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Posted: 11 years ago
#51
The point is they're all bad
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ashfaque2012

If Purvi is worst human being then what savita, punni, ovi?? R they DEVI MATA?????😡


Oh please don't compare purvi with them..purvi is the ultimate and undisputed winner in making people lives as hell.
Savita and punni create troubles and problems..but purvi destroy life.
This is what i think about purvi..


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: zonan


Oh please don't compare purvi with them..purvi is the ultimate and undisputed winner in making people lives as hell.
Savita and punni create troubles and problems..but purvi destroy life.
This is what i think about purvi..



well said zonan...savita ,punni used to create troubles in others life as punni never liked purvi due to her nose poking nature...purvi was continuously poking her nose in that mittal's matter...she was knowing that punni is not liking her interference in her personal life matters...but its was purvi who was not ready to leave punni alone with her thoughts nd life style as it should be none of purvi's business...after that unknown phone calling to onir,ovi's brainwashed by punni...punni was continously doing brain wash of ovi for arvi...everything was happen due to only nose poking tendency...its punni's revenge towards only purvi...for which she was using ovi by brainwashed process...punni is negative, used to do cheap tactics for lavish life but she had never given any free of cost advise to purvi regarding her lifestyle ...due to purvi's unwanted actions she had brainwashed ovi...

savita and punni are negative creature for many period of times...this negative characters used to create problem... but purvi -a smart employee, saskari daughter, soft hearted girl...used to destroy everyone's life due to her own seek thinking standard...

purvi's main problem is she never allowed others to live their life with their thinking ways...nd dats why had created enemies for herself...

during deal also she never take archana's advise that wat is better way for ovi's deal...she just made decision by herself...how can she forgot that archana is also center point of this deal...

during baby swaping also she never asked ovi that ovi lost her baby but if she wants to enjoy motherhood than she is ready to donate her baby...she never asked ovi...how can she forgot that ovi was also center point for babi's matter...

during punni case also she never listen punni's thinking that for lavish lifestyle punni was ready to go at any extent..still she was on detactive mode nd was busy with doing punni pardafash...at last created new enemy for herself...how can she forgot that punni was also center point as its her life...her choice how to live it...

nd this same girl become dumb during her own cases..she closed her mind during onir's time...she had believed that things wat onir had shown her...she close her mind during arjun's time also...she had believed that things wat she herself wanted to believe...brainless woman...yuckkk...😡


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Posted: 11 years ago
#54
Who care?? Purvi is more better then any other person.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ashfaque2012

Who care?? Purvi is more better then any other person.

Well said Ashfaque. Purvi is far better than others and that's why the character is well liked by most. It is not logical that everyone likes her but that's ok.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25


Exactly, Jahnvi! I know a few women who have had premature babies...my cousin had her twins at 7th month...and they all go to the hospital everyday to monitor their progress, to hold their baby's finger...that is the real world mothers!
Premie's moms dont have to live IN the hospital but they do live close by and visit everyday! Not leave the country and stay for 2 months on the other side of the world! 😆



Of course in real life mothers go and monitor their babies and I've seen my mom do that with my brother. However, in Ovi's case I felt that the CVs had just used that as an excuse to justify the baby's whereabouts and the whole facade in general. Perhaps because they didn't have anything properly planned. It wasn't something that they had put thought into obviously because they showed the nurse being there and taking care of the baby and made it seem like it was all fine. If the CVs had wanted to showcase that in another way, they would have made someone in the show question it. Also, how do we know if Ovi hadn't kept in contact with the doctors or the nurse and monitored the progress from India. Obviously, in real life this would be something no mother would think of doing. But then again, which of these PR mothers have done anything according to real life.
My point was that Pia being in a incubator was not something we are meant to be fussing over. Moreover, we should worry about where she is at the moment.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -3raser-



Of course in real life mothers go and monitor their babies and I've seen my mom do that with my brother. However, in Ovi's case I felt that the CVs had just used that as an excuse to justify the baby's whereabouts and the whole facade in general. Perhaps because they didn't have anything properly planned. It wasn't something that they had put thought into obviously because they showed the nurse being there and taking care of the baby and made it seem like it was all fine. If the CVs had wanted to showcase that in another way, they would have made someone in the show question it. Also, how do we know if Ovi hadn't kept in contact with the doctors or the nurse and monitored the progress from India. Obviously, in real life this would be something no mother would think of doing. But then again, which of these PR mothers have done anything according to real life.
My point was that Pia being in a incubator was not something we are meant to be fussing over. Moreover, we should worry about where she is at the moment.


If we can blame the CVs for Ovi's shortcomings as a mother, let us extend the same favor to Purvi and blame the CVs for any shortcomings she has.

Also, whether Ovi called the doctor to check on her baby's progress or not, does not absolve her of blame and of being an unnatural mother (courtesy of the CVs or not). No mother in the right frame of mind would leave her not healthy baby and abscond from the scene for months on end. Just not done, just not motherly, totally unnatural. If my baby was sick, I would call, come home, check on the baby several times even if it was nothing but the flu so cannot imagine a mother leaving her infant in a cold hospital environment with strangers (caring or otherwise) and taking off across the globe, not even within visiting distance if an emergency arose, height of irresponsibility is how I see it.
However much inclined one may be to cut some slack for Ovi, the CVs erred majorly in this. Even if they had shown the baby being in an incubator in India and not in Canada, and Ovi visiting the baby once in a while on the sly without alerting her family would have made the story line more believable. All the CVs ended up doing was making Ovi look totally irresponsible and uncaring as a mother.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@soapwatcher1

This is the issue I have. When it comes to Ovi... Its justifed by whatever means possible. Ovis history, psych, current mental state, her upbringing, her financial status, her class and finally the CVs are used to justify her mistakes.

But when it comes to Purvi, she is crucified daily for every little action. She is mocked for her being an orphan. Called a wh**e daily. She is given no benefit of doubt or cut any slack. I've also noticed when Ovi is criticized then BOD are requested etc. But when thats requested for Purvi... Well then a whole history of wrongs is given.

Completely unjust.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Exactly sonya ! When Ovi does a mistake it is CV's mistake and they have lost it but when Purvi does, it is her and only her mistake !
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: soniiyaa

@soapwatcher1

This is the issue I have. When it comes to Ovi... Its justifed by whatever means possible. Ovis history, psych, current mental state, her upbringing, her financial status, her class and finally the CVs are used to justify her mistakes.

But when it comes to Purvi, she is crucified daily for every little action. She is mocked for her being an orphan. Called a wh**e daily. She is given no benefit of doubt or cut any slack. I've also noticed when Ovi is criticized then BOD are requested etc. But when thats requested for Purvi... Well then a whole history of wrongs is given.

Completely unjust.


Soniyaa, but Ovi is privileged, she has been deprived of a mother's love, she has grown up being entitled to and given everything that she wanted by dad Manav, she cannot be blamed for what is but part of her persona.

Purvi is entitled to nothing, she is an orphan child, she has to be grateful every breathing moment that a mother like her Aai took her into the Deshmuck fold. She needs to be ready and willing to slaughter her very being at every turn for Ovi, for Ovi's baby and the rest of the Deshmuck family. That is called repayment of karz.

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