WHY Rudra has the Feminine Touch..(UPDATE Pg 3)

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Has anyone realized that our army man, the desire of a thousand beating hearts, our Major Rudra Pratap Ranawat--- is in many ways, very much like a woman? GOOD GOD, the brickbats, the chappals! The PMs with pictures of half naked Rudra, flooding my inbox!


Stop Baisa! Let me explain! As part of my long term service to India Forums, (a one sided contract, where I faithfully post and post they...well...they don't know who the hell I am) I was ignoring the work I get paid for, and re-watching Youtube scenes of Rudra as he interacts with everyone else...OTHER than Paro.


And in my unpaid research, I found that with his scenes with Laila, and especially with Mohini, Rudra reverts to a kind of man who neither vamp has the ability to deal with--a very manipulative, cutting and hilariously.. well, bitchy man. His dialogue is very sarcastic, but it is not male sarcasm, with its crude humor and straight talk. Its ironic, mean and delivered in a sickly sweet voice where his fake-ness is absolutely palpable. Its accompanied by a smile that reminds me of the horrible girls in high-school, JUST before they are about to singe your hair off with a particularly sugary, totally cruel comment.


When Rudra is about to rip you into pieces, he does not do so with a male growl or a scary glare (though the man has those weapons, too). When it's a war of words-- he wins every time, because he really knows how to strike below the belt, attack the enemy's weak points. You and I both know, Baisa--- that is a quintessentially female weapon. It's verbal warfare, to know vulnerable points and strike at them-and it is something I have seen VERY few men manage to do at all, much less excel at, like Rudra does.


This is the first time I have a seen a macho, primitive alpha man be so---girly. Whether its using "meri patni " with Laila deliberately, smiling softly at her furious face, or making Mohini pay for her "adored nephew's" lavish wedding, whether it is to snipe at Mala's tendency to run out by opening the door to make it easier for her, or even his barbed comments to Paro, at times, Rudra channels some purely female instinct and does so in a devastatingly effective way.


He cannot be manipulated by female tears, by female drama. He cannot be appealed to, emotionally, like a hundred men could be, in the exact same situation. Laila tries, and fails--- because Rudra cannot be taken in. Mohini tries again and again, and finally gives up-because while both her sons believe her, Rudra looks at her with cynical eyes that read women uncannily well. He understands the female psyche. And, disturbingly, he can think like us, too.


Rudra is also very much in touch with his emotions--- far more than I think, any of us could have reasonably expected from our leading man when the show started. Please understand. I am not insulting Rudra in the disguise of a compliment. Nor am I saying it is unmanly to be emotional. The menfolk-- hell, they are probably more emotional than us, and less equipped to deal with "them feels." But have you seen an alpha male this open and this given to direct speech about his inner torment/love?


He is emotional, his feelings are potent and raw, and they are as admirable in their honesty as they are poignant in their intensity. His patriotism is no ordinary love, his loyalty is no ordinary emotion, his grief and hurt is no ordinary pain. His worship of Paro is no ordinary passion. Rudra feels with an intensity... be it hatred and betrayal, be it love and devotion... he feels his emotions with a depth I have not encountered before in any show. Not in the male lead, even if its there in the heroine.


And Rudra expresses himself with the simple straightforwardness I have again never seen--- when he loves, he says so. When he hates--- he says so. It pours out of him with the directness of a child--- or a woman. The magic of Rudra is this female expressiveness. And this is shown without losing one ounce, one inch, of his virile male hardness and appeal. And other than Ashish (and possibly Vivian Dsena) I cannot imagine another actor who could have delivered this male/female element so brilliantly. I don't know who else could have stayed a powerful, smoldering alpha man--- while showing a tenderness (and a ruthlessness) that is wholly female.


So, Baisa...your take? (And I was kidding about the naked, shirtless pictures of Rudra being unwanted in my inbox. If you have them Baisa, why hog the glory? Keep em coming!)

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Posted: 11 years ago
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What a fabulous analysis! Totally agree..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I can't agree more, free flowing tears at the drop of the hat not helping. But essentially it is child like, the child man who was royally left out in the dark, all messed up and cynical by waring parents.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very well written... Totally agree with you... He truly feels his emotion with depth. Which I totally love and adore. Like Sanaya said in one of the SBS... Rudra is like a women... Sometimes of course...😉

There is never any pretense with both of them. The straightforwardness of PaRud is what I love the most about them (Which I never saw in the leads). 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Rudra expresses himself with the simple straightforwardness I have again never seen--- when he loves, he says so. When he hates--- he says so. It pours out of him with the directness of a child--- or a woman.


Well said Baisa!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Mera aaj buddae hai. This is a perfect gift! :P
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: _SenbonZakura_

Mera aaj buddae hai. This is a perfect gift! :P

🥳Hey ! happy b'day dear and Navin sa ... how well you write yaar.
re-reading !!!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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And Rudra expresses himself with the simple straightforwardness I have again never seen--- when he loves, he says so. When he hates--- he says so. It pours out of him with the directness of a child--- or a woman.

Fabulous character sketch of Rudra!
@bold: I LOVE this in him. He says it because it just is! No beating about the bush, no awkwardness, no hesitation...*sigh*



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ab kya kahen baisa...

chappal to shayad mujhe bhi padenge kyonki I have been observing this side of his ever since he forced entered the haveli...
His demeanor and the way he searched for essentials in the kitchen.. uff... and then the incidents of awesome dialogues of tu tu mein mein with his kakisa...
I remember during the pre-wedding rituals Mohini tells Sumer ki aakhir nephew kis ka hai... and also that one after he forces the red bangles on her wrist... When he tells Mohini : "Bhataki aatma..."

I am telling you, this man is an out and out woman from inside.. warnaa men need solid training in taana maroing which comes naturally to women...

Ab to yeh shayad takiya kalaam hi ho gaya hai par let me repeat once again...such men .. like mhaara Rudradev...are really hard hard to find...

Navinsa... don't you also feel that he is super sensitive when it comes to such issues, and now more so because of his wife... earlier too he was the same but the sensitivity was layered with multiple shades of hatred and negativity...

And that's why the aaloo and the rotis were always burnt.

I mean, this Rudra is so so on my mind that I want to taste the jale hue aloo... Boss the man can actually cook and remember he is used to doing his chores himself...

Had Paro not jumped in from the window, I am sure he would have fixed the button on his shirt with one hand... which means he can take care of himself and survive in this bad bad world .. like he had previously when alone...

I also mean that he is like a chameleon.. can transform himself into several roles...and multitask.. and now this is something which women do and not men... who typically take eons to figure themselves out and many are even lost in this journey to find themselves only to be brought back by their women.. if any...

I think it was in the first few episodes that he is seen ordering his father to move to Chandangarh and says : ek accha beta banney ka mauka de... see this is what I am referring to... bilkul malai hai malai ... Rudradevji maharajji...

And .. and I think this has been inherited from Mala's chromosome... it is sad that a once prolific actress like Sadiya is today acting like a flat carpet... in which we harried viewers and fans are poking holes, and rightly so! ...

Now just imagine that if things were not what they have been or are... farz karo ki Rudra and his parents be a happy/content family... what would our man have been?

My heart says that he would have emerged as the most sought after men in this world and not in term so hotness quotient but the EQ levels.

The other word for such kind is : METROSEXUAL. But alas.. our man is in distant chandangarh.. and not Delhi/Bombay...
For me he is man who is every woman's man... that kind of man which your husband or your boyfriend isn't.. and this again I think is all because of his mother...

And finally our Malai-man is so so besotted with his Paro that if not controlled he will turn into one... a Paro's Paro...

Oh no... kahaan se kahaan pahoch gayee aur kya kya likh diya...

Aap bhi naa baisaa... ek rusted mind ko kaam pe laga dete ho...

Hugs

Hiral

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Navin sa.
Very different take on Rudra ...im wondering how did this come to your mind.. 😊
Rudra is one of the best written characters that I have seen on TV as yet.
He is all male hotness when looked from one angle... perfect desire for all fandom ... ( including us 😳 ) .. and all rough and tough and goon beating type of guy... the other side of him is what you have described ...sweet, caring,bitchy!! sly and we go on and on.
The thing in him is his honesty which comes and strikes us like a whirlwind... and this is why we love him so much .

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