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Originally posted by: soapwatcher1
Purvi had no option but to take back Pari when Ovi heartlessly abandoned the baby she had been mother to for two months. After all, Ovi was not the mother and so showed her true colors/feelings.Purvi took back Pari only after she was kidnapped. She was not thinking of her abandonment after the party, remember on PR there were many discussions on how Purvi never took Pari for even the night so Ovi could clear her head about what she wanted to do?Now, how could she have done that to Arjun, when he did not do it intentionally? So how could Purvi be thinking of ArOvi marriage truly?And Purvi did not ask for Pari back, Arjun gave back Pari to Purvi so he could have another shot at his rotten marriage. Let us not forget that so gladdened Ovi's heart that she took a last roll in the satin sheets with him before she skipped town. 😉Read above on what I said about how Purvi was taken. Furthermore, Purvi fired Arjun about the kidnapping and that made Arjun give her back, her taking Purvi back is no different the point is she did. She could have said no Arjun keep Pari with you till Ovi feels better.She took her rightful roll in the satin sheets and it was not her last, as she never spoke of divorce, she said she wanted to find herself, very open statement.However, Purvi knows all about last roll but only in a broken down shack and then moving on.Breast feeding the baby? Ovi should have had more sense, she should have carried a diaper bag and milk for the baby if she was going to be gone that long. How careless a mother could she be! Crying baby, bio mother, it happens, Purvi nursed her child, maternal instinct. Of course, sadly lacking in Miss. Ovi but what can be expected from a girl who wanted to abort her baby, then took to drinking and later despised the helpless baby she had been mother to for 2 months. How unnatural and inhuman especially the last.Ovi never took that long inside, and we very well know, that Purvi could have gone inside to her, to let her breastfeed Pari. There is no excuse for what Purvi did. Purvi's problem is that she is a control freak, anything she can control she does, she had options to feed Pari, but she just had to be the sick one. Ovi breastfed Pari all the time, the baby was not lacking anything.First of all every woman has a right to decide what she wants to do when it comes to abortion, it is her life and the babies life to consider.Secondly, Maternal instinct was never lacking in Ovi her drinking was due to depression which any doctor will tell you overrides any instincts.We know very well how much Miss I gave my baby away two seconds after delivery, knows about Maternal Instinct. Miss I live in red light district, and running in rain with baby, no extra bag, with milk in bottle, or cover for baby. Not to mention her choosing to pay every other bill but buying milk for baby Pari, and waiting till last drop is gone before worrying about buying more. Oh I almost forgot, marrying a man she knows nothing about to hide her shame of the illegitimate baby.Sure, Purvi knows a lot about Maternal Instincts😆Leaving the baby on the edge of the bed, really, Ovi cannot be reprimanded even for that? She probably did not feel that surge of protectiveness that would stop a mother from putting her baby on the edge of a bed and leaving the child alone even for a few minutes in a strange hotel. Purvi did right in picking up the crying baby. After all, she is the one that has been through hell and high water to keep her baby alive NOT taking that easy abortion route that Ovi had contemplated.The baby was not dangerously on the edge and she did not go far, it was clearly exaggerated by Purvi as she always thinks she is the best at everything., not because she just gave her away right after birth.The show does not lie, Purvi had already given the baby to Ovi, thoughtless gift and she was trying to console and reassure herself when she asked Onir if she had done the right thing in giving Pari away and it is then she says the baby will be with its real dad (at least, is implied).Console herself? Or looking for admission that she is always right? I would believe the latter is more Purvi. Also, the only other reason she would ask Onir, is because she knows it was wrong, not because she cared about Ovi's well being. The very fact that she did not allow Ovi to know of her stillborn speaks to the fact that she was neither giving a gift to Ovi nor does she have this maternal instinct she is so praised about. Maternal Instinct also mean you understand another Mother's pain, as your own. I am sure if the tables were turned Purvi would not forgive or leave Ovi for doing that to her. Just as how she can't forgive Onir for having an ex wife...😆You see I watch the show too, and I am yet to see how all of this done by Purvi was for Ovi and not my foot.😆I watch the show too and see what I see. Yes, Purvi was doing all this for Ovi, not your foot. 😆
