Something's never changes...manhandling and being judgemental. - Page 5

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Both are equally wrong here I agree but I wish indian man would learn some manners all those touching and pulling is irritating.
Edited by Lemonsunrise - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: SanayaIsBest



Rudra has changed only for Paro, I guess he still Jallad for every one else who ruffles his feelings!

Rudra never changed, Paro was the exception.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Manhandling is not ok, I agree with that but as for judgemental I think Myrah is worse than Rudra.

Her behaviour itself shows that she is a spoilt and a bit self absorbed, she's always saying 'how dare someone speak to me like this, how dare someone do this to me' almost as if she's more entitled, not just because she has self respect.

And to get her own way, without considering other people's feelings she used her connections to force her way into Rudra's house, and then acts all high and mighty as if she didn't do that.🥱 She also believes just because no one else said anything it means they welcomed her to stay, but she didn't personally ask them.

Not only that, she not only talks about Rudra's wife, she also says she would would commit suicide if she was Rudra's wife, if that isn't insensitive and stupid I don't know what is. No one should say that to anyone, especially not to a person who you don't even know. Plus that's her being judgemental of him based on what she sees, so why can't he do the same of her? The only difference I see is that on occasion his outbursts were more justified, as she was first late on the first day, and then she repeatedly talked and lectured him about his behaviour and his wife, and then forced her way into his home as if it's a hotel, and I think anyone would get angry with that.

I don't personally like the character of Myrah much, because I knew the writers would stereotype her. In Indian shows, the Western females, are always shown to be self-obsessed, arrogant, selfish, childish, not valuing culture or tradition, and always fighting with the men whether it is necessary or not. That's an Indian shows idea of a modernised woman, when I think more people character wise are more like Meethli. Her values and the way she behaves with others, is probably a better reflection of a modern woman than Myrah.

So manhandling wise yes Rudra is wrong, but Myrah to me is more judgemental, arrogant and selfish.

Edited by butterfly15.. - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#44
I completely agree with you, as I said in an earlier post on this same thread.

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