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Posted: 11 years ago
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People keep saying that he agreed for adoption despite wanting a kid just because he wanted to make Anandi happy. But he clearly said he wanted to be Father to Anandi's children and it doesn't matter whether they are biological kids or adopted kids.

Shiv always wanted to make Anandi happy.. When he agreed to marry her at her's insistence to fulfill her mother's last wish, when he supported her during Jagdish's amnesia, when he was waiting for her to get over her ex and accept him as a husband etc. But just this one sentence @ bold bothers me a bit. Couldn't she for once, just for once make him happy if he wanted so badly to have a child. I guess he made her happy again because her wish was to adopt. Not to mention that for a young, healthy couple it is completely normal and natural and the most beautiful thing in the world to have their own child. Adoption can come even after.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: saska

People keep saying that he agreed for adoption despite wanting a kid just because he wanted to make Anandi happy. But he clearly said he wanted to be Father to Anandi's children and it doesn't matter whether they are biological kids or adopted kids.

Shiv always wanted to make Anandi happy.. When he agreed to marry her at her's insistence to fulfill her mother's last wish, when he supported her during Jagdish's amnesia, when he was waiting for her to get over her ex and accept him as a husband etc. But just this one sentence @ bold bothers me a bit. Couldn't she for once, just for once make him happy if he wanted so badly to have a child. I guess he made her happy again because her wish was to adopt. Not to mention that for a young, healthy couple it is completely normal and natural and the most beautiful thing in the world to have their own child. Adoption can come even after.

That was just an example to illustrate how he does things that he wants to do in response to the post which said how he lets Anandi dominate him.
Just wanted to say that he doesn't let Anandi dominate him but his happiness lies in her happiness.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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When one loves the wife too much and supports her in every way, that person is in danger of being called henpecked.

When one is takes wifey for granted, then the person is called dominating.

When husband tries to control every aspect of her wifey's life, he is called a control freak.

Kuch to log kahenge.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

When one loves the wife too much and supports her in every way, that person is in danger of being called henpecked.

When one is takes wifey for granted, then the person is called dominating.

When husband tries to control every aspect of her wifey's life, he is called a control freak.

Kuch to log kahenge.


He supports her when he sees it fit.

He agreed to marry her because he wanted to marry her despite her not being too enthusiastic about it.

Decision to adopt - Agreed that idea was not his but he was quite okay with the idea of adopting a child because that idea appealed to him

He didn't blindly support his wife's ways.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

He supports her when he sees it fit.

He agreed to marry her because he wanted to marry her despite her not being too enthusiastic about it.

Decision to adopt - Agreed that idea was not his but he was quite okay with the idea of adopting a child because that idea appealed to him

He didn't blindly support his wife's ways.




They say love is blind.😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think Shiv use having kid is only make Anandi more ☺️

I don't think they were planning for kid...its was pure flirting teasing


It doesn't look Shiv in hurry to become father...whenever he said its only for teasing purpose


when Anandi come with idea of adoption he clearly ask her doesn't she interested to have kid of her own...Anandi did not reject idea.

Anandi said she also wanted same...when times comes it happen for sure. She doesn't wanted to wait...she feels only giving birth to child does not makes you mother.

CV wanted show even healthy couple opted for adoption before having biological kid. Even interview Sid himself told he seen one couple actually adopt kid seeing this track in BV.

Agree adoption track does not handle very wisely logically by CV. It seems Anandi wanted to do some charity hence adopt.


but since Anandi Shiv are most mature people even this charity looks enduring...esp during Amol's kidnap track. That time it does not give u feeling that both done some charity...both were react exactly like true parents. Connection between Amol AnSh are evident.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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A fun note. No offence. Adoption is like readymade food. When readymade food is available why to take the trouble of cooking food?

And again they have to bring one more baby and they just cant make the baby disappear as they are doing in gehna's case as anandi has to be shown as a caring mother in every episode.😆

and also all the ceremonies associated with pregnancy and childbirth. But wont it look cute between anandi and shiv?
Edited by leavesandwaves - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#28

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Ignoring problems thinking that they will go away.

Shiv is too gentle and laidback for his own good.



Correct ! Shiv is too laid back and quiet and does not defend himself forcefully when he should. He is just unable to cope with the smart and super sexy Rasika who is piling accusation after accusation on him. He is used to gentle and plain looking women like Anandi and is unable to face a calculating and smoking hot beautiful woman like Rasika.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: begumparaa



Correct ! Shiv is too laid back and quiet and does not defend himself forcefully when he should. He is just unable to cope with the smart and super sexy Rasika who is piling accusation after accusation on him. He is used to gentle and plain looking women like Anandi and is unable to face a calculating and smoking hot beautiful woman like Rasika.


@Bold

😲

Rasika looks like a chimp to me! Nowhere a smokin hot, beautiful, smart, super sexy babe!

Has this prostitute vibe about her. How is she smart?

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