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Today, I did feel bad for hitesh, since men are very strong and do not show emotions easily. Hitty cried when he was talking to Vivek and then that meeting with pooja also broke his heart. Somewhere I feel that it is not right to blame pooja for all the meetings she had with Hitty because had she chosen some other kunwar(most of them were focussed) then we would have come here and bashed her that she is trying to create a rift. She chose Raj for the first time and then she started taking Hitesh as he was the one who was most interested in knowing her and yash and vivek and gaurav already were looking at other girls. Today hitty mentioned that he does not want to be called as a bechara, but he is mostly responsible for all his actions as he and his mom have been constantly pushing pooja directly and indirectly. He was talking to vivek that his family is well settled compared to pooja's, If he can talk like this before marriage, then definitely he can dominate pooja and her actions after marriage. If you love someone, you have to trust them, understand their feelings, and above all respect them. Somewhere, more than his heart, its his ego which is not letting him accept defeat. He must have never felt rejection and since it's on national tv he knows that his family reputation is attached with it. Hitesh's nature is short tempered, egoistic, dominating, and possessive. He could have given space to pooja and not pressurized her by talking to his mom. In fact, his mom keeps on dragging pooja's name in everything like today when she was mentioning about her last name to be changed to pooja tandon chauhan. They are already taking her as a bahu and think her as their property. Pooja has been bashed a lot on this forum, but definitely she did the right thing, she took time and got to know what the real kind of person hitesh was. Had she chosen him in the beginning and announced her decision then, it would have been too late and bad for her. She is not scared of getting eliminated either even though MOW is hitesh's mom. Everything looked googly googly in the beginning, but see the end result, at least the poor soul pooja has taken a sensible decision. I am sure that suppose pooja agrees(which she will not in any case) to hitesh, her parents will definitely let her know the other side of Hitesh's personality which she is unaware of and not let her take a wrong decision. I did feel bad for hitesh too, but then he is the one who did mistakes. He expected a lot from pooja. pyar mein sacrifices bhi karne padte hain.
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Jodha Akbar
