be ...
But believe me ... moving on actually helped me and my family ... it brought back a smile on my papa's face, my sisters face and our family though incomplete ... learnt to live ...

of course it goes without saying that i have been blessed with one of the best fathers in this world ... he is my backbone and my strength and i will not be 10% of what I am had it not been for him ... his sacrifice for his children is unmatchable and his loss cannot be matched ... especially now that am married ... i do realize it much more ...

Yaara fir se senti kar dia ... no Paru to detox also ... i think will call it a nite ...

With this ... HUGS to you girl ... 🤗

Originally posted by: paru_rox

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Edited:

I already told you Bhanu that I had stopped reading serious posts especially character analysis etc but girl you are something. I started reading this and could not let go. Actually read it through in one go and enjoyed every word because of the way it was written ... simple yet engrossing.

Firstly *hugs* ... loss of a parent is unimaginable and tough especially at a young age. I will just say that somewhere your mum would be proud of the person you have turned out to be and coz I do interact with you beyond forum so can safely say this.

You know I was amazed at Raman-Mihir's bond yesterday. It was so touching.
Mihir's fear that he might lose the love of his life and his insecurity over the brother/ father figure he dotes on. The little boy in him who felt betrayed not only coz his sister betrayed the man he looked up to but also somewhere because she ignored the values & beliefs he believed in. He believes in the sanctity of marriage, love & faith while she did not keep to any one of those values and to top that the woman who is his mother did the same. The same mother who instilled those values in him, she was equally blinded by the glint of riches that her daughter could have. So what if it meant going against good and destroying someone who had always loved them & supported them. I absolutely loved the equations involved in the Arora family as much as they disgust me.

Raman on the other hand, truly saw the one thing that he was meant to at that moment. It was more than Ishita or his own life. It was the life of his brother & friend. He was lost and was destroying himself just like he had once done. Ishita saved him but if Mihir went the way he did, he might lose the light of his life - Mihika. So he opens up and tells him that it is finally time to let go coz I have let go. The person whom it all started with. I have moved on with a beautiful family and I want the same for you. So what if it means letting Shagun get what she wants. She has chosen that, so let her have it ...because she no longer affects me (this is where his life with Ishita came into picture).


I am going to cut short on my rant coz have got a meeting to attend. Look what you made me do Bhanu, write woh bhi serious wala. Hope you see some sense into it coz I rarely do this anymore so forgive me if its a bit disjointed 😳

Brilliant post ... hope you can guess that from my reply. When have you seen me writing this much recently 😃

Originally posted by: btalwar

To begin with ... 😳😳 .. as you said ... we interact beyond forum so I very well know about your reluctance to enter into any serious thread ..

So ... the very fact that you ended your sanyaas from serious posts by commenting here means a LOT ... 😳😳 .

🤗 to you.

And am I glad that made you break your sanyaas? Koi Shak nahi isme boss.
Because it took an entire Puran from my end to explain about Letting Go ... and you ... you just did it in one line ...

So he opens up and tells him that it is finally time to let go coz I have let go. The person whom it all started with.

@BOLD: You let go because I have and it all started from me. A full circle. Take a Bow girl.

It is rare ... really rare for me to be rendered speechless ... am right now struggling with words because I really do not know what should I write ... it is like ... your BAS ... Period. This sentence had that kind of magic. I am moved at the depth this single line has... the thoughts it provoked ... the emotions it conveyed ... the sincerity it conveys ... aah ... I want to go on ... I really want to but do not know what .. my vocabulary fails me ...

As I said ... after you let go, the peace which you get in return cannot be explained ... it can be felt ... this sentence conveys EXACTLY what I meant ... this is what Raman meant and this is what he wanted his brother to feel because finally after six years ... he was at peace.

The Brilliant absolutely belongs to you my dear ... hands down ... only to you.

P.S.: Now that you have stirred up a hornet's nest ... be ready for the consequences ... 😈 .. I now know what lies beneath this kostin girl ... she knows how to read and respond and the topmost .. touch someone's heart. So ... openly warning you ... I am going to be after your life to pull you into at least my threads and ask you to respond ...

and since I can as it is my thread ... I officially label your response as the teaser to my writeup 😳.
so, if someone has a problem with the length of this puran ... all they have to do is go to your response and understand what I meant by all this ranting ...