Living in denial! - Page 7

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

I don't know where that idiom originated . Its not in our culture at least . That saali is aadhi gharwaali thing . I find it flirtatious and immoral idiom . Absolutely disgusting . All serials seem to use it .

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

cs07 she IS guilty . It was HER baby given with HER consent . The tape implicates her . It has been pushed under the rug as they r showing that whatever she does is .er ...divine . It has a divine touch ...even master minding the baby swap .

Originally posted by: Kalapi

I am going off in a tangent here than the topic on hand...but, i will 😃

But, can anyone enlighten me, what is a debate, if it isn't taking or debating about what is shown in the story, spoken through the characters that state the character's POV. So, how it is audience to interpret, what the characters state based on the storyline so far. Now, if we start pointing at fingers picking up only few members when everyone does the same ' that amounts to member bashing, specifically selecting only few members to bash ' for they have a different POV? Then, why do we need a forum like this, if everyone thinks same? Hell, will we have even democracy ' maybe Taliban rule is all we want ' for we can appreciate and enjoy other's freedom? Even the topic maker is putting forward her POV based on the storyline and her interpretation. I mean, isn't that we are taught to? Besides, all characters are written by one CV, it is their creation ' like all noted authors who create multidimensional characters in one story ' I dunno about others, but I did the same with Shakespeare too ' I criticized all his characters as I interpreted and as the storyline dictated'.so, why bashing members for putting in their POV and how they see characters. Is that a right thing to do??? Let us enjoy the fun to debating, other than trying to take any moral high ground ' or indirectly pointing at others as they have a different POV'.

Besides, how do you know that we do not see Ovi's problems - isn't taht an extremely sweeping statement...besides, aren't you also guilty of the same - trying to see bhalaayoi angle at all that Purvi does, even the baby swapping...

Let take that bhalaayi angle and the intent of law...she swapped the baby or masterminded it - in India, that does happen in reality - in Nursing home. It is a reality there and that act isn't looked kindle by the Court as it isn't upfront and falls under Child tragfficking - just take a sneek peek at CP and Shaitan - I am not fabricating a thing here...

Originally posted by: Kalapi

Yes, so disgusting, especially cause, I feel that my Jeejus are like my bros and babas...can you imagine if this was otherwise - that Jeeju thinking free Sex with Saali with marriage, and Saali also thinking that way - so disgusting...

Originally posted by: pallavi25

The jeeju saali refrain is so childish! 😆 Anyone who is familiar with Indian culture would know that Jeeju saali marriage is very common and accepted, and even planned by elders of the family with blessings and all. Like Ive said many times, there is an example in my own immediate family of Kuleen Kayastha Bengali Hindus. And in other states, not only jeeju saalis but 1st cousins, uncle-niece, ect. are all legal and valid marriage.

Jeeju saali taunts just sound immature and misinformed and even insulting to certain cultural practices.

Purvi being Ms Nosy Parker and Busybody was just trying to save Punni from the social disgrace of being called a married man's mistress. If she sees her cousin sleeping with an old rich married man, should she not interfere and tell her its wrong?

Oh Gawd, again starting with the jeeju saali sex refrain...🥱 Pray when did they have sex after Arjun got married to Ovi? 😲

Originally posted by: rajvta

Pallavi, You put it very well. When they slept together, they were engaged. Actually Ovi was the Saali here who still wanted her sister's intended. When did Arjun-Purvi have sex or even that kind of talk after Arjun-Ovi marriage. They met, sometimes secretly, but in public places to mainly discuss and solve the issues in the life of said sainted ovi.

Also how can sleeping together by two people who are engaged to be married the next day be equated with the sex indulged by a married man with a much younger girl in exchange of gifts and money. I believe the latter which was between Punni and Mittal atleast till Purvi try to put a stop to it, is called prostitution in every culture.

Again I do believe if I was in her place and my cousin was indulging in such a thing, I wuld try to interfere too, not just walk away.

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

I still don't get you. Maybe I am a little slow. Ovi does not consider Purvi her sister, so there is no but relationship. But Purvi considers her family as her own, so there is a relationship. Sounds kind of convoluted.

Anyway since Saali is aadhi gharwali, I suppose our Indian culture endorses this relationship!