Bechara Hitesh - Page 2

I think this is life!!!! sometimes you get what you want and sometimes you don't. I am a sucker for a good romance - so would have loved for Hitesh and Pooja to get together. I think if they had met outside of this show maybe they had a good chance - but this is a game show and you cannot live a normal life on national television. Also we are now shown what is going on 24/7. We are shown bits and pieces of what the channel thinks will make the show more spicy and raise TRP's. So it would not be fair on our parts to say anything personal about these people. These kids are not trained actors, so they emote in ways we are not used toseeing on TV, we are comparing their behavior to what we see regular actors on TV do!!!

Let us cut them all some slack guys!!!

Originally posted by: suresh555

I always found Pooja, Rumpa & Gurpreet the best in girls. I think Pooja disappointed me today because I feel that on one hand while she kept distance from Hitesh all the time, on the other hand she sent mixed signals to Hitesh. She always took him on dates, always claimed that Hitesh mujhe bahut pasand hai, and even said that she was focusing only on him. I also think 6-7 weeks was too much time she dillydallied (she could have easily decided much earlier if she felt pressure from Hitesh & mom)

Sorry, but I think she is not as mature or stable as I thought she is. I think most people do not appreciate when they get something very easily

i agree..i just cant believe how people in this forum can be so cold..no offences..

Originally posted by: kizley

now they will understand how is the pain of break-up.Hittys mom did break the pairing of Nandita and Yash.When nandita was having feelings for yashhhhhhhhhhh.

:evil:

Pooja is very sensible girl.

you cant compare hitesh pooja with yash and nandita.. she never felt for yash ...it was just the start... it was nothing like hitesh and pooja....

Originally posted by: suresh555

I always found Pooja, Rumpa & Gurpreet the best in girls. I think Pooja disappointed me today because I feel that on one hand while she kept distance from Hitesh all the time, on the other hand she sent mixed signals to Hitesh. She always took him on dates, always claimed that Hitesh mujhe bahut pasand hai, and even said that she was focusing only on him. I also think 6-7 weeks was too much time she dillydallied (she could have easily decided much earlier if she felt pressure from Hitesh & mom)

Sorry, but I think she is not as mature or stable as I thought she is. I think most people do not appreciate when they get something very easily

I think the so called 'dates' on which Pooja took Hitesh out were supposedly called 'dates', but they were just a platform for the prospective bride and groom to meet and know each other... how else she could have known whether she wanted to have anything with him or not, without trying to know him.......
6-7 weeks hardly gave them 4-5 meetings.... and if 4-5 meetings create so much pressure on someone, she has the right to go ahead....... Hitesh got hurt not because of 4-5 meetings...but because of the high hopes he had associated with them...when some-one wants to marry the other, and the other one requests some time to decide, she has the prerogative to say 'No' to it..

II understand in India,in arranged marriages people are expected to say 'yes/no' to marriage after first meeting itself (let go of 4/5 meetings)....... but from my own perspective, I believe that this kind of a system is getting obsolete with the growing exposure/independence of thoughts and free communication between opposite sexes.......this kind of system is gradually getting obsolete as love might not even take off, if people haven't given sufficient time to even know each other.......but thats my personal opinion...and in this specific situation I believe Pooja took her time, and took the most sensible decision-she felt would be good for her.

Originally posted by: suresh555

I always found Pooja, Rumpa & Gurpreet the best in girls. I think Pooja disappointed me today because I feel that on one hand while she kept distance from Hitesh all the time, on the other hand she sent mixed signals to Hitesh. She always took him on dates, always claimed that Hitesh mujhe bahut pasand hai, and even said that she was focusing only on him. I also think 6-7 weeks was too much time she dillydallied (she could have easily decided much earlier if she felt pressure from Hitesh & mom)

Sorry, but I think she is not as mature or stable as I thought she is. I think most people do not appreciate when they get something very easily

i agree wiht you here..she did send mixed signals to hitty babu..and I remember,when they had to preactise for garba,she was feeling very uncomfy getting too enar hitty babu...somehow,I sensed,she is not happy to be with him...yeh sab tho hona hi tha..😆

Originally posted by: hima_123

I think the so called 'dates' on which Pooja took Hitesh out were supposedly called 'dates', but they were just a platform for the prospective bride and groom to meet and know each other... how else she could have known whether she wanted to have anything with him or not, without trying to know him.......
6-7 weeks hardly gave them 4-5 meetings.... and if 4-5 meetings create so much pressure on someone, she has the right to go ahead....... Hitesh got hurt not because of 4-5 meetings...but because of the high hopes he had associated with them...when some-one wants to marry the other, and the other one requests some time to decide, she has the prerogative to say 'No' to it..

II understand in India,in arranged marriages people are expected to say 'yes/no' to marriage after first meeting itself (let go of 4/5 meetings)....... but from my own perspective, I believe that this kind of a system is getting obsolete with the growing exposure/independence of thoughts and free communication between opposite sexes.......this kind of system is gradually getting obsolete as love might not even take off, if people haven't given sufficient time to even know each other.......but thats my personal opinion...and in this specific situation I believe Pooja took her time, and took the most sensible decision-she felt would be good for her.

people are not paying attention to the fact that she was never there to ge married, thats why she could nt see any guy in that way. she was thre to win the tittle, and to stay on the show for long she hd to act as if she is trying to know someone. when channal pressured her on the stage last week, she thought she will have to make a decision as channal wants to choose a couple and get them married, she backed off....

but how can people forget that she was never there to get married...everyone said she was there for publicity, someone in my locality knows poojas father, he keep telling everyone that she is not there to get married but to make her career, looking for work in serials etc, also that they dont even live in Chandigarh, they live in mumbai... girls like rumpa, priyanka, seemed like they were serious abt shaadi... hitesh n his mom dontt know that... i dont think hitesh should take that personally...

Originally posted by: priya09876

people are not paying attention to the fact that she was never there to ge married, thats why she could nt see any guy in that way. she was thre to win the tittle, and to stay on the show for long she hd to act as if she is trying to know someone. when channal pressured her on the stage last week, she thought she will have to make a decision as channal wants to choose a couple and get them married, she backed off....

but how can people forget that she was never there to get married...everyone said she was there for publicity, someone in my locality knows poojas father, he keep telling everyone that she is not there to get married but to make her career, looking for work in serials etc, also that they dont even live in Chandigarh, they live in mumbai... girls like rumpa, priyanka, seemed like they were serious abt shaadi... hitesh n his mom dontt know that... i dont think hitesh should take that personally...

I have done my undergrad studies from MCM-DAV college in Chandigarh.....I moved out of Chadigarh after that for my further studies and career. But I have stayed in touch with my teachers....who have taught Pooja too....Pooja did her English Hons. from the MCM DAV too....(even Kangana Ranaut has passed out from the same college😳 ).....I had been to India like a month back and visited my alma-mater......met my old teachers....and they told me about Pooja Tandon...an intelligent stident, with a very good conduct...even students talked about her.....her father belongs to Chandigarh.....and still has his office there and works from there....and they live in Chd...(they might be going to Mumbai on and off, but their house where they live is in Chd..and I know it for sure)

She has not hidden her acting profession from anyone in the show.....plus I am sure if she meets the right guy, be it on TV ...or through a portal....or through somewhere else...she would love to explore the prospect. any single person would.....and i felt initially Pooja was really attracted to Raj coz of his looks, but withdrew from it, coz of his liking for Priyanka.......so its not that Pooja doesn't have a heart or wouldn't want to marry if she gets a good guy...or if given a chance to meet him.

All I say is shaadi ek baar hotee hai (usually) so soch samajh ke faisla lo. If something does not seem right it probably is'nt. I dont think one can convince themselves to get married to someone. Pooja was not deciding for anyone, she decided what she wants to do in life and she knew that Hitty isnt the one for her. It would have been terrible to live with such people.