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Posted: 12 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: KiShaholic.

Its just a show. 😆 Why put yourself in a situation like any character as a matter of fact?

I ship ArVi, and i dont like the fact few people bash them for their deeds. But i watch a show like a show, i certainly dont make it my life 😆



true i agree with u but sorry also u did not get my point here , i am not bashing any one her , just asking a question...if u feel then i am sorry ...


u said the viewer watch the show like a just show then told me how people was going to hunger strike for reunion of arvi, if they not feel show in their life...

now the situation every viewer feel tv and the serial is part of their life...so they feel cry and happy when they see the story just like the characters are not reel but real...

so i asked the question what u learn from serial i am not talking here only fav couple but also every one ...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: AdorableAshVik

I couldn't fallow whatever you said! 😆

But still I could manage to understand reading the replies. My life is no less messy that I would think of being in the place of Arvi .

Why only Arvi?If I was in Ovi's place I wouldn't have ever taken the decision which she took even if i would have to cost my love for that!




hi happy only you give me reply in right way , u told u did not get point but ur reply is good if ur in ovi's place u never do what she did. not only u but also every girls ( even if the girls is selfcentred or mature or anything else ) who will be in ovi's situation never be agree with what ovi did . If the girl like mentally challanged like ovi had during broke up engagement may be the girl will be commient sucide or something or may be hate the person so much but never be agree put a deal like ovi or if she did in abnormal stage then her family never be agree...









and u asking why only arvi --------the answer is at that time she put deal she was in completely depression and mentally challenged so she was put deal influence of punni , so i avoid it and gave situation of arvi


plz do not take negatively here without thinking every one use bad language and bashing me, so ignore them i reply only ur post...
again i told u here i am not biased towards any single person... this is my research about psychology , so just gave the situation of arvi to know about different people thought way...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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do u think we r fools to allow someone like ovi to create havoc in our lives? or pick random person like onir from footpath for marriage? comeon we r real and never bring ourselves to such situation. we have studies, job, responsibilities and many more things to do. we cant afford everyday tamasha at home.so we would never make such mess which is hard to solve. we r real not reel.


and i dont know which big crime arvi.commited. remarriage is not paap in my sense. arjun's deal wali wife left him and purvi's tyagi pati wanted to do one more tyaag. he himself proved that he is married with shalini. so how is it fault of arjun and purvi? i
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Posted: 12 years ago
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thanks sarad and saniya...i like ur post u did get my points but here some people make it battle field, they seems just biased and keep enjoying bashing others who do not agree with him...
its a request plz do not do this...


here i clarify about my post i am a research scholar and my research about psychology ...i saw here so many people was going to hunger strike for arvi reunion and i also saw at the time of kyunki people also fight for tulsi when tulsi fight for nandinni against ansh, i extreamly surprised how people take the frictional character in their life and in my child hood i heard so many student keep jumping from roof to meet saktiman, and here also in my around i see so many people wants a husband ,brother,son and son in law like onir, from girls to old women mad for onir .

i was not watching pr before because i am the fan of sab tv when i get time first i want to watch sab tv program...but when i include in research and learn about this mess up of fans i watched the serial and surprised before pr i think never people divide in two groups and all are fallowed lead but here due to story track people divided in to two group , do not thnik few people are here for onir because every one not coming IF and never use internet ...so my interest is going on and watch previous episode in online and i saw in pr the character of onir is more sensible and mature who is unique in pr land and also want a unique id so his name i used for my id.....thats not mean i am totally blind and anti arvian...
do not take me according my id...



so here just i give a situation to people what will be done if he/she in that situation, i just want ur opinion so do not make fun and give me a simple answer which will be helpful my research ...i want to know about u not arvi ( i gave the name arvi because here so many people attached arvi and blindly feel their pain)




the situation is just like purvi, suppose u have the situation like purvi and ur mother fight to get her family and ur family have misunderstanding and at that time u learn ur sister also love that person who love u and not ur sister but ur sister wants marry to him at any cost because she suffered mental depression like ovi and do not understand u and put a deal because before u tthat person promised her to marry and now refused her because after meeting u he likes u, ...

its my humble reuqest plz read carefully and answer me i wil be gratefully to u if withount any bashing any one u will put ur answer...because ur answer will be help me on my research...
Edited by onirfans - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..aastha..

do u think we r fools to allow someone like ovi to create havoc in our lives? or pick random person like onir from footpath for marriage? comeon we r real and never bring ourselves to such situation. we have studies, job, responsibilities and many more things to do. we cant afford everyday tamasha at home.so we would never make such mess which is hard to solve. we r real not reel.


and i dont know which big crime arvi.commited. remarriage is not paap in my sense. arjun's deal wali wife left him and purvi's tyagi pati wanted to do one more tyaag. he himself proved that he is married with shalini. so how is it fault of arjun and purvi? i



again again bashing r u enjoying this so u can do it ...read my comment carefully i gave the particular situation then why u go to remarriage of arvi...i am not enemy of arvi or u...

i just want ur opinion because in India its common people face so many critical situation when they fall in love and still now i saw so many family against love and i have also saw so many example like purvi face in her first marriage of arjun... so here i want to know the think of people ...if u will be in that situation what u will be choose family, sister or ur love...


so not necessary to prove here how arvi is right or wrong, what they did they already did, no one can not changed...and one things if u told about u will not marry like footpath man onir like purvi ...then here i told u in this situation purvi is footpath girl because onir is a world famous gync doc and wellbased in kolkata every one know him , if purvi want then she can easily learn about him so here purvi did not wrong marry to onir but onir did wrong marry a stranger or footpath girl...


sorry for this i did not want to tell this but u forced me ...and if u answer this before reading my clearify note then plz from now avoid all this just put ur answar...



do not tell ur real and they reel...i am not talking about arvi but just give a situation which is face so many girls in India ( specially in conservative family) according my research also i saw so many girls face this situation in life just like purvi, ovi and arjun face...plz do not drag onir here because here no where onir...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I understand what you're trying to say and I agree in real life things would be different but the thing is this is a fictional story and the characters are defined by the cvs and the thing is yeah maybe what they did was wrong but in a way they both had their reasons, I mean Purvi, who would've been an orphan if it wasnt for Archu, put her mom above everything and everyone and why wouldn't she, she shouldn't be blamed for that I mean I'm pretty sure her character would've been bashed if she rejected Ovis deal, ArVi haters would call her a selfish girl who doesn't appreciate her mom and as for Arjun yeah maybe his reasons weren't that valid but the love of his life asked him for something, it was something that she always talked to him about, how she could ever help her aai and he would assure her that things will get better and now he had the chance and so he hesitatingly took it, and when it comes to Pari I don't think she's an illegitimate child, like a lot of ArVi bashers say here, because they were engaged, a status that says they're bound to each other, and they decided to consummate their marriage and honestly nowadays a lot of people engage in an intimate relationship before marriage or engagement so I don't get why they're called disgusting for that I mean after all they're portrayed as humans too, and what Arjun did with Ovi was try to accept him as his wife he made a very big effort, he even got her pregnant, but Ovi never tried to appreciate his effort I thought after Purvi left Ovi would become a better wife but she never had the maturity and wisdom then which she has now, and after knowing that 2 people who have a child together and still love each other so much that they couldn't forget each other even though things had moved on in their life, other people were happy, but they were always miserable and lonely and is it fair just for someone's happiness a family that should be together is separated, a daughter doesn't get her father, a girl who sacrificed for everyone can't get someone she truly loves even after everything they've been through, a guy loses the person who helped him discover himself who showed him that there's more to life than work and money, who he truly can never be happy without, they lose all this just because society doesn't allow it or it isn't right, there are many things in this world that aren't right but two people get their true love and their daughter is that really wrong things always don't go our way in life and ArVi are perfect examples of that, maybe in real life this would've never happened but If it was truly like their situation then I wouldn't condemn it because every good person should be given another chance, thanks for a nice question though really made me think.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jaisoif

I understand what you're trying to say and I agree in real life things would be different but the thing is this is a fictional story and the characters are defined by the cvs and the thing is yeah maybe what they did was wrong but in a way they both had their reasons, I mean Purvi, who would've been an orphan if it wasnt for Archu, put her mom above everything and everyone and why wouldn't she, she shouldn't be blamed for that I mean I'm pretty sure her character would've been bashed if she rejected Ovis deal, ArVi haters would call her a selfish girl who doesn't appreciate her mom and as for Arjun yeah maybe his reasons weren't that valid but the love of his life asked him for something, it was something that she always talked to him about, how she could ever help her aai and he would assure her that things will get better and now he had the chance and so he hesitatingly took it, and when it comes to Pari I don't think she's an illegitimate child, like a lot of ArVi bashers say here, because they were engaged, a status that says they're bound to each other, and they decided to consummate their marriage and honestly nowadays a lot of people engage in an intimate relationship before marriage or engagement so I don't get why they're called disgusting for that I mean after all they're portrayed as humans too, and what Arjun did with Ovi was try to accept him as his wife he made a very big effort, he even got her pregnant, but Ovi never tried to appreciate his effort I thought after Purvi left Ovi would become a better wife but she never had the maturity and wisdom then which she has now, and after knowing that 2 people who have a child together and still love each other so much that they couldn't forget each other even though things had moved on in their life, other people were happy, but they were always miserable and lonely and is it fair just for someone's happiness a family that should be together is separated, a daughter doesn't get her father, a girl who sacrificed for everyone can't get someone she truly loves even after everything they've been through, a guy loses the person who helped him discover himself who showed him that there's more to life than work and money, who he truly can never be happy without, they lose all this just because society doesn't allow it or it isn't right, there are many things in this world that aren't right but two people get their true love and their daughter is that really wrong things always don't go our way in life and ArVi are perfect examples of that, maybe in real life this would've never happened but If it was truly like their situation then I wouldn't condemn it because every good person should be given another chance, thanks for a nice question though really made me think.










hi jsoif nice talk and i agree with ur POV also but u did not answer my question what u told is totally different from my post , i am asking about real people in this situation not reel because i see the particular this situation in real life also so i asked about it forget other situation of pr after this deal wala marriage ...

and if u told about purvi ,she has other option also but she did not choose and choose a deal with ovi because she is adopted and did stupidity under the pressure of favour of archana ...so i just want to know what u will be do in this situation, i asked same question 10 girls they told me she will be choose her lover and when i asked why lover not family they told me family is family one day definitely they accept us , parents always forgive child mistake when they see their grandchild so on this hope they will choose love...

so jyousif i can understand ur feeling for arvi and its seems u feel the pain of purvi , so forget about pr story where they show in the end purvi got a angel man who helped her to get her love, here i am putting the situation like purvi, arjun and ovi were there before one year where no one known about future ( this is just a example) and told me what u will be want to do in this particular situation to solve the problem, whats path u will be choosed but here is one things u have to think two situation 1- ur not adopted and 2- ur adopted child...

😭 really i am waiting for ur and other people answer so that i can complete my assignment...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: onirfans



hi jsoif nice talk and i agree with ur POV also but u did not answer my question what u told is totally different from my post , i am asking about real people in this situation not reel because i see the particular this situation in real life also so i asked about it forget other situation of pr after this deal wala marriage ...

and if u told about purvi ,she has other option also but she did not choose and choose a deal with ovi because she is adopted and did stupidity under the pressure of favour of archana ...so i just want to know what u will be do in this situation, i asked same question 10 girls they told me she will be choose her lover and when i asked why lover not family they told me family is family one day definitely they accept us , parents always forgive child mistake when they see their grandchild so on this hope they will choose love...

so jyousif i can understand ur feeling for arvi and its seems u feel the pain of purvi , so forget about pr story where they show in the end purvi got a angel man who helped her to get her love, here i am putting the situation like purvi, arjun and ovi were there before one year where no one known about future ( this is just a example) and told me what u will be want to do in this particular situation to solve the problem, whats path u will be choosed but here is one things u have to think two situation 1- ur not adopted and 2- ur adopted child...

😭 really i am waiting for ur and other people answer so that i can complete my assignment...


Onirfans,

I think it is risky to base your psychology assignment on a tele serial and its stupid, wholly unbelievable story line! That said, about the points you raise and the questions you pose,my take? Here goes:

1. In Purvi's position, on the eve of her wedding, I'd have chosen to expose her in front of the family and her groom and let Ovi face the wrath of the clans.
2. I would chose the above course of action-adopted or bio-kid.
3. I would NEVER recklessly, chose my lover, in the hope that my family would forgive me when/if I produced a baby.
4. Equally, I find the whole "deal" put forward by Ovi completely abhorrent-I would NOT like to willingly marry a man who loved another woman and invite a lifetime of grief upon myself.
5. Purvi, Arjun and Ovi-all THREE behaved in the most ABNORMAL way -Purvi ran away to Kolkota and married a renowned Gynec and then returned to blight the already shaky Ovi-Arjun marriage, Arjun neglected his pregnant wife, was physically abusive-slapping his wife around-while lusting after his wife's sister and Ovi drank while pregnant, tried to end her life,
hysterically demanding love and attention.
This is NOT how normal people behave-and it did NOT help that the parents AND grand parents were totally useless in helping/guiding the hormonally charged up youngsters who did NOT ask nor bother to inform their elders of the shenanigans they were upto. All three decided to carry out their decisions made in haste.

I THINK it is impossible for the average viewer of this crap to put themselves in the shoes of these character BECAUSE they are SO divorced from normal reality. I cannot even BEGIN to
imagine HOW I would behave/react IF I allowed my life to go so hay wire and wrong.

If I was Ovi-caught in an unhappy marriage of my making-I WOULD get out of it ASAP.
If I was Purvi and took the deal, I would try GENUINELY to forget Arjun and get on in my life.
If I was Purvi and refused the deal...well there would be no serial, I guess!!
If I was Arjun...well...I'd hate myself for listening to a domineering fiancee and Purvi for putting me in such a position

I hope I managed to answer some of your question-if not, let me know and I will give it another, perhaps a better shot ! OK?
Edited by RangiliDhanno - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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thank dhanno u did answer and no one here did not asked me what will be my opinion in this situation...if i have to choose one between my family and my love ( may be he is a good guy and true lover ) but definitely i will choose my family , it will be hard for me but i want to choose my family because i know my family from my childhood but lover coming after so many years and who know that person always love me may be in practical situation the love may be decrease
and if i learn my sister also love him and in depression then may be unable to marry him and want to be go away from him but never push him to marry some one and never allow my sister to marry some one who never love her...


if i adopted and i want my mothers happiness then i will be fight against them and try to told every one the real truth and fight for my mom in rightway , its hard and difficult but result for lifelong but in shortcut method happiness comes for small time period and when truth is come out then it make more unhappy to people
Edited by onirfans - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Aastha! You said it all 😉

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