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Posted: 11 years ago
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Some People never tired making same post again and again
Edited by muaaz - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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The topic has as always has steered towards mud slinging on Purvi and oh-how-good-Ovi-is-and-how-bad-is-Purvi comments even brought my indifferent self in to the discussion.
Ovi - This is the girl who left her premature baby in Canada and came all the way to India to make sure that Onir's name is cleared and dragged Purvi to the court so that she can speak for Onir, does it make sense that she does not feel an iota of righteousness in correcting the misunderstanding that involved her and her baby ? And clear the air with her own sister for whom she had begged (emotionally blackmailed ) Arjun to marry a month or two back?
And ..
- Does anyone believe that Ovi could keep the baby's truth a secret by bringing her up in her own house ? Seriously? Of course, she did it in on purpose and did not care about the consequences if the truth comes out.
- Why is Arjun alone blasted for not asking about Pia? It was Ovi's decision in the first place that Pia does not only need a father but also aunts, uncles and grand parents on either side. So Ovi does not have BIG sized Ego?
Ovi not only did a big injustice to Pia but she also means that she does NOT need any of her family in her life. So why all the hue and cry about the family not reaching out to Ovi?
Purvi was called all sorts of names when she went left her family to give birth to Pari, Purvi was asked why she couldn't abort the child when she knew she wouldn't live with Arjun, Purvi was accused of bad intentions when she came back to Mumbai (albeit the reason that was shown) because she should know that given a very remote chance, the baby's truth would be discovered, Purvi was a bad mother when she left the baby in care of her neighbour for few hours, Purvi, Purvi, Purvi ...
What OVi has done are far worse things but Ovi is still a Victim? It was OVI's decision to leave Arjun, it was OVI's decision to have a baby and raise it herself and by deciding to hide the baby's truth, it certainly was OVI's decision that Pia does not need anyone but herself. And it is definitely her fault if she doesn't attempt to clear any misunderstanding if she was one of the parties. Ovi is BLOODY SELFISH in keeping quiet and let the storm rage.
No matter what, Ovi will be justified and no matter what Purvi will be vilified? Sorry, NOT logical.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: persistence-win

Purvi didn't have any problems in Arjun giving a chance to his marriage with Ovi via s##, hell she was the one who gave a go head to him, if she didn't mind it then way she made this halla when it happened again, the answer is simple she is a BLOODY CONTROL FREAK, she have this New York state sized ego, who couldn't digest the fact that Arjun approached Ovi without her permission, she wailed in front of Deshmukhs who disowned Ovi and are applauded, the same Deshmukhs who just before leap were bashed to the core for interferring in affairs of this mahaan joda and Selfish Manav was ordered to lay off. Phew what a U turn! Ovi should have made attempts to reunite Arvi- WHY! is she their amma? who had taken theka of their martial nonsense, she divorced Arjun and when she came to know that she was pregnant, wanted to raise her baby alone, Arvi for one can seperate, unite or do whatever they want, ITS NOT HER BUSINESS. Ovi went through her pregnancy and been raising her child Alone she is not like this Purvi who need Onir, Arjun or any Deshmukh for that matter- in every step of the way, she is independent and confident woman not someone who do AAI AAI at every damn instance .

Ovi was betrayed by Arjun and Purvi they had their horny PMS, (okay that happens not illegal BUT avoidable) but it was her baby who was swapped, she was lied to regarding death of her baby, it was she who didn't got to even mourn her baby, it was Arvi who used to have secret meetings behind her back. But all this was Hailed as it was for her bhalaai and she was mercilessly bashed for not being Understanding. Equating Ovi's situation to Purvi hmm I better not say anything because it might hurt some PURE HEARTS of the forum. I just want cvs to show that Ovi and her daughter are okay, happy, well settled and enjoying life to the maximum. These Arvi and Deshmukhs or whatever can draw as much water from that chawl tap and hope they drown in it. 😡😡


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: vasu_2013

The topic has as always has steered towards mud slinging on Purvi and oh-how-good-Ovi-is-and-how-bad-is-Purvi comments even brought my indifferent self in to the discussion.
Ovi - This is the girl who left her premature baby in Canada and came all the way to India to make sure that Onir's name is cleared and dragged Purvi to the court so that she can speak for Onir, does it make sense that she does not feel an iota of righteousness in correcting the misunderstanding that involved her and her baby ? And clear the air with her own sister for whom she had begged (emotionally blackmailed ) Arjun to marry a month or two back?
And ..
- Does anyone believe that Ovi could keep the baby's truth a secret by bringing her up in her own house ? Seriously? Of course, she did it in on purpose and did not care about the consequences if the truth comes out.
- Why is Arjun alone blasted for not asking about Pia? It was Ovi's decision in the first place that Pia does not only need a father but also aunts, uncles and grand parents on either side. So Ovi does not have BIG sized Ego?
Ovi not only did a big injustice to Pia but she also means that she does NOT need any of her family in her life. So why all the hue and cry about the family not reaching out to Ovi?
Purvi was called all sorts of names when she went left her family to give birth to Pari, Purvi was asked why she couldn't abort the child when she knew she wouldn't live with Arjun, Purvi was accused of bad intentions when she came back to Mumbai (albeit the reason that was shown) because she should know that given a very remote chance, the baby's truth would be discovered, Purvi was a bad mother when she left the baby in care of her neighbour for few hours, Purvi, Purvi, Purvi ...
What OVi has done are far worse things but Ovi is still a Victim? It was OVI's decision to leave Arjun, it was OVI's decision to have a baby and raise it herself and by deciding to hide the baby's truth, it certainly was OVI's decision that Pia does not need anyone but herself. And it is definitely her fault if she doesn't attempt to clear any misunderstanding if she was one of the parties. Ovi is BLOODY SELFISH in keeping quiet and let the storm rage.
No matter what, Ovi will be justified and no matter what Purvi will be vilified? Sorry, NOT logical.


@ green ...yes it was ovi's decision but why she took this decision before marriage she knows about arjun love for purvi but it was ok for her but when pari's truth come out then she decided to leave arjun.

i want to just compare one thing purvi left arjun only for one lie of arjun and she saw arjun for once with ovi and decided arovi betrayed her... purvi knew how arjun love her and how arjun agree to marry ovi for her and how she forced to arjun with ovi and how she herself told lie to arjun and how she forced to arjun to tell lie to ovi , and claim its for bhalai but she was one who did not forgive arjun for first lie to her.

but ovi forgive so many lies of arvi. she faced so many lies in every step of arvi, she saw so many times arvi in close moment and secret meeting in back of ovi after marriage and when she asked both lies to her, for which she always felt insecure but for her love towards arjun she wants to move on with arjun , even in baby's matter if arjun could tell her all truth then may be she could able to stand with the existance of pari. but in that time also again lie.


and as for pia she updated to arjun and before leap it was shown she wanted to stay with her family but could not .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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ovi did injustice one and only with pia...not with arvi... does not matter how all want to be justice and understand different view the real fact never be changed that ...
for ovi - pia lost her legal identity bcz she was born in llegel marriage but for world she will be known as fatherless daughter only for her mother ovi who did not fight for her daughter.

pari- arjun and purvi both r responsible , for them pari grow up with hate and may be all D clan responsible

purvi- she played not only with her daughter emotion but also arjun and ovi and arovi baby and emotion of onir also. specially ovi 's life affected by purvi's pocking nature . for her ego she destroy life of arjun and for her pocking nature she destroyed ovi's marital life. and for her jumping to conclusion nature she lost both pari and pia's child hood. and she also played with herself. for her love towards her ex boyfriend her first marriage did not work and her second marriage also broke by herself. i can not understand why this lady only interested in playing with life and emotions.

Arjun- he betrayed ovi for purvi and did unfair to pari and pia. and for arjun's nature purvi's marriage life destroyed twice.

Archana- a mother who her self destroy her bio kid life. in my pov only and only for archana ovi was stubborn and mad. who never love ovi and left her when ovi was one year. still no interest the child who grow up with out mother and never think how she will be learn the right and wrong with out mother love. for her ovi and pia's life destroy.
Savita- starting of problem...for her all of life destroy. but she can got forgive and stay with her family.

manav- what can i say about him ? all r knows about him .. for profit in business he left his daughter and stand with purvi who can give him profit.

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damodar and dk- good for nothing


onir- who is strong and best man and best doctor ,best in every relationship but hv some extra softness towards emotional blackmail queen purvi and for her emotional black mailing did unfair to his medical ethic. i can not understand why twice he fell in crap and did unfair to his ethic for blackmail queen purvi , for first time he rectify his mistake but second time he tried but failed... and i am happy for him bcz he is one who learn from his mistake and smartly go away from purvi otherwise may be he would again unfair to his ethic.

varsha- for her soham life destroyed

soham- destroy not a life of gauri but a poor family

sachin- he did wrong and for his wrong his two sister life affected.

manjusa and dharmedra - wow for her k family destroyed most of arman

punni- in cold war of punni and purvi , ovi's life destroyed both used ovi for fullfill their wish

purvi did wrong and hide it and for sympathy claim its for ovi's bhalayei where for her wrong action and hiding the truth mostly ovi's life affected

and punni for revanged to purvi always use ovi's inseureness and her innocence. i can understand this lady can everything for money and revenge to purvi. she has only two aim in life.



do not understand why all family member spoiled own family life in pr...now its a circle...this is pabitra rista ?
Edited by onirfans - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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No matter what topic is if it has a iota of Arvi - it will lead to Ovi bashing, so no pointing in lamenting why Purvi is used as counter, its a norm here. Any problem which relates to Arvi, its never their fault specially Purvi's, whole world is conspiring against Purvi and her milan with Arjun, Ovi will be bashed, so would Deshmukhs, Onir, Cvs, Ekta everybody but this sacrificing wannabe would be excused for having her Good intentions. Ovi married Arjun then she was bashed, she suffered mis-carriage she was bashed, she left Arjun she was bashed, when she tried to proof Onir is innocent she was bashed, she didn't reveal her pregnancy she was bashed, if she would have revealed it then rest assured she would have been absolute cut to pieces for try keep this mahaan couple away. She was disowned by her family all because of that laadli Purvi and she is accused of not clearing this misunderstanding citing that she had bad intentions to keep Arvi away👏, Its not her problem if this God-forsaken people named Arvi can't have a decent conversation and sort out their differences by themselves. The whole Deshmukh parivar including 90+ aged Savita and Sulo, 70+ aged Arman, Middle aged Teju all have shifted base to reunite this 40+ old Ultra-extra hormonal Arvi AND Ovi is called immature! Phew.
Glad Ovi didn't tell Arjun about her pregnancy earlier, glad she haven't told him her wear-abouts now. The jerk Never deserved her and regarding her family if they can disown her on half baked truths of that hysterical Purvi, then they don't worth a explanation, let them be baraatis of another Arvi wedding, waiting for their next seperation after another Purvi's pregnancy and be ready for their subsequent reunion after another 20 yrs.. The cycle goes on🤢
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: onirfans


@ green ...yes it was ovi's decision but why she took this decision before marriage she knows about arjun love for purvi but it was ok for her but when pari's truth come out then she decided to leave arjun.

i want to just compare one thing purvi left arjun only for one lie of arjun and she saw arjun for once with ovi and decided arovi betrayed her... purvi knew how arjun love her and how arjun agree to marry ovi for her and how she forced to arjun with ovi and how she herself told lie to arjun and how she forced to arjun to tell lie to ovi , and claim its for bhalai but she was one who did not forgive arjun for first lie to her.

but ovi forgive so many lies of arvi. she faced so many lies in every step of arvi, she saw so many times arvi in close moment and secret meeting in back of ovi after marriage and when she asked both lies to her, for which she always felt insecure but for her love towards arjun she wants to move on with arjun , even in baby's matter if arjun could tell her all truth then may be she could able to stand with the existance of pari. but in that time also again lie.


and as for pia she updated to arjun and before leap it was shown she wanted to stay with her family but could not .


What about Arjun hiding from Purvi abt his and Ovi's Canada relationship, and him getting engaged to Ovi in front of a shocked and hurt Purvi?
Did we forget abt that already? This wasnt the first time Arjun hid abt Ovi from Purvi...

Arjun didnt lie to Ovi abt Pari...he just hid the truth which he had just learned.
But in Purvi's case, he lied to her that he was in a meeting while he was with Ovi and Pia...and Purvi had already seen him there.
So of course as his wife she felt horribly betrayed and deceived.
Ovi even told Arjun to lie to Purvi ...

Even if Ovi didnt want to live with her family, she shd have told them abt Pia after ArVi marriage.
Pia was deprived of her grandparents and aunt-uncles' love for so many yrs because of this!
And for last 20 yrs, Ovi never told her family what had happened...with her past history of separating Arjun Purvi, what else can we expect from her?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes, yes yes. ovi only bechari. She is so innocent that why her idol Manav baba & savita tai also kick out forever. Very sad.😭😭😭
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i wonder how many of the people who say ovi was justified in keeping a child from her father would say the same if the reverse was true. that if it was a father who had kept the child from the mother. would it be justified then. a child is product of two people. father's have rights too but pple think that just bc a woman carries the child, she own it. u may carry that child but that is not the fathers fault that he can't and w/o the father the child would not exist. and father spend the rest of their life taking care of said child so the 9 mnths they biologically couldn't means nothing in comparison to the 50+ years they do. and if woman think that they own said child, then when the father doesn't want the child, and woman don't want abortion they shouldn't ask for child support bc hey u think own the child right?? can't have it both ways. that being said

1) Purvi was bashed (right fully so ) bc she did not allow ovi to see her dead child but ovi is justified in not allowing arjun to even know of his child existence? and everybody excuse is that bc arjun would not love pia bc the mother was ovi. that was not ovi excuse. her excuse was that she did not want to interrupt arvi married life.
2) but lets say she thought arjun wouldn't love pia as much as pari. what would she base that on??? bc as I remember when ovi was pregnant the first time, it was arjun who was trying to keep their child safe while she was giving medication to her child in the form of alcohol. oh but i forget arjun drove her to drink despite the fact that she married him knowing he loved another. when pari was born arjun stayed up w/ ovi taking care of her. and then with pia he stayed w/ her in the hospital and told her that pia was his responsibility. arjun turned out to be a terrible father but at that moment she did not know that and did not give him a chance to prove it. and IT IS NOT JUST HER CHILD!!! IT'S HIS TOO!!!
3) and ovi did not do this for pia. she did it for herself. she did it for her happiness. keeping pia a secret meant that not sharing pia with arjun. no parent want to share their child w/ a divorce parent but they do so bc it is the right thing for their child. she doesn't want arjun thats fine but Pia sure as hell deserves to have a father. iT'S NOT ABOUT WHAT IS BEST FOR OVI, IT IS ABOUT WHAT IS BEST FOR PIA!!!!and no this does not prove her a strong independent woman. pple say that if she told arjun about the pregnancy the deshmuk family would have convinced her to go back to him and she would have listened😆😆. oh plz since wen has ovi listened to anyone? she married arjun despite their disapproval, she drank while pregnant despite being told no, she spent a night with arjun letting her family think she was going back to him despite manav wanting her to leave. r we honestly supposed to believe that this girl would have listened to her family request. no she does things no matter what anyone says. she is not strong independent woman. a strong independent woman would not marry a guy who was in love w/ another, would not put her child in danger, would not leave her 3 premature child w/ a nanny, would not hide her child's existence from the father. ovi is someone who only cares about her happiness.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: persistence-win

No matter what topic is if it has a iota of Arvi - it will lead to Ovi bashing, so no pointing in lamenting why Purvi is used as counter, its a norm here. Any problem which relates to Arvi, its never their fault specially Purvi's, whole world is conspiring against Purvi and her milan with Arjun, Ovi will be bashed, so would Deshmukhs, Onir, Cvs, Ekta everybody but this sacrificing wannabe would be excused for having her Good intentions. Ovi married Arjun then she was bashed, she suffered mis-carriage she was bashed, she left Arjun she was bashed, when she tried to proof Onir is innocent she was bashed, she didn't reveal her pregnancy she was bashed, if she would have revealed it then rest assured she would have been absolute cut to pieces for try keep this mahaan couple away. She was disowned by her family all because of that laadli Purvi and she is accused of not clearing this misunderstanding citing that she had bad intentions to keep Arvi away👏, Its not her problem if this God-forsaken people named Arvi can't have a decent conversation and sort out their differences by themselves. The whole Deshmukh parivar including 90+ aged Savita and Sulo, 70+ aged Arman, Middle aged Teju all have shifted base to reunite this 40+ old Ultra-extra hormonal Arvi AND Ovi is called immature! Phew.

Glad Ovi didn't tell Arjun about her pregnancy earlier, glad she haven't told him her wear-abouts now. The jerk Never deserved her and regarding her family if they can disown her on half baked truths of that hysterical Purvi, then they don't worth a explanation, let them be baraatis of another Arvi wedding, waiting for their next seperation after another Purvi's pregnancy and be ready for their subsequent reunion after another 20 yrs.. The cycle goes on🤢


when ovi after getting married arjun basically forced purvi to move to kolkata and basically blackmailed her mother into kicking pregnant purvi out of her house and into sulchana, how nobody bashed ovi then. did purvi not need her family then? especially when she was pregnant. oh but i forget it is only ovi emotional needs that matter.
she probably didnt tell him bc she wanted to give alcohol as medication to her child and if she told arjun he would disaprove😆😆

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