Arjun is not innocent!Final warning pg15 - Page 6

Originally posted by: john909

this post just shows how much people hate arjun. before the flashbacks were shown people were blaming arjun that he did not go after purvi and all to end this misunderstanding and now that is cleared they are dragging pari in just to prove arjun is wrong again and it is his fault. there is a thing called self respect aside from his duty as a father and a husband. after everything purvi did and pari said, any husband and father would be broken to know how much both of them hate him. he would either seek revenge by going to court and stuff or simply stay away and arjun chose the latter. so why is everyone here expecting arjun to become mahaan by crushing his self respect and going after both again and again when pari and purvi were clearly in no mood to listen to anything? arjun should do this and that, what about pari and purvi? even after knowing everything did pari show an ounce of concern for arjun?? she is mature enough to understand everything yet she is like this. that cannot be blamed on arjun by saying she grew up with hating arjun. now who sow the seeds of hatred in her mind?

So Purvi didn't poison Pari's mind, then who did! some Bhoot?, who came in Pari's dreams and told her what zulms her Mahaan aai had to face, in Actual episode a child Pari hated Arjun and she as a mother only Tried to make her respect her father. WHAT UTTER BULL😡. She feeded her with half-cooked stories how Arjun married Ovi- Ignoring that she made him do that, Did she tell her that she himself gave Green-signal to Arjun to consummate his marriage? Did she tell Pari that she ran from home with an inflated tummy and married Onir as a insurance cover?Did she tell Pari that she swapped Pari and let go of her in her bhalaai facade, Did she tell Pari that she used to have her lousy Pavitra-rishta with a married man who happened to be husband of her sister? All these facts were non-issues and only relevant facts were-Arjun married Ovi and have a child with her! That's It. My words fail for this low-life, after destroying Ovi, Piya, Arjun, Pari she is the one who is throwing attitude and all Deshmukh cartoons have shifted to base to re-unite these Despo amar premis🤢

Originally posted by: pallavi25

As far as they have shown in the ACTUAL episodes, Purvi was always telling Pari to call her father.

So why are we assuming that Purvi didnt let Arjun talk to 5 yr old Pari or 7 yr old Pari?

Where did Arjun say that he tried to talk to Pari but Purvi didnt let him?

He just kept on trying to talk to Purvi all the time and since she handed the phone to Manav, he just gave up?

Is that what a real father does? Give up on his little daughter just because hes separated from his wife due to some misunderstanding?

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

As per ACTUAL episode they only shows that arjun had called pari/purvi... they have never mentioned that this is his first call in 10 years ...if we can assume that arjun called pari first time at age 10 than why we can't assume that due to purvi..arjun was unable to connect with pari?????

why every time she represent herself as bichari if front of her daughter who is left by husband for masi??which daughter wants to talk wid father who left her mother for another woman and another daughter????

regarding purvi told pari to talk with father...this is also not half hearted attempt????if arjun's attempt was half hearted for clarification than m seeing purvi's attempt too half hearted here.

is this what a real mother does?? she was doing pari's upbringing but was representing her father in very negative way due to her false hateness... Acc. to me pari is innocent as a child...arjun is 30% at fault that not fight for custody or meeting rights and purvi is 70% at fault for

creating negative impression of father ,for not trusting arjun, simply left him nd never try to listen to him nd at last due to ego and hateness for arjun...she painted her daughter's childhood with bitter nd hateness feeling...that kid is hating father but feeling very bad for not having father too.

Since we are assuming things abt Purvi that are never shown in actual episodes but just guessing from what happened in last 20 yrs...then let me assume why Ovi didnt call her own family, why she didnt call Teju or Savita at least and explain what happened 20 yrs ago?

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Since we are assuming things abt Purvi that are never shown in actual episodes but just guessing from what happened in last 20 yrs...then let me assume why Ovi didnt call her own family, why she didnt call Teju or Savita at least and explain what happened 20 yrs ago?

Because Ovi didnt want to clear up the matter as she didnt want Arjun Purvi to reunite again.

If her intentions were good, she would have called her own family first and cleared up the matter sometime during the last 20 yrs!

If she called and messaged Arjun many times during last 20 yrs, she could have called or messaged her twin sister or her darling grandma at least once in last 20 yrs to clarify the matter?

But she didnt.. that shows her real intentions!.😉

Since we r playing assuming-assuming game,Iam assuming certain things too..Purvi didn't listen to Arjun's explanations,whom she was in love with..So when,Ovi tried to explain things to Purvi,she just blasted her n didn't listen to her.Arjun being a love-sick puppy,still tried to talk to Purvi,but Ovi being BAD Ovi,didn't make efforts again..When Arjun called Purvi n she gave the phone to Manav Baba,he just blasted Arjun..Similarly,When Ovi called Manav baba,he also disconnected the phone without listening to his once Barbie doll..About Teju,we know how Teju was in Purvi's side during Arjun-Purvi-Ovi fiasco,so its natural that,even if Ovi would have tried to contact Teju,she wouldn't have talked to Ovi..Reformed Savita Aaji is also in Team Purvi,so she also didn't listen to Ovi.. Howz my imagination or explanation?? 😉

Originally posted by: pallavi25

@ blue part: Thats another extrapolation on your part then. I follow the episodes very closely, they only showed Purvi telling Pari not to speak badly abt her father, even as a child. Perhaps you missed that scene or are just ignoring the facts. When Purvi stops 10 yr old Pari from tearing up Arjun's photos and scolds her, telling her not to speak badly abt him!

Purvi also tells grown up Pari not to speak badly abt Arjun many times and tells her to call her father.

Yes, Purvi can be blamed for not clearing up abt how Ovi and Arjun got married the 1st time but she herself is never shown badmouthing abt Arjun to Pari.

So making up scenarios abt what Purvi did is not going to work as they are never shown in the actual episodes concerned.

I think that's the whole point, and the problem. Every dialog and actions are inconsistent. Not only Purvi but things that Arjun says and others. Nothing makes sense because the writers are either confused about what the ARVI jodi to be or they don't care. They've written it both ways and all ways, and most contradictory points of view can be shown in the dialog because the writers are so messed up. They left all the doors open so they could take it any direction but all they have done is brought confusion and frustration and anger.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

As always purvi's words and actions are not matching ... If she really wants that pari should not speak badly with his father than why she portrayed his image of characterless man??? just becoz of her hateness????

Originally posted by: anamika-

Since we r playing assuming-assuming game,Iam assuming certain things too..Purvi didn't listen to Arjun's explanations,whom she was in love with..So when,Ovi tried to explain things to Purvi,she just blasted her n didn't listen to her.Arjun being a love-sick puppy,still tried to talk to Purvi,but Ovi being BAD Ovi,didn't make efforts again..When Arjun called Purvi n she gave the phone to Manav Baba,he just blasted Arjun..Similarly,When Ovi called Manav baba,he also disconnected the phone without listening to his once Barbie doll..About Teju,we know how Teju was in Purvi's side during Arjun-Purvi-Ovi fiasco,so its natural that,even if Ovi would have tried to contact Teju,she wouldn't have talked to Ovi..Reformed Savita Aaji is also in Team Purvi,so she also didn't listen to Ovi.. Howz my imagination or explanation?? 😉