The Mothers:Mod note pg7 - Page 4

Originally posted by: charizard

this is like taking your husband for granted. offering sex to your husband just because you yourself want it desperately doesnt mean doing a patni ka dharam. patni ka dharam means many more duties towards husband. onir did all his duties towards purvi and even though arjun is a looser still he also completed his duties as a husband towards purvi. it was purvi who slaughtered both of their lives.

as manav was extremely rich he could hadafford any doctor in the world for ovi. were the poor people of kolkata in such a state ? for them onir was their sahara and purvi snatched their sahara from them. where was the bhalaayi of those people gone ?

Originally posted by: charizard

ovi left her daughter in a top class hospital and in an incubator. babies who are very premature dont even need their mother's milk. they have to be taken care with utmost safety and the hospital nurses are well trained in it.

even purvi left pari with god knows whom and went to bhopal to shake her waist with arjun when she and onir were staying in the red light area. that time did purvi think about pari's safety and future ? people living around a red light area have to be extra cautious especially about girl children. if anyone would had kidnapped pari and sold her off and then if she would had been forced into the business of prostitution then what would had arjun purvi done ? more than her daughter's safety the thing which was important for purvi was to go and shake her body and waist with arjun in bhopal in asad's function. if she was so keen on dancing then why didnt she start dancing in a dance bar? she could had atleast earned some money from that.

Originally posted by: pallavi25

We are not in denial of Purvi being a bad mother, we just wanted Ovi to be included in the list for all that she did! But Ovi fans are defending her inspite of her drinking and leaving her baby behind in Canada.

Being a mother myself I can say for sure that drinking during pregnancy can be toxic and fatal to unborn baby! No pregnant woman in her right senses would drink in her pregnancy, unless she wants to harm her baby! Ovi wanted to harm her baby, she told Archu she didnt want the kid!

Purvi left her healthy one year old daughter for a FEW DAYS with her much experienced mother...many moms leave their kids with grandmas, that is a normal practice!

Ovi left her premature helpless baby for MONTHS, with people who are not related to her! Theres a BIG difference!

Originally posted by: Perfangel5655

If you read the posts most Ovi fans write you will know that no one says Ovi is "good". We say she is a human being who can be both good and bad.

Also isn't this just a little hypocritical? Ovi is bashed all the time!!!!!!! Even in this topic! People who never liked Ovi feels the same way toward Ovi that Purvi bashers feel toward Purvi. People in this forum have said the most disgusting and mean things about Ovi as well. It's not as if only Purvi bashers bash Purvi and Ovi bashers sit pretty and say nothing bad about Ovi. I remember when Ovi was crying about her loss of the baby and people here said they do not feel sorry for at all because she had it coming. She deserved all of this for what she had done in the past. She deserved to lose her child? She deserved the heartbreak of losing a child? Ovi gets blamed for almost everything by Purvi fans just like Ovi fans find a way to criticize Purvi for everything

As for the whole mother issue, both mothers did questionable things. Granted Ovi was not physically needed by Pia while she was in the hospital but still she should've stayed behind. Your child is fighting to survive what could possibly be more important? As for Purvi it's great that she loved Arjun and Ovi's relationship so much but she shouldn't have pushed her daughter on a woman who did not want her. She knew how devastated and Ovi was but she still wanted Ovi to raise Pari. For whose bhalai? Ovi's? Pari's? She knew Ovi didn't want Pari!

Originally posted by: sherma

ovi grew as her mother-fr not wanting to baby till waiting fr the baby.

she cld have easily aborted pia.

pia needed doctor,and pari needed her mother.whn purvi had stayed wid manav inhospital arjun cldnt manage pari alone.amd parents do leave their children for some important work nt to romanc their husband,

arjun wldnt b much happeir seeing pari purvi together.

and abt ovi leaving pia-it was a blopper by cv,we have seeing ovi being so possesive fr pari,that she was so hyper finding pari nt on d bed.

d cvs just wanted to do the leap showing arovi baby and arvi seperated