Originally posted by: Dramione
I think for the first time, grass aint greener on the other side :P I hope now she realizes how much it hurts when someone you think has your back, decieves and hurts you.
Almost all the major characters in this serial would fall under the category and Purvi is no exception.
Although, in this case... its all her fault. Who asked her to get hitched to Onir, without even finding out the first thing about him? Such a reputed doc he is, she wasnt even surprised, when he proposed to her barefeet, otracized prego self. š
Hope you are not saying all good men who marry girls who had prior relationships have suspicious pasts. But otherwise agree with you. Purvi should not have minded that the guy had a rock solid credentials and that she was in an unknown land before she agreed to get married in haste. She is paying the price of being a fool.
I hope now she realizes to have someone hovering in the back of someone's marriage and how it feels to know, someone else wont let go and be the first priority in their lives by constantly tugging them back with phonecalls, eye locks and illicit meetings. Whats the saying about Karma being a beyotch? Yup!
Illicit meetings - how, where and with whom? On Karma, it is not even a debate who is paying the biggest price but I don't want to digress from the topic on Purvi.
Everytime Ovi looked back, around Purvi was constantly there, ready to poke her nose. Now she is getting the taste of her own medicine. Purvi should remember, good intentions doesnt equal to good actions or even good results.
Purvi was not always hovering around Ovi. In fact, she had skipped town to save Arjun-Ovi's marriage.
Purvi came back to mumbai because Ovi could not have her precious self be looked after by the good doctor in Kolkatta. Purvi was not even left alone to go to Pune and have her delivery in peace. Purvi decided to give away her baby to Ovi because Ovi cried on Purvi's shoulders on how the baby was key to band-aid Arjun-Ovi's marriage.
Purvi always had good intentions, if her actions did not result in good results, it was purely fate that has played its card so cruelly with that accident.
You know what shocked me the most? She, who adviced Arjun time and again to stick to marriage, RAN at the fisrt sign of cracks. She forgot, in one instant, all that Onir has done for her. All the benefits she reaped whilst being married to him... and how her kaands stripped him of his license. How, not once, had he behaved in a step fatherly manner to Pari, despite the father hovering around in his marriage. She simply claimed "you broke my bharosa", I am leaving. Its not even my house. HAIN? And that too, at the cost of her jeene ki wajah. See her akkad? Ovi was to "samjah" 1 billion majburis and pyar Pari.. but madam cant even hear Onir out, after all that he has done for her? She deserves to be decieved.
Finding out that Onir is already married sounds like the 'first sign of cracks in a marriage'? So you expect any women to stay back with her , err, 'man-who-was-my-husband-till-yesterday'? What she had adviced Arjun is to honor his marriage even if when there was no love in it and she walked the talk by creating a similar life for herself.
Purvi did not go chasing Onir and asked him to marry her. She has the right to feel betrayed, she has the right to hurl "you broke my bharosa" at Onir's face. In fact I would have been happier if she had done it with more drama - Ovi style, aka, screaming and throwing few things around.
About Ovi's majburi's, it is a stale topic that we have visited often - she didn't mind them at the time of marriage and so she cannot suddenly complain about them. On Pari, I supported her decision not wanting to act as Pari's mother but at the same time, I was aghast that towards the end, she treated the baby as a piece of trash.
Onir was definitely in my high regards till a few days back. The guy was goodness personified and Purvi was really lucky to have such an understanding husband. Purvi was equally responsible for Onir losing his license, however, whatever Onir had done, he did it with his eyes and ears open.
But no man has the right or can be justified to go after a girl, propose to her by harping on her disadvantage (unwed pregnancy) and act as her husband while hiding about the state of his prior marriage all the time. At the same time, to hear that Purvi (or any women for that matter) deserved to be deceived in such a manner, presuming this comes from one women and supported by others is far more disturbing.
Disclaimer: I was quoting your post in the spirit of debate and with no other intentions.
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