I'm with purvi ...

I've watched PR since it started but have never posted anything here. I've watch a lot of
Ekta's shows but never really commented on anything. Because frankly her shows I watch putting my brain aside :) I mean just for entertainment , but I couldn't stop myself from making this post, reading all people blaming purvi for the PMS and having Arjun's baby.

They've butchered manav's character since the day he blamed purvi for having PMS with arjun.
I hate purvi's and archana's character since beginning trying to be all mahan. So I'm not defending purvi here. And I hate her for how she gave away her child to ovi.

But we're talking manav here so --
- how come ovi wasn't asked to leave the house or break ties with everyone when she blackmailed purvi to get married to arjun ?
- how come he only blames purvi for PMS , what about arjun ? I know he blames him too but what if ovi wanted to forgive arjun and come back to him, he would've have forgiven him too ...double standards ..
- and both manav and archana are saying that purvi is not sanskari because she had sex just the day before her marriage , with the person she was getting married ? I know how they would've felt hearing this as they're from middle class family, but breaking all ties with her and saying her characterless ? (Not sanskari in other words , before people start bashing me ) I think that's too much.

Manav promised purvi he'll always b there for her. What happened ? Just because its related to her real daughter ovi ? What if ovi had done this ? Would he react in same manner ?

As much I hate purvi's character in this show , I'm with her on this one. It definitely wasn't her fault , it was just a mistake and giving birth to Arjun's child was her decision and her right as well. What she did by giving away the baby was totally wrong.

i totally agree with u. its not purvi fault. none of them will ever understand purvi's point . they only care about ovi . arxlchana has no shame the daughter who gave up happine for u so u could be back with ur family and u disown her . ovi too spoil . that is manuv fault , u tell me that u couldn't talk and explain.to her wat she did was wrong no u choose to except the marriage fully knowing that Arjun loves Purvi.

But they all wil REGERT for DISOWNING and TREATING Purvi like that especially archana

Originally posted by: kath1

i totally agree with u. its not purvi fault. none of them will ever understand purvi's point . they only care about ovi . arxlchana has no shame the daughter who gave up happine for u so u could be back with ur family and u disown her . ovi too spoil . that is manuv fault , u tell me that u couldn't talk and explain.to her wat she did was wrong no u choose to except the marriage fully knowing that Arjun loves Purvi.

But they all wil REGERT for DISOWNING and TREATING Purvi like that especially archana

I know archana will come around sooner and forgive purvi before anyone else does but that doesn't matter after what she did to her now.
As for being upset or mad at your child for doing wrong , I understand its parents right to but then why this difference ? That's my question , if they want to be angry at purvi or blame her fine , but why no one ever tells anything to ovi? As purvi has made mistakes , ovi has too. .shes no saint.

let see when purvi people wil know about onir truth . then whom they balm???

there's a lot of double standards in the show especially when it comes to Soham & Purvi.

Originally posted by: sk11

there's a lot of double standards in the show especially when it comes to Soham & Purvi.

Just from today's show, Manav is so angry and humiliating his son in front of the chawl wale etc in favor of Sachin without knowing whole truth. Who humiliates their own son? Family problems should remain in the family not for display all the time. Like father, like daughter I guess since Ovi always does that too.

Manav can't forgive his son..for shooting Archu...but didn't he also accidentally shoot Soham too? It's a fact Soham was negative before but he was a victim of the circumstances. It wasn't his choice to be a gangster, he was made one especially since he never even got an education. Now when he's being given a chance, he's working and improving and has given up the gangster life. Even while he was a gangster, he was always a nice guy at heart.

Parents always the biggest heart and when children make mistakes, they forgive them. After all, its your child. If Manav can forgive Sachin for keeping him away from his wife for 18 years, denying his daughters the right to a mother then he can definitely forgive Soham for his initial reactions of finding about his true identity and accidentally shooting Archu.

Exactly ! I completely agree with the sachin part. He forgave him so easily. So why not soham when he's trying to b a better person. Manav's character has been ruined by cvs altogether. As far as purvi goes ,manav hasn't even fulfilled the promise he gave to purvi that he will always support her and the other day he was promising gauri that he will always b there if she needs any thing. Help your own daughter first before helping others...,

Agree to all the posts above.

In addition, i'm surprised that Archana doesn't once think Purvi will do now that Onir is without job? How are they living? So much has happened ever since Pari's truth came out and Archana isn't aware of anything that they were kicked out of K house, staying in Varsha's house, living separately in a chawl , that they had also ended up in jail for a night, that Onir is hardly able to make ends meet. The reason i say that is bcos she knows that Onir has lost the license (from that newspaper article that Gauri read out and mentioned Onir). So the obvious next thought in Archana should have been about what are they doing for a living?
And its not like she has lost memory or lost the ability to think, since she was very calm and sensible when she had to hold Ovi to her bosom to explain the nonsense that Ovi had done.

Whole family are hypocrite & double standard. So what we expect them.

Great post TM.

Originally posted by: rajvta

Great post TM.

How come the whole D clan is so against Purvi for the PMS. 30 years back ( in PR timeline) Shravani had PMS with Manav's brother Sachin and they were not even properly engaged at that time, only the marriage was kind of fixed. At that time nobody said anything to her , actually everyone bent backwards to accommodate her and convince her to keep the baby. Is it because Shravani was daughter of a rich man whilePurvi is a poor orphan.

Now Purvi's act isbeing called a sin and what not which she did just a day before her marriage.Pari is being called illegitimate thenwhat about Manav's and Savita's pet, Sachin, he is illegitimate too.

Archana and Manav are the biggest hypocrites on earth - they even gotdivorced for Shravani and Sachin, while Purvi and Pari are being discarded like used tissue.

Excellent Point!!
I had forgotten that part! Thanks for bringing it and highlighting the double standards of this family!