is it bad for a woman/man to marry a widower?

After reading a few posts on this forum reguarding Myrah marrying Rudra.

How can Rudra live with Myrah all his life without thinking about Paro while looking at her?

Is this fair on Myrah?

No it's not bad thing. Everybody deserves love and nobody wants to be alone.

I think the issue in this case is not that Rudra is a widower, the issue is that it would be creepy if he would fall in love with a woman, who is look-a-like to his late wife.
Of course it broke our heart that Paro died, but at the end of the day we want Rudra to be happy and Dhruv to be happy. Life goes on and doesn't stop for anybody. It's naturally to fall in love again. It's just the fact that Myra has the same face as Paro. Of course it could always be case that he will love her for who is she is, but there always be a little doubt, if he loves her just because of the face.

In the case of RR, yes it is, becasue she is the dead ringer of the hero's dead wife. I don't care for them to get together. AT ALL. EVER EVER 😆 unless she is the dead heroine. Recreated from the ashes by the love of the hero and her son. 😭

Originally posted by: PhoenixRising

How can Rudra live with Myrah all his life without thinking about Paro while looking at her?

Is this fair on Myrah?

Originally posted by: IMMI-

good point but how do you know that he will not fall in love with myrah?

the story hasn't unfolded yet and there could be an outcome where he loves myrah for who she is

or the story could unfold to be paro instead

my point is if it isn't paro then how do you say he won't fall in love again

Originally posted by: ...pinky...

I agree with you, it takes a very compassionate and kind individual to give a broken family another chance. Especially a child who has never known a mother's love. If Myrah was played by another actress, I don't think people would have the same response as they are now. It's the mere fact that her and Paro are IDENTICAL that makes it unbearable to comprehend. So, I don't think marrying a widower with a child is the problem. It's the fact that Myrah bares Paro's face. How does she know if Rudra looks at her as Myrah or as his beloved first wife? Is that fair to Myrah? Is she just a mere replacement? Doesn't Myrah deserve to be loved for who SHE is?

Originally posted by: Zeeliciousxo

Because there are men in the real world even who only love once and never fall in love again and Rudra is that type of a man, going by his characterization. But the CVs are butchering his characterization so yes you will see him fall for Myrah.

Also I wanted to add, the love that Paro and Rudra shared is a love that you can never forget. This loved changed Rudra. It did have an big impact on his life and therefore he will never forget her and shouldnt forget her. And Paro will always live on in Dhruv's face.

The writers show Myra as a total different character to Paro and of course it always can be that Rudra falls for her character and not her face...
but in real life it is just unbelievable that someone can love someone with the same face like a past love and never think about the past love.