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Originally posted by: sk11

when I said this it was argued that until a legal marriage happens then there are no actual rishtas.

Someone actually said they've never heard of people referring to boyfriends as jeejas before an actual marriage happens.

So as you said same argument may be applied to purvi.

So if Purvi is not actually legally adopted then legally there are no relations between her and anyone correct? So now even though she considers them family, it means nothing because legally there is nothing and thus Arjun is not her jeeja based upon the logic that relations only form when they are legally made.

So whether purvi says they are are family or not shouldn't matter because relations are only formed legally. And if they show she wasn't adopted then there is no relation at all regardless of her saying it or not.

👏 I was going to use these same argument to this said post but I restrained myself and made a separate comment which would have given some insight or lead to this same conclusion. You are too good.

Originally posted by: sk11

Oh, I thought when you signaled me out and were asking me why I twist your words...you seemed bothered and cared!

Whoops!

The reason why I asked, is because you never ask me a question according to the facts, you always look for a loophole that has nothing to do with what I was saying, so I was wondering if you didn't realise it or it was intentional and I was thinking others things, but I won't be disrespectful. However, you have indirectly answered my question.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

It does matter coz she keeps saying it , she INSISTS on it . And as long as she says it , her hypocrisy will be pointed out . The moment she does not say it , nobody will say this . But its too late for that now . U see , if the reality is said , Manav ceases to be her Baba and Soham and Sachu her Dadas . Hell , she could get married to them and become Ovi's bhabhi . Its her personal CHOICE to make them family and she is an adult entitled to her personal choices . In reality she is not even adopted , with a single foster parent , bas . Stop the hypocrisy and no one will say anything to her .[ i'm saying this about Purvi .]

Exactly, I never saw her as Archana's bio kids sibling nor Manav's daugher, but she assume the position where she felt it convenient, and at the same time mock the whole relationships she assumed in her head and that is why we have stated our points on such lines. the lines she gave us free reign to talk on.

Originally posted by: m_masti

the mysterious reason is she doesn't want to accept Arjun as her Jeeju, so she never calls Teju/Ovi as her Tai...

Exactly, that is why I don't like her, she is fake and pretends to be good.

Originally posted by: m_masti

the problem comes with half acceptance...

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Arjun was comitted to Ovi...then he felt his true love for Purvi...then Arjun got engaged to Ovi...at this time Purvi accepted Archu's family as her family by calling Manav as Baba and Sachin as dada and Savitha as aaji and Damo as Ajuba and Vandu as Athya, she considered Teju as friend as Ovi as Ovi mam...at this situation as she accepted relations half, Arjun will be half honewala jeeju for Purvi...then Arjun broke his engagement with Ovi, then Arjun becomes lover and broken-honewala-half-jeeju...Arjun proved his love towards Purvi by accepting Archu's challenge, but Purvi couldn't prove her love by overriding Archu's decion on Ovi's deal...at this time Ovi did not consider Purvi as her sister so Arjun was never jeeju for her...

so the wedding happened, now as Purvi quotes she always wanted Archu's happiness and so much more Ovi's happiness...but she made the wedding happened by hiding the truth, still I consider her decision as now-a-days jamana considers pre-marital sex is okay...butPurvi portrayed her character as a person who cannot have boyfriend but ended up with premarital sex, which didnot suit her character at all...

Purvi got to know she is pregnant with Arjun sprem...I still respect her decision of holding the baby as she couldn't go for other man and that baby will be sahara for her...but she married Onir, she eye-locks with Arjun, she controls Arjun, she switched babies...all this made Purvi as bad female...

its not about jeeju-saali relationship...its about your respect and values...

if purvi married to onir for society reasons then she should keep distance from Arjun, she shouldnot come between Arjun and Ovi...she doesn't have any right to ask Ovi to replace her bio with pyaar ki nishani...

and even now if she thinks what sh edid is right, then she should tell Archu whatever happened while she was in coma...Purvi went everythime to Archu to tell her kaands while Archu was in coma but now why she is stopping Ovi not tell Archu anything...now please don't tell me the reason Purvi loves Archu so much, purvi is doing this because manav doesn't want...if Purvi really cared for Archu then she should have told the truth to her when she got to know she is pregnant of Arjun...

<div>Purvi's character became very bad from the time she made Arjun-Ovi wedding consumated even after knowing she is pregannt and that will create more problems in the future...

I like your post a lot.

But one thing: purvi hasn't come between arovi now. I agree the baby swapping was a horrendous idea. Why she did this, well never know. It can be assumed to make arovi marriage last? Idk.

Just because Arjun & purvi look each other in eye doesn't mean she's coming between arovi. Arjun probably looks many girls in the eye. Are they all coming between? I get arvi eyelock is different because they love each other. But ovi knew this when she made the deal. He took a bullet for purvi. Ovi knew Arjun loved purvi. This wasn't new for her.

Pari was new for her. And it sucked. I felt for ovi then. But pari was conceived prior to arovi marriage. But purvi passing this child on was horrible!

Btw did purvi say anything to ovi yet about not telling arch anything? She just said aai is awake right?

And the doc said not to explode the whole drama on archus head so suddenly not purvi.


Btw I don't think purvi knew she was pregnant yet with Arjun child when she told arjun that. Does anyone remember how much time had passed when she said this? I can't recall. Maybe someone can help here.

Also even if she did know which I don't think she did... She kept her end of the deal and was out of their lives. Ovi still hadn't because purvi kept calling ovi abt archu but ovi kept brushing her off.

Originally posted by: hillydee

Exactly, that is why I don't like her, she is fake and pretends to be good.

How do we know wot she is and wot she pretends? Going strictly by wot is shown in PR i have never seen Purvi do anything that will indicate that she is fake and only pretends to be good!

Originally posted by: sk11

I like your post a lot.

But one thing: purvi hasn't come between arovi now. I agree the baby swapping was a horrendous idea. Why she did this, well never know. It can be assumed to make arovi marriage last? Idk.

Just because Arjun & purvi look each other in eye doesn't mean she's coming between arovi. Arjun probably looks many girls in the eye. Are they all coming between? I get arvi eyelock is different because they love each other. But ovi knew this when she made the deal. He took a bullet for purvi. Ovi knew Arjun loved purvi. This wasn't new for her.

Pari was new for her. And it sucked. I felt for ovi then. But pari was conceived prior to arovi marriage. But purvi passing this child on was horrible!

Btw did purvi say anything to ovi yet about not telling arch anything? She just said aai is awake right?

And the doc said not to explode the whole drama on archus head so suddenly not purvi.


Btw I don't think purvi knew she was pregnant yet with Arjun child when she told arjun that. Does anyone remember how much time had passed when she said this? I can't recall. Maybe someone can help here.

Also even if she did know which I don't think she did... She kept her end of the deal and was out of their lives. Ovi still hadn't because purvi kept calling ovi abt archu but ovi kept brushing her off

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From what I can remember is that purvi did not know that she was pregnant when she had asked arjun to move on with ovi and consummate their marriage. She found out after this. She went away as she had made her decision to keep that baby rather than abort it. She knew it would cause problems for ovi and arjun and the family if she stayed as obviously, they would question her about it as she is not married and pregnant.

In fairness to purvi, she, no where in her wildest dreams knew that destiny would have brought her back into arjun and Ovi and the d and k families lives. It happened. She had moved on, she met Onir by chance and he offered her his hand in marriage and she accepted because she had no intention of returning to arjun. As far as she was concerned is that Ovi would be happy with arjun and that they will work on their marriage but little did she know that was not the case.

Nevertheless, what difference would that have made. The result then would have been the result today - divorce. Are people saying it was ok for the divorce to happen then rather than now? A divorce is a divorce, it matters not when. Or is it that because Ovi felt the need then to give up arjun then, purvi should have accepted arjun all over again. So arjun would be tossed around from one girl to another based on one girl's decision? Its hilarious

Originally posted by: Missscarlett

How do we know wot she is and wot she pretends? Going strictly by wot is shown in PR i have never seen Purvi do anything that will indicate that she is fake and only pretends to be good!

😆🤣 So you mean all those PR episodes don't count🤣 Missscarlett, I am saying this as nicely as possible, please don't quote me any more or respond to my posts.

Originally posted by: hillydee

😆🤣So you mean all those PR episodes don't count🤣Missscarlett, I am saying this as nicely as possible, please don't quote me any more or respond to my posts.

Excuse me? Are u some sorta celeb? U think i got no other work then to specifically pick out ua posts and quote u or reply u or wotever? If i see a statement that i disagree with i will quote it. As u see i am nt talking nonsense here and am honestly curious to know the reasoning behind ua statement that purvi is fake 😃

Originally posted by: hillydee

😆🤣 So you mean all those PR episodes don't count🤣 Missscarlett, I am saying this as nicely as possible, please don't quote me any more or respond to my posts.

Seriously, I would love to know how you differentiate between what she is and what is fake? I am looking at the episodes too but she is one way all the time. I mean look at savita for instance at times she loves archanna and soon as archanna turns her back she hates her and talk ill about her or plan to do something that would hurt her. That is what i call being fake. I dont see purvi doing this.