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Posted: 9 years ago
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I think we see lives differently nd our POViews are entirely different about this story, i believe this story is about Mehbeer nd their chemistry their love their differences not about other characters around them.. I respect your opinion!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: samKazam

@malikakas

I think we see lives differently nd our POViews are entirely different about this story, i believe this story is about Mehbeer nd their chemistry their love their differences not about other characters around them.. I respect your opinion!!


The story is about Mehbeer... and they will be end game. But I don't think that means because Abeer is the hero he does right and Akshat is the 3rd fiddle so he does wrong. Abeer is the badtameez dil.. he is going to need to change a bit.

I sort of buy into the philosophy if you love someone set them free, if they come back to you they are yours if not they never were. I don't t think Abeer needs to do anything. Meher will never marry Akshat. She pushed herself to get engaged because Abeer came on too strong and she got scared of succumbing to her feelings again. I feel like the harder he pushes the more she runs away. His engagement to Sasha didn't work because he still kept pushing. i feel like the moment he starts walking away again she will come running after him. She is the one that came to Groove. But I do think pushing the way he does is disrespectful. The excuse that she loves him isn't enough she is saying no. Because she doesn't have to be with him because she loves him.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: malikakas


The story is about Mehbeer... and they will be end game. But I don't think that means because Abeer is the hero he does right and Akshat is the 3rd fiddle so he does wrong. Abeer is the badtameez dil.. he is going to need to change a bit.

I sort of buy into the philosophy if you love someone set them free, if they come back to you they are yours if not they never were. I don't t think Abeer needs to do anything. Meher will never marry Akshat. She pushed herself to get engaged because Abeer came on too strong and she got scared of succumbing to her feelings again. I feel like the harder he pushes the more she runs away. His engagement to Sasha didn't work because he still kept pushing. i feel like the moment he starts walking away again she will come running after him. She is the one that came to Groove. But I do think pushing the way he does is disrespectful. The excuse that she loves him isn't enough she is saying no. Because she doesn't have to be with him because she loves him.

yep we should let the story unfold itself
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: malikakas


🤢 I know. Seriously. I don't know what the CVS were trying to show. I don't think this is love. This is nothing but lust. They are hot for each other.

Making love to someone is about wanting to be close to someone emotionally. Abeer and Meher are not close emotionally. They don't respect each other, they don't understand each other.

Meher asked very nicely to Abeer that he should keep distance because their son is being affected. Did he listen? He barged in an encouraged an argument in front of Ishaan. I cannot see that Abeer cares for either Meher or Ishaan by doing that. And Meher telling Ishaan that his first father is bad-😡

I expect better.




Feelings are mutual. Even though I'm not yet sure about what exactly love is..My conscience tells me clearly and certainly: so far what I'm watching in the show is not Love. Just looking at your DP reminded me of what I was expecting in starting days of the show, CV's gave a beautiful cover page but ...what their book gave me is not that beautiful for me so far..may be this is only my problem or may be just a very very few of us... May be I should stop expecting. I don't have any more hopes, but if miraculously something happens in further episodes which is sensible to me then I'd be more than happy.

Thanks for sharing your views, at this period I can feel for, every single line of every single comment of you.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: .SSS.



Feelings are mutual. Even though I'm not yet sure about what exactly love is..My conscience tells me clearly and certainly: so far what I'm watching in the show is not Love. Just looking at your DP reminded me of what I was expecting in starting days of the show, CV's gave a beautiful cover page but ...what their book gave me is not that beautiful for me so far..may be this is only my problem or may be just a very very few of us... May be I should stop expecting. I don't have any more hopes, but if miraculously something happens in further episodes which is sensible to me then I'd be more than happy.

Thanks for sharing your views, at this period I can feel for, every single line of every single comment of you.


I felt the love in all those flashback scenes... but I am really struggling to make sense of what they are showing.

I was just thinking over the same concept of what is love... They brought up the prince and princess story. For me the love is in what the prince that let go did. And the princess realized what he had done for her well being and respected that. That's why she chose him. They both put each other in the other person's shoes and thought from their perspective.

Have you ever read Gift of Magi? For me that's love. Sacrificing what's important to you to fulfil what is important for the other person.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: malikakas


I felt the love in all those flashback scenes... but I am really struggling to make sense of what they are showing.

I was just thinking over the same concept of what is love... They brought up the prince and princess story. For me the love is in what the prince that let go did. And the princess realized what he had done for her well being and respected that. That's why she chose him. They both put each other in the other person's shoes and thought from their perspective.

Have you ever read Gift of Magi? For me that's love. Sacrificing what's important to you to fulfil what is important for the other person.



So, I just read the summary of Gift of Magi in some online site and reserved the book for my reading list. And whatever the summary I read was enough for me to feel for Della and Magi❤️

Please tell me this kind of love exist not just in fairy tales but in real life too. These days I'm taking so many inputs.. which are confusing me about the concept of love.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I desperately wants abeer to let meher go... Its time for him to sacrifice meher... Why...?? Because he loves her... Yes... I want that...
Plus I want meher to get married to akshat and realise what other type of guys are there in the world... Let her feel akshat's love... Isn't she lucky...?? A friend who stood by her all the time, showed care towards her child, now basically feels like he owns the kid and then as a compensation wants meher to marry her...!!!! Great...!!! What a storyline it will be...!!!
And abeer and his badtameez dil... Well... How I wished he was actually besharam and badtameez... Dude forget meher... You deserve better...!!! And go out... Hang out with girls, sleep with them... Do whatever you want to do... Just don't bother meher and her PERFECT family. And remember for meher you are nothing but a 'sperm donor'.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: naina927

I desperately wants abeer to let meher go... Its time for him to sacrifice meher... Why...?? Because he loves her... Yes... I want that...

Plus I want meher to get married to akshat and realise what other type of guys are there in the world... Let her feel akshat's love... Isn't she lucky...?? A friend who stood by her all the time, showed care towards her child, now basically feels like he owns the kid and then as a compensation wants meher to marry her...!!!! Great...!!! What a storyline it will be...!!!
And abeer and his badtameez dil... Well... How I wished he was actually besharam and badtameez... Dude forget meher... You deserve better...!!! And go out... Hang out with girls, sleep with them... Do whatever you want to do... Just don't bother meher and her PERFECT family. And remember for meher you are nothing but a 'sperm donor'.


right naina abeer can get better girl than meher... someone like sasha,
i think what abeer is doing now is rght becoz he already cried nd beg meher to come back in his life, but she is not ready accept that abeer malhotra can changed. yeah after marrying akshat she will come to know that abeer is much better than that chomu...she thinks abeer is wrong in everything so if abeer is coming closer to meher then why is not stoping him i mean she can take strict action against it but no she is all ok nd fine . nd after getting physical she again start shouting at him abeer loves her nd he accept it so at some point we can understand but meher saying no for abeer nd when come to getting physical she is fine with it..so phyiscal relation she wants to keep with abeer but for other things she don't want abeer. if abeer did so many wrong things so what she is doing cheating her fiance that is not wrong meher?? when abeer behave rude he is wrong he is not good person but when akshat behaving rude with ishaan then no problem u r going to marry him... why only abeer is bad in this whole story what about meher?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: .SSS.



So, I just read the summary of Gift of Magi in some online site and reserved the book for my reading list. And whatever the summary I read was enough for me to feel for Della and Magi❤️

Please tell me this kind of love exist not just in fairy tales but in real life too. These days I'm taking so many inputs.. which are confusing me about the concept of love.


Lol-- I think it does but I think it takes work to get to that stage. It becomes more than what someone else makes you feel but your desire to make someone else feel good. Understanding, respect, communication, patience.

Btw have you watched the movie Love with Salman and Revathi. They kind of do something similar. He sells his guitar to buy her a cross to hang on her chain but she sells the chain to buy him a watch and get him into a music contest.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: zainab_sweety


right naina abeer can get better girl than meher... someone like sasha,
i think what abeer is doing now is rght becoz he already cried nd beg meher to come back in his life, but she is not ready accept that abeer malhotra can changed. yeah after marrying akshat she will come to know that abeer is much better than that chomu...she thinks abeer is wrong in everything so if abeer is coming closer to meher then why is not stoping him i mean she can take strict action against it but no she is all ok nd fine . nd after getting physical she again start shouting at him abeer loves her nd he accept it so at some point we can understand but meher saying no for abeer nd when come to getting physical she is fine with it..so phyiscal relation she wants to keep with abeer but for other things she don't want abeer. if abeer did so many wrong things so what she is doing cheating her fiance that is not wrong meher?? when abeer behave rude he is wrong he is not good person but when akshat behaving rude with ishaan then no problem u r going to marry him... why only abeer is bad in this whole story what about meher?


Yeah... He deserves someone who belongs to his class... It was his fault he accepted meher the way she was, he should have tried to change meher the way she tried to change abeer... Shadi hui hai... Punar janam nahi ke abeer will change overnight...
So u know what zainab... I have to a conclusion...
For abeer it is and was always about LOVE... For meher it was ATTRACTION first and now LUST may be...

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