Cvs!Why does the woman has to prove her innocence [DT NT-Pg10]

...when it's not her fault in the first place...it appalls and disgusts to to see Paro pleading for Rudra's forgiveness when she is not in the wrong at all...is it a child's fault to trust her parent? We all trust our parents ...unconditionally and that is what she did by trusting Thakur. Did Rudra give her any valid proof to show her otherwise...No. But yet again, we are here watching this abused woman pleading for forgiveness. Why? What about Rudra asking for her forgiveness for all the abuse he bestowed upon her? Has he asked for forgiveness?

He believes she tried burning his father alive. So in my understanding she should be arrested with charges of arson...there has to be a proper trial where there has to be evidence for her crime. Where is the trial here? Is there even a judiciary system in Indian constitution? I presume here an individual is pronounced guilty without any evidence.

Cvs! There are some of us who still haven't forgotten the abuse the female character went through in the hands of Rudra...the physical abuse...the emotional and psychological abuse...the sexual harassment too. But, yet again you have tried justifying the abuse by portraying the male as the victim of his bitter past where apparently he was abandoned by his mother. How very pathetic...what about the million of children who grow up in broken families? Are you justifying by saying that an abandoned child has the right to hate a woman and abuse them...think the worst of women because his mother turned out to wrong? I think that is highly unprofessional of an officer to think in that way...an officer should the ability to keep his professional and personal life separate. Rudra in mere words is unfit to be an officer because he is not capable of thinking with a rational mind? He needs to get a hold of himself and his emotional state first.

Last, but not the least Paro was a dignified character...a woman who had a strong conviction but I can't say that anymore. It's very disappointing to see...at-least for some of us... her running around for forgiveness for something she hasn't done. Its extremely upsetting to see a woman absolutely disrobed from her self respect...merely on her knees...groveling for acceptance and forgiveness when she is innocent. This is a wrong message in so many ways...it seems that women in certain societies are conditioned to take the blame for the every wrong happens in the society. The woman are the one who has to endure the wrath and suffer. It's regressive and extremely unfortunate that time and again it is the woman who has to bear the brunt of injustice although she is the innocent one. When will this end?

I never missed a single episode of RR until for the last 3 weeks...I cannot watch it anymore because of the inhumane treatment of a supposedly love-story. You promoted this as a lovestory with an element of Othello in it but instead you have shown violence and abuse towards an innocent victim. Let me tell you...there cannot be any traces of love if there has been any form of abuse involved. And, the fact remains that Paro has been abused...but instead of rectifying that you gave turned her into someone with no ounce of selfrespect. This is not something I can watch as someone who feels deeply about abuse...atleast, not until there is a proper redemption from the male character who has actually wronged her.

Ps: please feel free to comment but remember everyone has the right to voice their opinion. Please be respectful.

I think Paro is apologizing for misunderstanding his intentions in the first place

Originally posted by: shona.

I think Paro is apologizing for misunderstanding his intentions in the first place

I don't think she should apologize for anything else though...however i believe she will have to clear her name infront of rudra that she didnt try to burn Dilsheer alive because no one else will try to clear it for her and as we all can see it is damn important to Paro that Rudra doesn't think she attempted Dilsheer's murder

I don't want Paro to be a doormat but I want her clear this misunderstanding

hi Shona.. I think she has no reasons to apologize for misunderstanding him in the first place. She wasn't given any proof against Tej...it's very natural for a child to trust a person who has been a father to her. As I said if she is believed to be involved in attempted murder...she should stand for trial...let the evidence prove it. As I said I find Rudra incapable as an officer because he really doesn't go by evidence. How did he held Paro guilty with just his sister's statement?

But sadly Paro has turned into a doormat and it doesn't look like a lovestory from any angle to me.

Hi Rupunzale ,join the club i completely agree .I am very much dissapointed😭🤢

Ok... the post is up for women, no doubt. But in a story like this, given Paro's character, whatever she is doing makes sense in this scenario. Although she was never wrong but her activities or rather non-activities could have resulted in grave consequences- being Thakur killing her, continuing to smuggle ammunition, Rudra court-marshalled, the jawans losing their shaheed title, a purposeful and successful mission stamped as nuisance-and all these matters were not personal, rather National or Patriotic---or of national security.

If this is about women and her self respect or dormat kind of stuff... then why no one raise a single voice or post for MAITHLI.. WHY. ? She is the real dormat in Rangrasiya as far i am seeing it ...

Originally posted by: hagen

Hi Rupunzale ,join the club i completely agree .I am very much dissapointed😭🤢

Hi Hagen...I think disappointment is an understatement for me because I actually cannot even get myself to watch it although I want to support Sanaya.

Originally posted by: salmanic

Ok... the post is up for women, no doubt. But in a story like this, given Paro's character, whatever she is doing makes sense in this scenario. Although she was never wrong but her activities or rather non-activities could have resulted in grave consequences- being Thakur killing her, continuing to smuggle ammunition, Rudra court-marshalled, the jawans losing their shaheed title, a purposeful and successful mission stamped as nuisance-and all these matters were not personal, rather National or Patriotic---or of national security.

Regardless of whether she were a man or a woman, she is shown to have owned up to her actions, even though they were unintentional. But more so she has come to acknowledge and appreciate Rudra. Its actually his equation with her that she wants to set right. And clearing this misunderstanding is the first step towards it.

Look at it more, as from Paro's perspective. You now know how great that man was indeed. He was saving you time and again when you yourself were running towards your death. He was taking your accusations. Although he was forceful at times, but he never forgot his limits. This is all dawning upon her. And she is just under the spell of his greatness and selflessness (as he is shown to be a very honest and patriotic oficer, and even showed a soft corner towards her). So she wants his sense of duty and protection towards her back. She is trying to earn it back. She needs it. Nobody has been shown expecting her to do that. Rudra actually just batters about it to her, but he has taken no action against her. She is free to take security from anyone in BSD, and just be herself.

But doing all this is her decision...and my friend...there is love involved too...so cant just go for 100% logic...

although everything is quite logical. and as long as she feels she needs to do it and she wants to do it, because she wants Rudra in return, it is completely acceptable to me 😛

I don't quite agree with the statement...she needs his protection. Maybe, it's difficult for me to think that way growing up in a completely different environment and country...I see men as equal companion and not as protector or savior...i was born and raised in a society where in every aspect I was taught that a woman is capable of protecting herself. Anyways, i understand what you are saying from Paro's perspective and I believe most of the women in the subcontinent thinks in the certain thought process. It's not just acceptable to me. Thanks for your opinion.

Originally posted by: nainasharma123

If this is about women and her self respect or dormat kind of stuff... then why no one raise a single voice or post for MAITHLI.. WHY. ? She is the real dormat in Rangrasiya as far i am seeing it ...

I decided to comment on Paro's characterization because she in the show is the female lead. I haven't really watched Maithili very closely as a character to comment on her.i usually don't watch the whole family drama.

I don't think Paro is being a doormat or is being treated badly here. My views are totally different. I don't see what Rudra did to her when he was trying to get her witness against Tejawat as sexual harassment in the first place. That is too strong a word to be used. I have my own viewpoint on that. It is a different game they played. Not just Rudra, but Paro too. Again - Just my opinion. And Rudra did not act the way he did because of bitter past or something. Yes, right now he is pushing her away from his life due to the bitter past, but not before.