Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
Shiv allows himself to be dominated by powerful women. From dadisa to DB from Ira sanchi to anandi. And now rasika.
He is allowing DB to get away with murder. He is losing voice on the homefront. With the help of anandi who specialises in doling out apologies.
A mere PA could make his life miserable and taunting him in the court and he is not able to look into her eyes.
Is he an escapist? Not able to take proper decisions at the right time?
What exactly do you mean by dominated by women?????
Dadisa was the bridge between him and Anandi. He genuinely like the old lady and appreciated her for her goodness and not everybody is capable taking on the responsibility of a daughter in law and strive to give anew life for her.
DB - Is she really worth the trouble?????Is he answerable to her?????He made it clear to her that he won't listen to her talking ill about Anandi and Amol. Rest of the things that DB comes up with who cares????
Is he answerable to DB at all with regard to the current mess in his life????
Sanchi - His sister.Was he dominated by her? Had he been the type to be dominated by her wouldn't he have married his sister's choice?????Wouldn't he care for his sister's opinion about his wife????
Ira - His mother. Why did she get insecure if she knew that he could dominate his son????
Ira's main problem - his son does exactly what he wants and he doesn't even care to keep them informed.
Didn't he agree to marry Anandi without even informing his family???
Would he have stopped if his family did not agree???
Rasika - What exactly is he supposed to do with a woman like her??? Thrash her??? Call her names????
Anandi - Is he dominated by Anandi or is it his love for Anandi ? He was quite cold and rude to Anandi when she disagreed with him So where is the question of being dominated by her and her deeds?
People keep saying that he agreed for adoption despite wanting a kid just because he wanted to make Anandi happy. But he clearly said he wanted to be Father to Anandi's children and it doesn't matter whether they are biological kids or adopted kids.
Shivraj Shekhar does exactly what he wants in life and he is not dominated by anyone.
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But there is one thing.
He is definitely clueless when it comes to understanding what goes on in a woman's mind.
Be the woman may be his mother, sister wife,good friend Ashima or Rasika.
His cluelessness with regard to functioning of a woman's mind has brought him this trouble as well as trouble with Sanchi and ended up hurting Ashima unintentionally.