The ARVI exit:Mod note pg10 - Page 5

Originally posted by: naava

LOL Kools, that was a pretty lopsided scenario. Since you are advocating a clean slate with apologies all around, there are a few that you missed. I am sure you just overlooked them. Let me help with a few:

Arjun

Needs to apologize to Purvi for never telling her about Ovi wanting to marry him (and he agreeing even tho he never loved her).

Needs to apologize to both Purvi and Ovi for stringing both of them along so many times...afraid to let Ovi know the truth that he loved Purvi, and constantly telling Purvi he "would straighten it out".

Needs to apologize to Purvi for for not being strong enough to say no to the forced marriage. If Arjun had refused Ovi's blackmail of Purvi, and said he would wait for Purvi, it would have turned out differently.

Needs to apologize to Purvi for his extreme anger towards her when she was trying to straddle the line between Arjun her husband and Manav her father regarding the Shirish case. She was between a rock and a hard place and trying to do her best.

Needs to apologize to Purvi for not caring about the 2nd baby and indirectly causing it's miscarriage (we must assume it miscarried.)

Needs to apologize to Purvi for lying to her so many times. Especially in Canada regarding Ovi and Pia, and now with the Ovi pretend marriage.

Needs to aplogize to Purvi for hurting her so badly so many times.

Purvi

Needs to apologize to Arjun for succumbing to Ovi's blackmail and forcing him to marry Ovi.

Needs to apologize to Ovi for swapping the babies even though she was trying to protect Ovi.

Need to apologize to Arjun for not trying to listen to his explanation re: Pia and Ovi in the beginning.

Ovi

Needs to apologize to Purvi for blackmailing her, to Arjun for forcing him into a marriage he never wanted,to her mother for using her as the blackmail tool. Needs to apologize to both Purvi and Arjun for destroying their marriage to be.

Needs to apologize to her family and the baby for drinking and carrying on when pregnant, causing the stillborn death of her child.

Needs to apologize to her mother for her hatred and manipulations.

Needs to apologize to Purvi for treating her so rudely in the latest charade, for her jealousy of Purvi, for her games she played with someone else's life.

Archana and Manav

Need to apologize to all three, Purvi, Arjun & Ovi for not intervening as parents and annulling the phony marriage between Arjun and Ovi.

Now i am sure i have forgotten a few as well but just wanted to help you out Kools.

REALLY? Ovi stole everything from Purvi 🤣
Sorry but people have convenient memories here?
Who was supposed to get married to Arjun FIRST? Who did he PROMISE to marry? Who did he get engaged to DESPITE KNOWING HE LOVED PURVI

Originally posted by: Ashlaika

Kools,

I see you wrote your posts in the plural sense using the term "We" which kinda makes it sound as if you are airing the views of all the viewers or members of the forum. However, since its not so, let me take this opportunity to add to this thread.

First of all - Thank you very much, I appreciate your sentiments and understand your need for a confrontation and apologies. Also, thank you as well for making Purvi as popular as she has been on the forum and thank you for highlighting all the wrongs ArVi have done so that we can love them a little more by defending them against their ill wishers.

Secondly, as we are asking for apologies, I have no issues with Arjun apologising for anything from anyone. Actually... it would be really good to see him do so.

Also, I too dont have issues with Purvi apologising to anyone either... in fact, I always thought she owed Arjun an apology for that hill top wedding.

But, if ArVi are to be made to apologise, then I would like persons to ALSO APOLOGISE TO THEM!

They have done many wrongs (mainly to each other) and no two wrongs can make a right, but they were also at the receiving end of MANY bad behaviours, decisions, mistakes and ill treatment. So as much as we would like to look at it from one perspective, I would like to think that in the ArVi story, there is as much grey as there is black and white... and if NO ONE is made to apologise to them, then I say to the writers and CVs... let ArVi say to hell with everyone and go off into the sunset.

Like others in this thread have stated, you certainly cannot clap with one hand and it always takes 2 to tango and EVERYONE is at the end of the day responsible for their own actions. So... just like Arjun and Purvi are blamed for ruining everyone and sundry lives, then others too are blamed for playing a part in the ruination of THEM.

So... I repeat... I dont mind if they apologise... but why should they if the sentiment is not returned or appreciated.

As for the ArVi and Pari confrontation... I would love to see that, but not likely the CVs like us enough to make it happen.

God Bless ArVi... for always keeping this forum alive and kicking and always giving us something to talk about... without them, the forum would be such a dull place 😉.

Great post kools, I agree with everything you posted and if I might add if arvi apologise I know I might not stop disliking them but atleast they'll gain a bit of respect from me and I'll give them due credit for character growth ( Plus I hate that Ovi always apologises sometimes when it's not needed and she does that alot) but knowing the cvs they wont acknowledge their faults typical anyway here to wishing we atleast get the Pari and Arjun confrontation scene.

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

SORRY REALLY? You think anyone who speaks against them are ILL WISHERS?
Like we have nothing in life but to wish ILL for fictional characters 😆

Hey sweety... I was just stating something and of course it is MY Point of view and subjective opinion.

I'm sure you are well aware that we are allowed to do so, after all, you have opened at least 100+ topics simply to talk about PR and mainly Arjun and Purvi... so we are ALL allowed to state our opinions... right?!

I NEVER said that you are an ill wisher because you speak against them... you can re-read my post and if you have a problem with the context of the post and the SPECIFIC to this thread, then we can discuss that.

But please... dont try to instigate any falsehoods or start a bashing fan group spree with me, by quoting me and misunderstanding what I say.

Do have a good day!

So... I agree with u Kools do that Arvi should apologize for all they have done. I don't want them to simply fade off into the sunset. I want to think of them as memorable and sweet people(I'm talking About Arvi not Ashvik) As sweet as they're starting was, I want their ending to be as sweet and not end with bitterness. And like other people have posted, there are people who should be apologizing to them too. I want Arvi then to fade out gracefully and Ovi too. And then I want Pari and Pia to not have any bitterness against each other and become friends. I know it's too much to demand from Fekta, but can try atleast

Ashlaika

I agree kools...the least ArVi could do before leaving is apologize for destroying the lives of so many due to their impulsive, immature, and illogical decisions.

Many people are saying that Ovi needs to apologize. Yes, Ovi has something to apologize for. I completely agree. BUT OVI HAS ALREADY APOLOGIZED.

Have we not seen it play out for months now how sorry Ovi is?!!! PLEASE TELL ME I DID NOT IMAGINE THIS.

Did we not see Ovi rectify her mistake and INITIATE the reunion of Arjun/Purvi??? The Arjun/Purvi reunion was ONLY done by Onir and Ovi. These two pathetic love birds were not even willing to take a step up for themselves. Ovi and Onir pretty much forced them together because they are huge cowards and EVEN AFTER THAT they could not manage to maintain their marriage past a few months!

Till when will you blame Ovi or Onir or Archana or Manav or other people for the failure and joke of a relationship that Arjun and Purvi have? Will they EVER take an OUNCE of responsibility of their own destructive actions?? This is just beyond ridiculous now!

How can it be said that Ovi didn't apologize?!! Ovi has been apologizing her entire freaking life for these two immature idiots! She has apologized so much that her own daughter is hell bent on reuniting these two?!! If this is not remorse and guilt, then I don't know what is!

Originally posted by: Ashlaika

Hey sweety... I was just stating something and of course it is MY Point of view and subjective opinion.

I'm sure you are well aware that we are allowed to do so, after all, you have opened at least 100+ topics simply to talk about PR and mainly Arjun and Purvi... so we are ALL allowed to state our opinions... right?!

I NEVER said that you are an ill wisher because you speak against them... you can re-read my post and if you have a problem with the context of the post and the SPECIFIC to this thread, then we can discuss that.

But please... dont try to instigate any falsehoods or start a bashing fan group spree with me, by quoting me and misunderstanding what I say.

Do have a good day!

hahaha Kool, just saw this post, you made a post for Arvi exit...

Btw, do you really expect any of these to be fulfilled??? My conclusion has been that both Ekta and Cvs are juvenile understanding nothing regarding, love. or how love evolves over time nor do they understand anything regarding the different nuances of relationships. Or maybe the Cvs just understand their audience or precisely a section of their audience who have a very one-dimensional view about love esp. that of romantic love...the audience who believes in fairy tales, in my POV...

My opinion strictly, of course...