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Well for what its worth I don't think she is actually apologizing for anything she hasn't done. Its just Paro being herself.
After all she forgave mamiji - in fact she didn't even seem to have thought mami was wrong! She just opened her arms! So in that scenario well Paro is just accepting she has wronged someone unknowingly.
AND cz Paro has never ever done anything wrong to someone before this consciously or unconsciously she cannot accept she has done something wrong unknowingly.
SO it is NOT cz she is wrong she is apologizing. But she being herself kinda wants closure n him not giving it to her is bothering her.. n she wants to make peace.. specially after she hasn't gotten any resentment left with him - cz all she thinks is right now is that 'IF I had gone across the border I would have been raped and sold as a prostitute and groped and raped and raped n maybe even murdered by now and his interfering however harsh it was saved me from it'
And till now this is the issue actually - the bold part the CVs have utterly failed to explore n to maintain the balance of the emotional exploration of the 2 roles that this fact - which i explained is not clearly coming across!!
Paro is not losing her self respect - actually if u remember when he told her degradingly or whatever that 'I have told u not to come near me' she point blank told 'n last night u were singing a different tone' n shut him up..
Basically i think u should just check out this post n the discussions in it. What u have perceived has been done a bit wrongly n the reason for it is the lacking discussed here... (--Tying up loose ends-)
sorry yaar don't wanna come across as preachy... but the post is not 100% accurate.. its not as severe as that. But then its as i said the wrong way CVs r showing it that has led to this misconception..
After all she forgave mamiji - in fact she didn't even seem to have thought mami was wrong! She just opened her arms! So in that scenario well Paro is just accepting she has wronged someone unknowingly.
AND cz Paro has never ever done anything wrong to someone before this consciously or unconsciously she cannot accept she has done something wrong unknowingly.
SO it is NOT cz she is wrong she is apologizing. But she being herself kinda wants closure n him not giving it to her is bothering her.. n she wants to make peace.. specially after she hasn't gotten any resentment left with him - cz all she thinks is right now is that 'IF I had gone across the border I would have been raped and sold as a prostitute and groped and raped and raped n maybe even murdered by now and his interfering however harsh it was saved me from it'
And till now this is the issue actually - the bold part the CVs have utterly failed to explore n to maintain the balance of the emotional exploration of the 2 roles that this fact - which i explained is not clearly coming across!!
Paro is not losing her self respect - actually if u remember when he told her degradingly or whatever that 'I have told u not to come near me' she point blank told 'n last night u were singing a different tone' n shut him up..
Basically i think u should just check out this post n the discussions in it. What u have perceived has been done a bit wrongly n the reason for it is the lacking discussed here... (--Tying up loose ends-)
sorry yaar don't wanna come across as preachy... but the post is not 100% accurate.. its not as severe as that. But then its as i said the wrong way CVs r showing it that has led to this misconception..
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