God - Adi and Sugni Jodi?????

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martalinda

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Posted: 12 years ago

#31

I didn't know what to say because I'm not familiar with Indian culture. I'm afraid i might offend some people with my comments so I chose to keep quiet.Hope you understand.

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Istila

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Posted: 12 years ago

#32

Julie,

Telling a lie deliberately and hiding the truth to prevent ruining lives are not the same things. While I agree that Vikram should have done the honourable thing and told Sughni the truth, Vikram was not given enough time. He was totally overwhelmed and confused.

He was still adjusting to the initial shock of seeing Reva suddenly come back to life and dealing with her mental health & physical abuse. Vikram himself was not in his normal state of mind. He was going through the initial stages of shock, trauma and was in denial.

Sughni first pursued him to marry her before he had the chance to think about proposing to her officially. Deeply in love with Sughni, with his emotions running everywhere, he was rushed in the decision of marrying her, even though his intention was first to divorce Reva after her recovery and getting the whole family agreeing for them to wed. Gulabiya accelerated this issue being blinded with her cloud of suspicions.

Vikram tried to tell Sughni the whole truth, but she was not ready to listen. Both women, Reva & Sughni threatened to kill themselves. Vikram was caught between a rock and a hard place.

This follows a similar theme from the classic novel, Jane Eyre, when she gets to know the truth she feels hurt and leaves Rochester but returns to marry him when she finds out he becomes blind and injured (thanks to his mad wife who sets him and the whole house on fire).

Here's the video clip showing Vikram's own feelings when he was accused of lying from 3.08.2012 @ 3.00:

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=luOEITNNFhg[/YOUTUBE]

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Istila

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Posted: 12 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: orianthi
Well I am not taking sides in the Adini vs Sugvi thing. But if she married TVS she would have been his mistress as well since his wife was alive. Therefore even after doing all the rituals associated with marriage, it would be meaningless. Either way she is a mistress.

I disagree. Vikram was going to divorce Reva, but she was pretending to be mentally ill, putting him in an awkward position of responsibility. If two people got married then it's marriage not prostitution. It depends on the laws of the country, religious beliefs, etc. TVS would have better off becoming a Muslim & moved to a Muslim country, he could supported the two wives easily.

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Dr J Bhattacharya

@jmoyee200

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Posted: 12 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: rozetta

@ devranharish, despite all the negative comments on Adini jodi, Frankly I dnt mind so my friend plz dnt take the comments to heart, ur comments r truly valuable to me cuz i'm a adini fan like u.

I mean u said we lost but if u look on the bright side we adini fans actually WON!!!! I mean no matter what they say we still get to see adini as the main jodi, no matter how many bashing, we won cuz we get to see the adini jodi no matter what.

So to all Vikram fans, hope u enjoy
cuz i know i will

Agree... with u... 😊

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orianthi

@orianthi

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Posted: 12 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: Istila

I disagree. Vikram was going to divorce Reva, but she was pretending to be mentally ill, putting him in an awkward position of responsibility. If two people got married then it's marriage not prostitution. It depends on the laws of the country, religious beliefs, etc. TVS would have better off becoming a Muslim & moved to a Muslim country, he could supported the two wives easily.

Even with divorce, Sugni would be responsible for breaking a marriage. Regardless of how much he hates Reva, the fact of the matter is, He would be divorcing her to get with Sugni, therefore she would be the reason for the divorce and the catalyst for his decision. Sugni would not want to break someone's marriage.

😆 I agree with the muslim thing.

In addition I like Adini. They are so much alike and they both understand each other as a result of their sacrifices. I think they are nice couple. And the new Adi really is different from the old one. This Adi is more gentle and kind to sugni and he is giving her respect which is most important. I am not saying that TVS isn't but i mean Adini aren't bad or anything that they can't be a couple. If TVS can get with Sugni despite having a wife, why can't Adi get with Sugni despite being his uncle's young ex gf?

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merrydock

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Posted: 12 years ago

#36

i think this is what they mean when they say God workes in mysterious ways. what is ordained happens, if sugni thinks she is in love with vickram may she is not really in love with him, but a shadow of Aditya that she was first in vickram.

i know i may not make sense but life does not make sense sometimes and you let things happen because they do, the end result will always be what it is ment to be.

if Aditya and Sugni were not ment to be then Aditya would not have fallen in love with her knowing that she loves his uncle. now isnt that ironic.

may be this is what makes Sugni and Aditya the same, why they both walk the same parth. both in a relationship with another as in Vikram and Amrith. but both thrown together due to sacrafice they both feel they are making.

and then comes the even biger sacrafice that is being made again by Aditya who is now in love with sugni but is sacraficing her becaues he thinks she will be happy with vikram whome she thinks she loves.

isnt that kind of twisted. Sugni loves Vikram, but is willing to sacrafice her love for him for his marriage. Aditya who thinks is in love with Amrith and sacrafices her to save his the uncles marriage by marrying the girl his uncle loves, but in turn actually finds out that he is truly in love with the same girl but now is willing to sacrafice that love because the girl concerned is in love with his uncle. and the uncle who is married wants to break of a realtionship with his wife. becauese he loves sugni, who he lies to, sets her against her mother. will do anything as well as killl his nephue to have her but who is really a selfish person concerned with only himself, his love, his pain, his need.

so it think Aditya and sugni are more alike. and are really ment to be as they mirror each other. and vickram is only a shadow that does not always stay true to form not like a image in the mirror that is exactly what it reflects.

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orianthi

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Posted: 12 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: merrydock
i think this is what they mean when they say God workes in mysterious ways. what is ordained happens, if sugni thinks she is in love with vickram may she is not really in love with him, but a shadow of Aditya that she was first in vickram.

i know i may not make sense but life does not make sense sometimes and you let things happen because they do, the end result will always be what it is ment to be.

if Aditya and Sugni were not ment to be then Aditya would not have fallen in love with her knowing that she loves his uncle. now isnt that ironic.

may be this is what makes Sugni and Aditya the same, why they both walk the same parth. both in a relationship with another as in Vikram and Amrith. but both thrown together due to sacrafice they both feel they are making.

and then comes the even biger sacrafice that is being made again by Aditya who is now in love with sugni but is sacraficing her becaues he thinks she will be happy with vikram whome she thinks she loves.

isnt that kind of twisted. Sugni loves Vikram, but is willing to sacrafice her love for him for his marriage. Aditya who thinks is in love with Amrith and sacrafices her to save his the uncles marriage by marrying the girl his uncle loves, but in turn actually finds out that he is truly in love with the same girl but now is willing to sacrafice that love because the girl concerned is in love with his uncle. and the uncle who is married wants to break of a realtionship with his wife. becauese he loves sugni, who he lies to, sets her against her mother. will do anything as well as killl his nephue to have her but who is really a selfish person concerned with only himself, his love, his pain, his need.

so it think Aditya and sugni are more alike. and are really ment to be as they mirror each other. and vickram is only a shadow that does not always stay true to form not like a image in the mirror that is exactly what it reflects.

Very well put.👏

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octopie

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Posted: 12 years ago

#38

Hmmm... Yeah, maybe Vikram is not meant to be with anybody, and is meant to walk alone in life. He also should divorce Rewa, since they both need to be comfortable and happy in each other's company - be it Rewa or Vikram, and their marriage is just not working for whatever reasons (some we know, and others we don't know from their past).

Perhaps Sugni and Aditya are meant to be together and will be better off together. Although I do think that Vikram would always have remained by her side through thick and thin and loved her with all his heart (although it would be bad when he takes actions that doesn't allow anybody to come in between them). Given her anything she wished to have, or anywhere she wished to go. Stood by her against all of society still. Probably even against Maa Thakur (and he had so many opportunities to tell Maa Thakur to the truth about Sugni and Aditya which would ruin their marriage, but he kept his mouth shut ! why?).

He never ever fell back on the insults she or Gulabiya or anyone else threw at him, although probably hurt at times. He never let those things break his love for Sugni. He believed in her love and thought the right thing was to fight for it. That's the only thing he really has in his life now. He's broken now, Vikram doesn't and will never even have this (his found love) anymore. It's unfortunate for him as it's due to the single hidden truth/lie/whatever he told/held/whatever.

Yes though, I think Aditya and Sugni could be together. They sacrificed together, and even though he's a complete city boy and she's a village girl - they have some things in common and have more than enough differences to learn from each other about lifestyle. He could show her the city, she could show him how to live in the village.

But ! Aditya also misunderstood Vikram and Sugni's love, not that Vikram didn't understand Sugni the way Aditya does. Vikram always knew Sugni loved him (and it's true, she admitted that she still does - although we wonder if it's true love she feels or not). Aditya didn't believe it though, I think. Aditya was told earlier to fight for his love for Amrita (when all that sardakai thing didn't happen), yet he didn't. I think Amrita really loved him though. She always tried to reach out to him from the very beginning, but he wouldn't come closer.

I think it's unfair to Vikram that Aditya fell in love with Sugni (even though he probably couldn't help falling in love since it just happens...) I bet Vikram will not be expecting it at all, and never feared that would happen, but it did. What if you and somebody were in love, and your lover was introduced to a friend whom was very close to you - and they ended up falling in love ? How would you feel ? It is a dilemma though, because everyone's feelings matter, and who's more deserving and better to be together.

I think Vikram should let them all be. He should pick himself up again, everybody in the serial is against him. Hate that. Poor guy is alone, no matter what bad things he's done. Even was alone before all of the bad actions he took (although he had Amrita to support him). He should stop before doing anything more crazy that people would use against him. Yep, I think he needs to accept - it's just not going to happen anymore... him being with Sugni. So, want him to take care of himself now.

Sugni is just so confusing, incongruent in her actions/words! She's confused, yes. Also caught between a lot of things and not know what exactly to do. For example, Rewa on one side, keeps telling her to stop going after other people's husbands, and now Aditya telling her to be with Vikram. Poor girl, she also must be feeling overwhelmed by it all ! But since we know she and Aditya will be together in the future (which would also mean she will fall in love with him eventually)... I'm not sure if I want her to give the impression to Vikram that she still loves him then, otherwise he will probably just become hopeful again although that would be empty hope, and also he will again try things to get Sugni back.

And, I don't think Sugni would have become Vikram's mistress if they married. It's not like he will use her for one purpose. He was going to (and was/is) treat her as his wife, his equal. He was the first one in the entire village to ever have treated a Bedni as an equal (let alone Amrita, she was a city girl and expected equality anyway). He has clearly done so much for her ! What has Aditya really done? Apart from when he started being her friend in all of this - just to stand against Vikram, and to stand for Rewa's happiness. Can a relationship really work - if one person is unhappy in it for whatever reasons? He stayed with her all through those 9 years, even in his unhappiness. He would not have laid eyes on Sugni if he knew his wife were alive (but never know if that's true or not since circumstances didn't play out that way... but I think I believe him). But Aditya knew Amrita is alive and well and wants to marry him, yet he fell in love, involuntarily supposedly? with Sugni... his family member's love? I guess he shouldn't be blamed since falling in love may be involuntary, because Love is pure (not infatuation or anything like that).

Vikram was her friend, supporter, advocate, etc (especially in the community... something very meaningful) in the beginning... everything just went downhill from that hidden truth/lie. It's easy to understand what he did, and why he did things. But I can't say the same thing for Sugni, nor Aditya. Aditya seems very concerned about his discovered love for Sugni than to go looking for Vikram who is wandering aimlessly around the village in the dark, and people are luring him or trying to kill him.

Even though Maa Thakur seems so terribly clueless, at least she's the only one who seems to care for Vikram. I wonder if she will listen to him since nobody else would (I loved the scene where he told the girl that he only wanted somebody to listen to him talk about Sugni !). He was not heard by anyone without being judged.

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saba46

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Posted: 12 years ago

#39

World cheapest n worst jodi not acceptable in society...lolz...

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Avie

@avyarima

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Posted: 12 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: anastasia211092
Hillydee no use you will only get these one liners saying "Wow", "Lovely", "I love Adini", etc😆 or you will get replies saying TVS is old, liar and married and they will call other members selfish, hateful etc so no use. Most of them wouldn't give you any logical answers. I wonder there any logical answers to this though as CVS themselves seemed to be confused🤔

Yes! you have said it all👏. TVS is married!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. you have a great logic here why Sugni and TVS jodi is not acceptable by me. Isn't that enough????????????????

see, i dont mean he must stay married, all am saying is He is married!!!!!!!!!!!!!. he should be good enough to deal with his wife case (even divorce her, i dont care), before going for Sugni because, like it or not TVS made her his mistress without her knowledge( i dont care why).
even if he is married to a witch, A MARRIED MAN IS OUT OF BOUND FOR ME, BUT I DONT HAVE PROBLEM WITH A DIVORCEE.

@ TOPIC STARTER ----I agree that Amurita's character in the show, and the lies( to the family) makes it difficult for people to accept Adi-Sugni's jodi and i totally agree with every one on this only because Amurita was a very good friend of Sugni , so friend's lovers are out of bounds too for me. (And i am not a big fan of Adi- sugni jodi) .but i accept the relation,because they maybe wrong in their actions, but they intentions are good and pure( that is why i accept it). more over Jodi's are made from heaven. many a times we think love somebody and will want to marry them. but God chooses who he knows is best for us. (that doesnt count for people who are still married!!!)

(the problem i see here is people dont understand the ritual, magnitude, and the weight of marriage . they see no difference between a married and unmarried couple.)

secoundly, God never intended any body to be a prostitute, some are in it for money, some because of critical situation and others because of their barbaric culture. so do you mean sugni does not deserve to be a wife because traditions doesnt allow that?...because if i know a little about God i would tell you God is in total agreement with a (good person) prostitute getting marry. Yes, she is legally (by their traditions) his mistress. but here is the twist...he is not married!. so what makes it so wrong and confusing if he makes her his wife.
infact, thats the second reason...why this jodi makes sense to me.

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