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Posted: 12 years ago
The last time I checked Archana never gave birth to Purvi neither did Manav have an affair and have her. So she's not Ovi's sister hence in reality they are not Jeeju-saali by blood only by name😛

There was nothing between ARVI after they married, and there still isn't anything but eyelocks

The new Title screen is maybe telling us something. That ARVI will be united again with Pari after Archana finds out and a whole drama goes on😆 👏

And jeeju-saali didn't have an affair after they married so I don't think their jodi is apavitra😳


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Posted: 12 years ago
When Archana herself accepted that Ovi's " fiance" Arjun had fallen in love with Purvi, her "rescued" daughter, then why blame Purvi? I bet if Archu and Sulo rejected Arjun's rishta with her and told her listen u cant marry Arjun because he was engaged to Ovi...then Purvi as the obedient daughter would have let go of Arjun at once! 😆 Elders decided Arjun Purvi rishta, DK approved too...Arjun even went thru all that rigorous testing by Archu, so they had proved their love to the elders and they accepted.
And dil ka rishta is more important than some so called engagement ceremony, sagai doesnt make anything permanent, sagais can break, like Ovi broke ArVi sagai by blackmail. But that didnt break ArVi dil ka rishta so they are still joined by their common bond, Pari.
Edited by pallavi25 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

For some mysterious reason she does NOT call the sisters as her Tais . They r one year elder to her .

the mysterious reason is she doesn't want to accept Arjun as her Jeeju, so she never calls Teju/Ovi as her Tai...
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: ramkideewani23

The last time I checked Archana never gave birth to Purvi neither did Manav have an affair and have her. So she's not Ovi's sister hence in reality they are not Jeeju-saali by blood only by name😛


There was nothing between ARVI after they married, and there still isn't anything but eyelocks

The new Title screen is maybe telling us something. That ARVI will be united again with Pari after Archana finds out and a whole drama goes on😆 👏

And jeeju-saali didn't have an affair after they married so I don't think their jodi is apavitra😳


what is an affair exactly, is it only called affair if they keep on consumating...
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: pallavi25

When Archana herself accepted that Ovi's " fiance" Arjun had fallen in love with Purvi, her "rescued" daughter, then why blame Purvi? I bet if Archu and Sulo rejected Arjun's rishta with her and told her listen u cant marry Arjun because he was engaged to Ovi...then Purvi as the obedient daughter would have let go of Arjun at once! 😆 Elders decided Arjun Purvi rishta, DK approved too...Arjun even went thru all that rigorous testing by Archu, so they had proved their love to the elders and they accepted.

And dil ka rishta is more important than some so called engagement ceremony, sagai doesnt make anything permanent, sagais can break, like Ovi broke ArVi sagai by blackmail. But that didnt break ArVi dil ka rishta so they are still joined by their common bond, Pari.

exactly dear, when archu/sulo/manav accepted Arjun-Purvi true love then who is Purvi to take decision after knowing Archu said no for Ovi's so called deal...
okay she took decision, but who is she to take decision on Ovi's stillborn, Purvi didnot let Ovi to touch/hug her stillborn...and how can Purvi think Ovi should replace her bio kid with pavitra prem ki nishani of Arjun-Purvi...
okay everything happened, but now why Purvi has to call Ovi to inform about Archu...and sure she is going to ask Ovi if she really cares about Archu then she has to live with Arjun and Pari...
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Posted: 12 years ago
Since dil ka rishtas are so important, Purvi also has a dil ka rishta with Archana. As long as Purvi considers Archana her mother and the Deshmukhs her family, Ovi is always going to be her sister in relation even though they are not related by blood. So unless Arjun-Ovi get a divorce, he is going to be her jeeju regardless. As for Pari, both her parents are alive and will always support her, but why do her biological parents need to get married in order to give her a good parvarish. I have many friends who have divorced parents, and/or stepmothers/stepfathers, but they have grown up as fantastic individuals.
Edited by MayurSidma - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000


Dear , u quoted me so i will answer this never ending debate of the chicken or the egg .😊

The facts and sequences in the serial

Ovi and Arjun's marraige was fixed

Purvi opted to marry the very guy who broke off with her sister

Actually Arjun and purvi fell in love and after getting in trouble for their affair and proving they really love another as was shown they then decided to marry and got approval. This decision to marry was mutual...purvi didn't just opt to marry Arjun. Arjun opted to marry purvi on his own wishes and own will.

Ovi became furious



she offered Purvi a package and told her to get out of the picture , Purvi accepted and got out .
Fair enough ?


Now for facts and sequences in reality .

AFTER marraige one gets new relations . These relations r named by law and society as in laws . Devar , Jeth , saas , Sasur , saali , jeeju , saala . ok ?

When the marraige is agreed to , these relations r called as

Honewaali Saali , Honewaali saas , honewaali bahu , honewaala jeeju etc . Right ?

Now when the Ovi Arjun marraige was fixed by elders

who became Arjun's honewaali saali ? Teju .

who became Teju's honewaala jeeju ? Arjun .


Purvi till then is not even there in the picture .

The whole problem starts when the Arjun Purvi marraige is fixed by Archana .

Do Teju and Ovi become Arjun's Honewaali saalis ? No . Because my dear till then they both have NOT accepted their mother's independent project child as their sister .

Have they even accepted the woman who gave them birth and then gave them up as their mother ? No . Coz the woman was still demanding a divorce and they were adults .

So is it safe and right to expect that Archana and Purvi were not even in their family then to accept them as rishtas ? They were estranged people who had entered their lives with negative force .

Still , i will give this much . Archana WAS their biological mother whether they liked it or not .

Was Purvi their sister ?

No .

She was not even adopted . She was raised by Archana out of humanity . To go through adoption procedure one needs spouse's signatures . Were Archana and Manav even in contact then ?

So this girl was not in their family , not adopted , just someone on the side who estranged mother had raised . So how does Ovi become Honewaali Saali ? Puzzled .

Now same argument can be applied to Purvi too . How can one say she snatched her jeeju , how and when did Arjun the stud become her jeeju if this is the case ?

Nobody would have said it dear . The character Purvi herself says it . She constantly calls that family as HER family . Manav as HER Baba . The brothers as HER Dadas . For some mysterious reason she does NOT call the sisters as her Tais . They r one year elder to her .

If Manav is her Baba who should do her kanyadaan isn't Ovi , his daughter , her sister ? And in this case was not the man she was once affianced to her honewaala jeeju ?

I am not saying it . She says this family is HER family . Actually all the connections and blames can vanish in a second if reality is shown ...that she is not even adopted . But yes , an important part of her mom's life .

Ovi never considered her as family but she claims she did ? And it is this very positive action that goes against her today .







when I said this it was argued that until a legal marriage happens then there are no actual rishtas.
Someone actually said they've never heard of people referring to boyfriends as jeejas before an actual marriage happens.

So as you said same argument may be applied to purvi.

So if Purvi is not actually legally adopted then legally there are no relations between her and anyone correct? So now even though she considers them family, it means nothing because legally there is nothing and thus Arjun is not her jeeja based upon the logic that relations only form when they are legally made.

So whether purvi says they are are family or not shouldn't matter because relations are only formed legally. And if they show she wasn't adopted then there is no relation at all regardless of her saying it or not.


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Posted: 12 years ago
It does matter coz she keeps saying it , she INSISTS on it . And as long as she says it , her hypocrisy will be pointed out . The moment she does not say it , nobody will say this . But its too late for that now . U see , if the reality is said , Manav ceases to be her Baba and Soham and Sachu her Dadas . Hell , she could get married to them and become Ovi's bhabhi . Its her personal CHOICE to make them family and she is an adult entitled to her personal choices . In reality she is not even adopted , with a single foster parent , bas . Stop the hypocrisy and no one will say anything to her .[ i'm saying this about Purvi .]
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

It does matter coz she keeps saying it , she INSISTS on it . And as long as she says it , her hypocrisy will be pointed out . The moment she does not say it , nobody will say this . But its too late for that now . U see , if the reality is said , Manav caeses to be her Baba and Soham and Sachu her Dadas . Hell , she could get married to them and become Ovi's bhabhi . Its her personal CHOICE to make them family and she is an adult entitled to her personal choices . In reality she is not even adopted , with a single foster parent , bas . Stop the hypocrisy and no one will say anything to her .


But like it was argued earlier by others that simply saying a relation is happening does that make a relation happen. Legality is needed for a relation to exist. So hypocrisy or not, there's no actual relation.

Personally for me purvi and Arjun are considered jeeja-saali right now because for me ive akways considered ovi and purvi as sisters.

Similarly I believe Arjun was ovi's jeeju when purvi was engaged to him. And vice-versa.

And wasn't purvi slapped etc when it was found out Arjun was actually to be Ovi's husband. Purvi did not know this right away either. . But she was punished for this by the Archu slaps. It was only after their love was proven that they were allowed to marry. And after someone gets shot for you, how do you refuse marriage to them especially when you love them.

Ovi knowingly took Arjun from Purvi despite knowing Arjun went thru so much to marry her. For this I can never forgive Ovi. She was the home wrecker here. Similarly I could never forgive purvi for leaving Arjun in a heartbeat.



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Posted: 12 years ago
the problem comes with half acceptance...
Arjun was comitted to Ovi...then he felt his true love for Purvi...then Arjun got engaged to Ovi...at this time Purvi accepted Archu's family as her family by calling Manav as Baba and Sachin as dada and Savitha as aaji and Damo as Ajuba and Vandu as Athya, she considered Teju as friend as Ovi as Ovi mam...at this situation as she accepted relations half, Arjun will be half honewala jeeju for Purvi...then Arjun broke his engagement with Ovi, then Arjun becomes lover and broken-honewala-half-jeeju...Arjun proved his love towards Purvi by accepting Archu's challenge, but Purvi couldn't prove her love by overriding Archu's decion on Ovi's deal...at this time Ovi did not consider Purvi as her sister so Arjun was never jeeju for her...
so the wedding happened, now as Purvi quotes she always wanted Archu's happiness and so much more Ovi's happiness...but she made the wedding happened by hiding the truth, still I consider her decision as now-a-days jamana considers pre-marital sex is okay...butPurvi portrayed her character as a person who cannot have boyfriend but ended up with premarital sex, which didnot suit her character at all...
Purvi got to know she is pregnant with Arjun sprem...I still respect her decision of holding the baby as she couldn't go for other man and that baby will be sahara for her...but she married Onir, she eye-locks with Arjun, she controls Arjun, she switched babies...all this made Purvi as bad female...
its not about jeeju-saali relationship...its about your respect and values...
if purvi married to onir for society reasons then she should keep distance from Arjun, she shouldnot come between Arjun and Ovi...she doesn't have any right to ask Ovi to replace her bio with pyaar ki nishani...
and even now if she thinks what sh edid is right, then she should tell Archu whatever happened while she was in coma...Purvi went everythime to Archu to tell her kaands while Archu was in coma but now why she is stopping Ovi not tell Archu anything...now please don't tell me the reason Purvi loves Archu so much, purvi is doing this because manav doesn't want...if Purvi really cared for Archu then she should have told the truth to her when she got to know she is pregnant of Arjun...
Purvi's character became very bad from the time she made Arjun-Ovi wedding consumated even after knowing she is pregannt and that will create more problems in the future...

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