debate... ur POV :) - Page 2

Originally posted by: .SSS.

Zainab.. you're doing it for Forum activity and for best rank ..hun? Believe me, you're awesome if it is so because this debate never will end and forum can get good rank...

I can give you so many reasons to say Meher is right and to say Meher is wrong.. And I can give you so many reasons to say Abeer is right and to say Abeer is wrong..

But the thing is, In giving those reasons I can be right and I can be wrong too...I'm not Perfect...😆

PS: Am I making any sense?I know, I'm not. But I've to say one thing I started to watch this show to see Abeer and Meher's love story.. But not to see any Meher and Meher love story or any Abeer and Abeer love story.. My point is... Seeing a story with LOVE(Still trying to figure out what is love?) is important to me..😆

Originally posted by: zainab_sweety

aww u r talking so swwet sweet today hehe 😆

Oh, shit! that wasn't my intention... you know.. I don't like this Sweet tag that much..🤪..

It was easy to bear when you said mera dil Pathar ka dil...🤣.. Believe me I loved it that day..😳

Originally posted by: .SSS.

Oh, shit! that wasn't my intention... you know.. I don't like this Sweet tag that much..🤪..

It was easy to bear when you said mer dil Pathar ka dil...🤣.. Believe me I loved it that day..😳

Originally posted by: .SSS.

Thank you.. Whenever I point out Abeer or Meher's or any of the character's flaws in this show.. then it is not to bash them ... There were million fictional shows happening around where Characters are flawed but I'm not going around every forum and pointing out them because I don't care them at all, as I never expected any thing from them in the first place...

But I do have expected to see .. so much here.. for some personal reason, I connected a lot with this show.. so I'm feeling to express my views.. That's it!...

Last but not the least,..I came to know, so many wonderful people in this forum.. and I love it.

Originally posted by: malikakas

Exactly.. i completely agree. Actually what I like about this show is that it is very close to reality. As much as I like to complain about Abeer-- he is more real character than other shows. People like Suraj from Dabh don't really exist in real life. People like Abeer exist a lot more. Same with Meher. They are putting these two in the real life struggles we face everyday. That' why the tayji track was so hard to swallow.

The only thing I really want to see is Meher and Abeer develop an emotional connection. They skipped the emotional moments between Meher and Abeer that show us how they bonded as a couple.

Originally posted by: malikakas

Agree. Actually what I like about this show is that it is very close to reality. As much as I like to complain about Abeer-- he is more real character than other shows. People like Suraj from Dabh don't really exist in real life. People like Abeer exist a lot more. Same with Meher. They are putting these two in the real life struggles we face everyday. That' why the tayji track was so hard to swallow.

The only thing I really want to see is Meher and Abeer develop an emotional connection. They skipped the emotional moments between Meher and Abeer that show us how they bonded as a couple.

IKR.. we watch many a shows for entertainment but we can connect with very a few of them.. and for me It's BD... Even today, I hit the Chaska Meter of this forum.. giving a rating 'Freakin' awesome'

We can connect with characters. Its realistic. Yeah, I would love to see more emotional connection.
As of now, what I'm thinkg about love is: Love should make people better persons.. and it should give more happiness rather than hurt and pain.. I really want to see at the end.

Originally posted by: zainab_sweety

ohh u remember that day but only me even naina said it 😆 u were saying bad things for my abeer

me nd naina said so many things to u so u left forrum i mean where u went after a long time iam seeing u?? ok sapna tumhara dil pathar ka hain happy now 😛

Happy now.. and just because I'm in happy mood.. I'm going to reveal one more secret of me.
Mera dil thoda baddameez bhi hai..😆...

Can you believe me, if I say that I mentioned somewhere in this forum that Pearl looked super hot while portraying arrogance and while leaving Meher...but I hated that thing done by Abeer so much. See how baddamez... I was being to say that he looked super hot at that time... You see I'm not any good!.. But I do have grip on my emotions .. or atleast I'm trying to have grip on them.
*StoryOfMyLife*...🤪

Originally posted by: .SSS.

IKR.. we watch many a shows for entertainment but we can connect with very a few of them.. and for me It's BD... Even today, I hit the Chaska Meter of this forum.. giving a rating 'Freakin' awesome'

We can connect with characters. Its realistic. Yeah, I would love to see more emotional connection.
As of now, what I'm thinkg about love is: Love should make people better persons.. and it should give more happiness rather than hurt and pain.. I really want to see at the end.

Don't think I am diplomatic but both Mehbeer are wrong in their own context.

Originally posted by: malikakas

Yeah- I want the show to start looking at the concept of love. The story today. The prince letting go of the princess showed love. The prince forceful holding on because he thinks the other prince is wrong is infantilizing the princess. The princess has a right to make a bad choice. No one else can decide whether someone else is right or wrong. I really need to see Abeer back off and stop trying to make Meher live life on his terms.
I know right!.. I was even expecting it. Thanks to Ektha's KMH, My expectations hit the sky.. I was al most imagining Abeer to behave like Arjun after Arohi's accident.After discussing with you about it yesterday.. I re watched those scenes last night and crying over it...Seriously Kitani Mohabbet hai? that was.. infinite! Arjun was ready to show himself as a bad person before her just for happiness.. He stayed away from her but was being her side every time.In this process if she hates him, he took it all without complaints.. he cried many a times but not before her. Not to show it to her. And there was this phone conversation scene when Arohi realizes his doings are for her good.. she calls him.. but he still tries to portray himself as a bad person by Gulping down all the hurt and pain. Arjun cries like a baby after that phone call .. Oh my god! its so hard for me to type about their plight.

Okay.. I don't want this much.. may be IDK.. KMH might be possible in only fictional shows, but I want to see.just a little bit of self less love. Just expecting Abeer not to force the things.. Is it too much to ask for?😕

But I think love does open us pain. Only the person you love the most can hurt you the most. But we should see that love bring happiness too. And that's the part of the story I missed with Mehbeer. I didn't see where the love made them happy. I felt like Meher's life was worse after she married Abeer-- all of a sudden she had 2 more responsibilities (Abeer and housework) without any additional support. That was so hard to watch.

May be yeah! Love gives pain too.. and I'm pretty much clue less..still trying to understand... I'm not a big girl yet... And what I'm feeling is that, there should be a beauty in pain.. but what I'm feeling here in this story is.. there wasn't any beauty.. its becoming awful.. No offense..