The ARVI exit:Mod note pg10 - Page 4

It took a long time to accept the new Manav. Even today, I picture him acting instead of the new Manav. Once a good and strong actor leaves, the show does not remain the same. This will be a good opportunity for Ekta amma to close the 20 years of chapter. She has already created a monster in part 2 (Mansi and Raunak)

I hope for a confrontation between all characters. Apologies all around, not just from Arvi. You can't clap with one hand as someone mentioned earlier. The stage for destruction began before Arvi became destructive. Ovi was self-destructive first and put Arvi in such a tangle, they were never able to untangle themselves even tho Ovi managed to get out herself. I think this is where her guilt lies. Even though, it is not Ovi's responsibility to help Arvi out. You can't make others do anything. It's their own choices.

A lot of members blame Purvi for all these separations but I believe relationships work both ways. It is the responsibility of both individuals in a relation - love or familial - to maintain, repair and keep alive the relation.

My main point is nobody can blame others for their life outcome. In the end, it was one's own choices and decisions regardless of what others do or say to you. Each are responsible for their own outcomes.

I'm very happy Ashvik is leaving the show. Hopefully they get another show together for me to love and adore them some more!

No need for any apologies. I would like to congratulate the creative team for penning all the illogical twists and turns in the story that kept us embroiled in pages and pages of debates.

May the exit be just as controversial so we can celebrate with many more pages of arguments.

Originally posted by: altuphalu

No need for any apologies. I would like to congratulate the creative team for penning all the illogical twists and turns in the story that kept us embroiled in pages and pages of debates.

May the exit be just as controversial so we can celebrate with many more pages of arguments.

Lol this too! 😆 good one!

nope...fekta will never going to show such type of logical thing...but m very happy that arvi character will be no more on my tv screen (don know for how much time) ...just love your post...for me, yes this all mess is due to only nd only pathetic arvi character and their too much dramebazii... u know wat ashvik is simply good for their real lifelove story but for arvi😡 ... i never found any pavitra thing in arvi's rishta... if i can say one word about their rishta than only one word comes in my mind...

Kools,

I see you wrote your posts in the plural sense using the term "We" which kinda makes it sound as if you are airing the views of all the viewers or members of the forum. However, since its not so, let me take this opportunity to add to this thread.

First of all - Thank you very much, I appreciate your sentiments and understand your need for a confrontation and apologies. Also, thank you as well for making Purvi as popular as she has been on the forum and thank you for highlighting all the wrongs ArVi have done so that we can love them a little more by defending them against their ill wishers.

Secondly, as we are asking for apologies, I have no issues with Arjun apologising for anything from anyone. Actually... it would be really good to see him do so.

Also, I too dont have issues with Purvi apologising to anyone either... in fact, I always thought she owed Arjun an apology for that hill top wedding.

But, if ArVi are to be made to apologise, then I would like persons to ALSO APOLOGISE TO THEM!

They have done many wrongs (mainly to each other) and no two wrongs can make a right, but they were also at the receiving end of MANY bad behaviours, decisions, mistakes and ill treatment. So as much as we would like to look at it from one perspective, I would like to think that in the ArVi story, there is as much grey as there is black and white... and if NO ONE is made to apologise to them, then I say to the writers and CVs... let ArVi say to hell with everyone and go off into the sunset.

Like others in this thread have stated, you certainly cannot clap with one hand and it always takes 2 to tango and EVERYONE is at the end of the day responsible for their own actions. So... just like Arjun and Purvi are blamed for ruining everyone and sundry lives, then others too are blamed for playing a part in the ruination of THEM.

So... I repeat... I dont mind if they apologise... but why should they if the sentiment is not returned or appreciated.

As for the ArVi and Pari confrontation... I would love to see that, but not likely the CVs like us enough to make it happen.

God Bless ArVi... for always keeping this forum alive and kicking and always giving us something to talk about... without them, the forum would be such a dull place 😉.

LOL Kools, that was a pretty lopsided scenario. Since you are advocating a clean slate with apologies all around, there are a few that you missed. I am sure you just overlooked them. Let me help with a few:

Kools,

Originally posted by: naava

LOL Kools, that was a pretty lopsided scenario. Since you are advocating a clean slate with apologies all around, there are a few that you missed. I am sure you just overlooked them. Let me help with a few:

Arjun

Needs to apologize to Purvi for never telling her about Ovi wanting to marry him (and he agreeing even tho he never loved her).

Needs to apologize to both Purvi and Ovi for stringing both of them along so many times...afraid to let Ovi know the truth that he loved Purvi, and constantly telling Purvi he "would straighten it out".

Needs to apologize to Purvi for for not being strong enough to say no to the forced marriage. If Arjun had refused Ovi's blackmail of Purvi, and said he would wait for Purvi, it would have turned out differently.

Needs to apologize to Purvi for his extreme anger towards her when she was trying to straddle the line between Arjun her husband and Manav her father regarding the Shirish case. She was between a rock and a hard place and trying to do her best.

Needs to apologize to Purvi for not caring about the 2nd baby and indirectly causing it's miscarriage (we must assume it miscarried.)

Needs to apologize to Purvi for lying to her so many times. Especially in Canada regarding Ovi and Pia, and now with the Ovi pretend marriage.

Needs to aplogize to Purvi for hurting her so badly so many times.

Purvi

Needs to apologize to Arjun for succumbing to Ovi's blackmail and forcing him to marry Ovi.

Needs to apologize to Ovi for swapping the babies even though she was trying to protect Ovi.

Need to apologize to Arjun for not trying to listen to his explanation re: Pia and Ovi in the beginning.

Ovi

Needs to apologize to Purvi for blackmailing her, to Arjun for forcing him into a marriage he never wanted,to her mother for using her as the blackmail tool.

Needs to apologize to her family and the baby for drinking and carrying on when pregnant, causing the stillborn death of her child.

Needs to apologize to her mother for her hatred and manipulations.

Needs to apologize to Purvi for treating her so rudely in the latest charade, for her jealousy of Purvi, for her games she played with someone else's life.

Archana and Manav

Need to apologize to all three, Purvi, Arjun & Ovi for not intervening as parents and annulling the phony marriage between Arjun and Ovi.

Now i am sure i have forgotten a few as well but just wanted to help you out Kools.

Originally posted by: ashvik202

Ohh naava u summerized evrythng...much needed post

Bt after reading your post I feel we soon need to celebrate one SPECIAL APPOLOGY DAY in PR