Originally posted by: onirfans
hi jsoif nice talk and i agree with ur POV also but u did not answer my question what u told is totally different from my post , i am asking about real people in this situation not reel because i see the particular this situation in real life also so i asked about it forget other situation of pr after this deal wala marriage ...
and if u told about purvi ,she has other option also but she did not choose and choose a deal with ovi because she is adopted and did stupidity under the pressure of favour of archana ...so i just want to know what u will be do in this situation, i asked same question 10 girls they told me she will be choose her lover and when i asked why lover not family they told me family is family one day definitely they accept us , parents always forgive child mistake when they see their grandchild so on this hope they will choose love...
so jyousif i can understand ur feeling for arvi and its seems u feel the pain of purvi , so forget about pr story where they show in the end purvi got a angel man who helped her to get her love, here i am putting the situation like purvi, arjun and ovi were there before one year where no one known about future ( this is just a example) and told me what u will be want to do in this particular situation to solve the problem, whats path u will be choosed but here is one things u have to think two situation 1- ur not adopted and 2- ur adopted child...
😭 really i am waiting for ur and other people answer so that i can complete my assignment...
Onirfans,
I think it is risky to base your psychology assignment on a tele serial and its stupid, wholly unbelievable story line! That said, about the points you raise and the questions you pose,my take? Here goes:
1. In Purvi's position, on the eve of her wedding, I'd have chosen to expose her in front of the family and her groom and let Ovi face the wrath of the clans.
2. I would chose the above course of action-adopted or bio-kid.
3. I would NEVER recklessly, chose my lover, in the hope that my family would forgive me when/if I produced a baby.
4. Equally, I find the whole "deal" put forward by Ovi completely abhorrent-I would NOT like to willingly marry a man who loved another woman and invite a lifetime of grief upon myself.
5. Purvi, Arjun and Ovi-all THREE behaved in the most ABNORMAL way -Purvi ran away to Kolkota and married a renowned Gynec and then returned to blight the already shaky Ovi-Arjun marriage, Arjun neglected his pregnant wife, was physically abusive-slapping his wife around-while lusting after his wife's sister and Ovi drank while pregnant, tried to end her life,
hysterically demanding love and attention.
This is NOT how normal people behave-and it did NOT help that the parents AND grand parents were totally useless in helping/guiding the hormonally charged up youngsters who did NOT ask nor bother to inform their elders of the shenanigans they were upto. All three decided to carry out their decisions made in haste.
I THINK it is impossible for the average viewer of this crap to put themselves in the shoes of these character BECAUSE they are SO divorced from normal reality. I cannot even BEGIN to
imagine HOW I would behave/react IF I allowed my life to go so hay wire and wrong.
If I was Ovi-caught in an unhappy marriage of my making-I WOULD get out of it ASAP.
If I was Purvi and took the deal, I would try GENUINELY to forget Arjun and get on in my life.
If I was Purvi and refused the deal...well there would be no serial, I guess!!
If I was Arjun...well...I'd hate myself for listening to a domineering fiancee and Purvi for putting me in such a position
I hope I managed to answer some of your question-if not, let me know and I will give it another, perhaps a better shot ! OK?
Edited by RangiliDhanno - 12 years ago