Once upon a time....a message for everyone ,every forum member

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Once upon a time here everyone was friends with each other
But a year ago was a huge change. Anandi's replacement , Toral replace Pratyusha
Everyone felt bad, but later some people accept the changes
But some people could not accept changes
BV Forum divided into two parts.
Toral fans vs Pratyusha fans , old AnSh vs new AnSh
Everyone wanted to prove themselves right.
fan group bashing actress and then in return other fan group also bashed actress
Everyone wanted to prove themselves right. was therefore required to prove others wrong.
But everyone forgets that to justify themselves no need to prove others wrong
Everyone has their own choice there is nothing wrong in it
one thing for sure is wrong Friends fight each other
But here everyone was angry and the anger was so high
Friends started abusing each other.
Those who were once friends become enemies
Friendship is over
And this BV forum has become a battle ground
Friends always respect each other's choices and respect each other's POV
Friendship means Trust on each other ,freedom to express opinions
Friendship is Unconditional...😊


We fight with each other for our favorite actors
The artist whom we do not know personally & they didn't even know us
Like an artist and praise her / him, there is nothing wrong
But we are so attached to them; to take their side we fight with friends.

Is it possible that we should forget the past things and become friends again.
I know that all the people hurt each other
There has been a lot of things. It is very difficult for both sides to forget
I also took 1 year to understand this

i know it is very difficult but not impossible , If everybody will try it is possible
if we take care of one thing that
Pratyusha Fans will not say anything bad about Toral
& Toral Fans will not say anything bad about Pratyusha

please forgive me if i hurt anyone's feelings
for me all are my friends

Edited by _M-A-N-U_ - 12 years ago

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Posted: 12 years ago
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"When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free." -

Katherine Ponder


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Manu
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"Friends always respect each other's choices and respect each other's POV
Friendship means Trust on each other ,freedom to express opinioins."
Friendship is Unconditional
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ps I'm just quoting you😉
I do not want to get into any other relationship


Edited by Bikica - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: _M-A-N-U_

Once upon a time here everyone was friends with each other
But a year ago was a huge change. Anandi's replacement , Toral replace Pratyusha
Everyone felt bad, but later some people accept the changes
But some people could not accept changes
BV Forum divided into two parts.
Toral fans vs Pratyusha fans , old AnSh vs new AnSh
Everyone wanted to prove themselves right.
Pratyusha fans bashing Toral and then in return Toral fans also bashed Pratyusha
Everyone wanted to prove themselves right. was therefore required to prove others wrong.
But everyone forgets that to justify themselves no need to prove others wrong
Everyone has their own choice there is nothing wrong in it
one thing for sure is wrong Friends fight each other
But here everyone was angry and the anger was so high
Friends started abusing each other.
Those who were once friends become enemies
Friendship is over
And this BV forum has become a battle ground
Friends always respect each other's choices and respect each other's POV
Friendship means Trust on each other ,freedom to express opinions
Friendship is Unconditional...😊


We fight with each other for our favorite actors
The artist whom we do not know personally & they didn't even no us
Like an artist and praise her / him, there is nothing wrong
But we are so attached to them; to take their side we fight with friends.

Is it possible that we should forget the past things and become friends again.
I know that all the people hurt each other
There has been a lot of things. It is very difficult for both sides to forget
I also took 1 year to understand this

i know it is very difficult but not impossible , If everybody will try it is possible
if we take care of one thing that
Pratyusha Fans will not say anything bad about Toral
& Toral Fans will not say anything bad about Pratyusha

please forgive me if i hurt anyone's feelings
for me all are my friends

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Manu...Excellent post !
Yes ...it is very much possible to live in a congenial atmosphere and love each other just like earlier times !!
You are right Manu...we are all friends ...here for each other...for sharing and caring ...respecting every person's likes and dislikes ...
What a noble idea Manu...your effort should not go wasted !But we should be judicious in expressing our views ...so that nobody feels discriminated !!!






Edited by SEETHA.K - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nice post, Manu. Of respect for the you, I'm writing this.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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A friend is one that knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still, gently allows you to grow. - William Shakespeare


I think if I've learned anything about friendship, it's to hang in, stay connected, fight for them, and let them fight for you. Don't walk away, don't be distracted, don't be too busy or tired, don't take them for granted. Friends are part of the glue that holds life and faith together. Powerful stuff. - Jon Katz


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Manu great post!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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wonderful post Mannu


according to me friend and friendship is the best thing u can ask life for...❤️
if u have friends value them, respect them and forgive them...
Edited by radhika_kiran - 12 years ago
Tulasi14 thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
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The beauty of friendship is to forgive and move on!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Manu great post👏 You are the real Anandi dear 😊. Hope you turn instrumental in bridging the gap😊 .


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