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Originally posted by: .SSS.

May be yeah! Love gives pain too.. and I'm pretty much clue less..still trying to understand... I'm not a big girl yet... And what I'm feeling is that, there should be a beauty in pain.. but what I'm feeling here in this story is.. there wasn't any beauty.. its becoming awful.. No offense..

Originally posted by: malikakas

Kmh was amazing for selfless love. Arjun never did anything to gain from Arohi. He wanted what was best for her. I wanted to see Abeer become that.

I agree-- the pain should be beautiful. In BD1 the pain was beautiful. That scene where Mehbeer cry after Meher tells the office the truth. I felt they really loved each other
I know, our most favorite scene was that.. those days were beautiful. I used to feel for both of them so much. I used to mention them as babies. .. Silly me!..

Exactly, that pain was beautiful!..Seeing that.. We were imagining so many reasons for their divorce but not as idiotic reasons as we got later.

I can't see any love now!..Leave about today Even in their past too.. I never saw any love. They showed us just some romance..That seemed like infatuation. Buying gifts and making birth day arrangements with his father's money is love?!.. I would have preferred to see if he had made a simple birthday card with his own hands...and when she explains about the value of money his response was..😕.. If you love a person then you'll try to listen and understand them.

There is a tatto that still Meher has.. A violin in the memory of him. Silly girl! .. 🥺.. Is there any single thing he has done for her?

Now I don't see Abeer's love. Trying to take revenge from Meher for keeping Ishaan away and trying to hurt her with his wedding card. Immature love. Fake love is all about what I want -- Real love is all about service. Doing for someone without keeping score. I hate when Abeer mentions what he has done for her. Even Akshat said I don't want repayment for my 8 years.

That's why I want track where Abeer learns to become Meher's friend without wanting romance.
@Red exactly my point.. I don't know... I felt so weird whenever he says I did this.. and I did that.Why to show off? Why to demand something in return.

I haven't eaten and haven't slept for fifteen days when you're in hospital Meher.. so marry me in return? How silly was that? He always demands so much..

Yeah...No more romance now..🥱

Originally posted by: .SSS.

I can't see any love now!..Leave about today Even in their past too.. I never saw any love. They showed us just some romance..That seemed like infatuation. Buying gifts and making birth day arrangements with his father's money is love?!.. I would have preferred to see if he had made a simple birthday card with his own hands...and when she explains about the value of money his response was..😕.. If you love a person then you'll try to listen and understand them.

There is a tatto that still Meher has.. A violin in the memory of him. Silly girl! .. 🥺.. Is there any single thing he has done for her?

I know I romanticized them so much-- I thought for sure Abeer would've left for a good reason to help Meher and Meher misunderstood. But nope. He never made her priorities her priorities. What did she need a 12 lac party for? She needed the support of a husband who would've helped her fulfil her responsibilities. And now when she doesn't need him, he expects her to kick out the man that helped her fulfil her responsibilities for 8 years because he has suddenly decided he loves her again. How can he be so sure his love will last this time-- he

@Red exactly my point.. I don't know... I felt so weird whenever he says I did this.. and I did that.Why to show off? Why to demand something in return.

I haven't eaten and haven't slept for fifteen days when you're in hospital Meher.. so marry me in return? How silly was that?

Yeah -- worse was when he said it was selfish of her to not accept him after all that he did. Like really?You want to go there? You probably weren't even needed. Bua could've handled things just fine. Bua only let him in because he told her he wanted to redeem himself but then to say he wanted payment was I don't even understand why Suman didn't tell Meher about the house being mortgaged -- it wasn't tough for her to get the money.

Originally posted by: Sdea

except for the past i feel meher was wrong in most situations.And this is definitely not the fangirl in me speaking.

Yes in the past 90% of the time i felt abeer was wrong but in the present meher is.

Why join the same company as abeer when you want to hide about your son. This makes me think the child track was not thought early on.

Plus i personally dislike people who after divorce (however bitter it had been) talk bad about their spouse to their children. Why tell bad stuff about the father to a kid that he left them. Seriously thats a plain lie.

Mehers character has deteriorated sooo badly that i am done complaining.

i have no issues if she wants to move on thats her choice but to belittle the father of your child that also by lying is not done.

Am not saying abeer has not done any mistakes, He has done many mistakes too but more of in the immature side not something which can't be forgiven except for the past.

ignore my heightened emotions am just annoyed with the way BD is progressing.

It feels like its a story of akshat and meher where abeer is a villain.😒

PS- you are doing awesome work to increase forum activity. This debate is never ending though❤️

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

See why I started watching BD is because, could connect with it. It is a modern day story where divorces have become the norm for the silliest of the silliest reasons. Where we have kids caught between the divorced parents. And where parents of the couple had a big role to play in the divorce of the couple, thinking what they are doing is for the benefit of their ward. BD is a bag of mistakes actually committed by both Abeer and Meher. Mistakes are there in both sides. Getting married without a job was the first mistake by both Mehbeer. Elope marriage another mistake. And in both these cases Meher could have taken a stand. Someone told love will give only pain, but can love give happiness. Yes it can. If we allow it time. If Abeer felt Meher wanting time to marry is because she doesn't love him enough, then for Meher at that point it was better to let him go. If they were made for each other or if their love was true, time would again bring them together as mature individuals. You don't do wrong methods to prove your love. Meher should have let go of Abeer. So in love story I will put Meher at fault, because she had the power to take the call,but she got carried away in love.

Now marriage. Abeer told he will take care of everything. It was his responsibility to support Meher in managing relations at his home. He allowed himself to be influenced by many people and ended up messing the whole marriage. Marriage major mistake with Abeer.

8 years later. Mistake by Meher for joining back Groove, hiding truth of child from Abeer, telling negative thing about Abeer to Ishaan, rushing for a relation with Akshat.

Mistake by Abeer insulting Meher in public, taking decisions for Meher, giving money to Tunnu without understanding why he need it, publicly insulting Kuber, treating Ishaan badly when he assumed he was Akshat's son, using Alia, using Akshat's car as washroom, trying to prove Akshat wrong, teaching bullying to Ishaan.

So in present both have mistakes and those mistakes galore. Basically in past before marriage Meher should have let Abeer go and currently Abeer should let Meher go.