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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: hillydee

Even with divorce, Sugni would be responsible for breaking a marriage. Regardless of how much he hates Reva, the fact of the matter is, He would be divorcing her to get with Sugni, therefore she would be the reason for the divorce and the catalyst for his decision. Sugni would not want to break someone's marriage.



Your point on Sugni being reason for divorce is not exactly true.

Remember Vikram thought Reva was dead, that is an important part of the show to understand the motivation behind Vikram moving on, that is why he allowed himself to give into his feelings for Sugni. As far as Vikram was concerned he was a free man. Just as how you feel Adi and Sugni were faced with unique circumstances to fall in love, why can't Vikram and Sugni's union deemed to be the same? If you feel your spouse is dead and you have fallen in love what are you going to do? Make yourself fall out of love with the new love and fall back in love with the old?

What if Sugni and Vikram had gotten married before Reva returned? Would you want Vikram to divorce Sugni and remarry Reva, because he was originally married to her?


Absolutely Hilary.

I don't know how many times we have to keep saying this. Vikram neither hates Reva, nor does he love her. Reva never loved Vikram, she only loved wealth and status, she hated Vikram and from her greed & physical violence on him, this is evident. Which man would take physical violence from his estranged wife?

What I don't understand is how any woman would think she is breaking a marriage, when she clearly sees the man she is about to marry, is in a violent & loveless marriage. How is marrying the man she loves and freeing him from perpetual torment, regarded as breaking a marriage, when their marriage, is already broken?

They seriously need to read Jayne Eyre. No wonder why it's a compulsory component for some GCSE, English language exams in UK!!!



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Posted: 12 years ago
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all i can say is two family in love with the same person. any how you look at it is wrong. and using god in their comess is disrespectful. lets see how long this show will remain on tv
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Princessonline👏Excellent Post.

You would make a great Mediator. I applaud you for not blindly choosing Adi and Sugni Jodi, even If I don't want this Jodi. You have not made excuses for Sugni and you are able to look at the situation in a very mature way.

Now, I understand where you are coming from, about me accepting this as entertainment. However, I have not spoilt my day, but I have a strong tendency to always say how I feel about a situation even if it is a dumb cartoon😆 I also enjoy entertainment, but I don't agree with mixing family life and God with immoral decisions made by man. In other words, I don't agree with the Cvs showing us immoral situations and showing symbolism that God has ordained it. Even though you may not want to take things to heart, the reality is I can't be blind and keep mum to what I am seeing. So, I personally don't wish to be entertained with things that mock real life issues.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Orianthi,

The Muslim 'thing' is not that simple. Polygny of marrying up to 4 wives is a very restricted Islamic practice and requires a great number of responsibilities on the part of the husband, which is almost impossible to carry out. It was only permitted in special cases, such as to help orphaned women & widows of war, where men were few and women were left without support. Having only one wife is the normal practice which Islam encourages to Muslims. This is why majority of men marry only, once. Divorce is permitted, although it is discouraged.




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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: princessonline

At the end though I do like Sugni and Adi because there relationship doesn't really have a lot of baggage which could in the future cause them trouble.


Adi has to be the most disrespectful nephew I have ever seen.

In real life, I haven't yet found one nephew forcefully preventing his Uncle from divorcing his abusive wife & remarrying, or who purchases the women of his dreams, like a slave, using his wealth, and instead of setting her free, wants to marry her to himself, deserting his own beloved fiance.

I have never seen in my whole life any nephew attacking his uncle, inciting his bride against him, straight after watching his Uncle heartbroken. Watching his uncle leave his home & town, he is eager to pursue this woman & consummate marital relations with her, in his Uncle's home... I call that callous & lechourous.

Any nephew who claims to loves his uncle would never (IMHO) embark on such a union, and if he did only through unforseen circumstances, he will feel very guilty having an awful lot of burden to carry, for the rest of his life.



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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: babygirl198722

all i can say is two family in love with the same person. any how you look at it is wrong. and using god in their comess is disrespectful. lets see how long this show will remain on tv


I have yet to see the things flying across the room outdoors, leaving one item e.g. a photo for 'God' to indicate to me, which husband to pick.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Let us leave god out of this situation because i think these tv soaps tends to over-rate god input in relationship,i think each person in this life has a perfect match, few of us r lucky to find true love and happiness.
In this situation with Adi and Sugni personally i think it is a matter of compromise rather than love, but in this same situation love can blossom n developed into a wonderful relation. what they Cv r trying to protray here is that love has no boundry, religion or profession but by trying to bring high drama they just confused the entire story.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: hillydee

I am trying to figure out why you said the above because I never said God intended anyone to be a prostitute my very reason against Sugni living that life. Do you know anyone on this forum who believes God agrees with Prostitution? because your statement sounds like you are responding to a perception you have of my post. I totally wanted Sugni to get married, as I am also sure God would want her to do the same and change her life. I would have wanted Vikram to marry her after his divorce, Frankly I wished there was no Reva to begin with , or if Adi was not Vikram's nephew, because that makes her no better than a prostitute if she is willing to have relations with her ex fiancee's nephew, this is defeating the whole purpose of Sugni leading a life away from the fate of her culture. Remember Bednis not only sell themselves for money, they get involved with men no matter who they are as they do not respect relations or family, Sugni being with Adi in spite of his relation to Vikram is doing the same. With their so called great intentions, are still ruining the family. It is not only wives who are destroyed by Sardhakai, children and other family members, remember Adi is a product of such a destruction.


If you prostitute yourself to a single man it is one sin, but to do it to a married man is two sins, so I can't see why you should assume that anyone is agreeing to Sugni not marrying in the right way to a single or divorced man.



Hilary, I totally agree. The CVs should never have brought in the idea that 'God' is promoting this promiscuity & prostitution. I don't think CVs have a clue of what true love & marriage is about. If this is termed as love then it is so fickle, it is revolting.

It is very vulgar for the CVs to promote a woman's relationship with different men from the same family, swapping males for no valid reason & audaciously ascribing it to 'God'. First Sughni promises Vikram to be her life partner, but she does sar dhakhai and prostitutes herself to Aditya, her ex-fiance's nephew! Later on at the temple, suddenly everything is blown away except the sindoor and she allows the sindoor to be put on by Aditya. At the engagement with Aditya, the ring does not fit her and falls back at the feet of Vikram who returns her wedding ring ironically to be worn at their engagement. Then Adi tells her to get back with Vikram, after them both attacking him chasing him away. They've made a game out of contemptible relationships (prostitution). We can see clearly how immoral and disgusting it is. How can any man or woman treat their nephew as their son, after watching this? They have made a rude mockery of true love, and ridiculed the of institute of marriage & decent family life ~ Enough said!

Well, loads of work to do tomorrow to keep me busy, rather than keep watching this delusion.

Best Wishes



Edited by Istila - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#69
It makes more sense if adi and sugni got married because Cv all ways showed something was suppose to happen between them I love sugni and adi
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Posted: 12 years ago
#70

Originally posted by: Shreya_94

I think people are not replying purposefully knowing that irrespective of whether they bash or not, they will be bashed.
There is no use in pinging out to the rudeness in the posts in this thread alone.
Will you accept my views even if you don't agree?
Why Sugni should not be with Vikram I can say but you want me not to mention him? Fine. Aditya and Sugni are compatible age-wise. But I am not to mention it. Looks are not that important to me.
I do not believe in the things like God's ordinance or whatever. Why he did her sardhakai we are not to see but why Vikram shot her mother, lied to her and forces her against her will we are to see? Oh right! We are not to mention who lied.
My mind and soul tells me that Sugni and Aditya can have a very happy and healthy relationship in the future. TV soaps always give an unrealistic and fantasy-like image of God. I am certainly not an atheist but I do not believe in those water-stuff and sindoor thing.

Thanks for Posting. My apologies for just responding.

I have never bashed anyone on this forum for their views, and it would be highly rude of me to do so when I have started the thread myself. Also, I don't recall anyone of the other Sugvi Fans bashing Adini Fans either. What I do recall is us reacting to the mocking and snide remarks, because we are humans and we do have feelings.

My post was for those who wish to comment about the immorality of the Cvs using God to ordain Adi and Sugni's Jodi, so that is why I asked not to mention Vikram, because it was irrelevant to the point I was trying to make. It was not meant to get back at those who don't want Sugni and Vikram as I would not have agreed if Vikram had married Sugni while married. I would have been posting about the Cvs showing immorality in that area as well. The Sugvi fans wanted a divorce not Bigamy to be committed.
It seems you are new to this forum, or you would have realised by now that I too admitted Vikram was wrong to lie to Sugni and the other Sugvi Fans have also agreed to that.
It would have been pointless for us to lie about these views for months now, what would we gain from it.

The difference between the Sugvi Fans and the Adini Fans is that the Sugvi Fans want them to be together under the right circumstances, not in an immoral way. However, the Adini Fans want them to be together at all cost, even if Sugni and Adi have to ruin lives, lie about Sugni being an orphan, just as long as they are together, because they are cute and wow etc. The Sugvi Fans stand for something. If you don't stand for something in life, you will fall for anything. So, I will continue to let the Cvs know they are wrong with the use of Morality and Immorality and calling it one. I have read every post from the Adini Fans and not one of them have directly answered my post about the Immorality of what the Cvs are portraying, so what does that say?

Based on what you have said it is clear that this thread was not for you, so it would have been pointless for you to post to begin with. Thanks for taking the time though. 😃





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